Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
And also a school with a STRONG alumni association, or go to a LOCAL school and network. Especially for a field like CS, the networking and internships trumps ranking, and your ROI is much higher.
And that the alumni power has to deal with the school, not the size. DC's LAC is undoubtedly tiny, but the alum network is very very powerful, and alum even reach out sometimes. Meanwhile at DS's big state school known for its connections, he's really struggled to connect with alum and have the same type of experience as DC, and he's the more social child! You have to tap into that alumni pool to get the unique positions that people want after an elite college
Don't believe a word of this until the poster names the schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
And also a school with a STRONG alumni association, or go to a LOCAL school and network. Especially for a field like CS, the networking and internships trumps ranking, and your ROI is much higher.
And that the alumni power has to deal with the school, not the size. DC's LAC is undoubtedly tiny, but the alum network is very very powerful, and alum even reach out sometimes. Meanwhile at DS's big state school known for its connections, he's really struggled to connect with alum and have the same type of experience as DC, and he's the more social child! You have to tap into that alumni pool to get the unique positions that people want after an elite college
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
And also a school with a STRONG alumni association, or go to a LOCAL school and network. Especially for a field like CS, the networking and internships trumps ranking, and your ROI is much higher.
And that the alumni power has to deal with the school, not the size. DC's LAC is undoubtedly tiny, but the alum network is very very powerful, and alum even reach out sometimes. Meanwhile at DS's big state school known for its connections, he's really struggled to connect with alum and have the same type of experience as DC, and he's the more social child! You have to tap into that alumni pool to get the unique positions that people want after an elite college
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD '24 graduated from HYP with a physics major and...is currently teaching at a boarding school, because she couldn't find work. 4.0 with a lot of research and tech skills but just couldn't get anything. Most of her friends are off to med school or fellowships, so she's feeling a bit distraught. I feel horrible and like I failed to support, but I know she'll figure it out.
DS ‘24 graduated with chem degree and will be teaching hs chemistry at a private school (while getting a paid-for masters from Penn) and I am exceptionally proud. This was his ( and my) first choice! More smart people should go into education
This is true until you’re 35 and realize all the "dumb" people make 3-4x as much as you and you can't afford to buy a house.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Total conflict of interest and fireable (like walked outta the building fireable) offense. Which agency is this?
DP. It goes on at many agencies, probably at your agency too.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD '24 graduated from HYP with a physics major and...is currently teaching at a boarding school, because she couldn't find work. 4.0 with a lot of research and tech skills but just couldn't get anything. Most of her friends are off to med school or fellowships, so she's feeling a bit distraught. I feel horrible and like I failed to support, but I know she'll figure it out.
DS ‘24 graduated with chem degree and will be teaching hs chemistry at a private school (while getting a paid-for masters from Penn) and I am exceptionally proud. This was his ( and my) first choice! More smart people should go into education
Anonymous wrote:DD '24 graduated from HYP with a physics major and...is currently teaching at a boarding school, because she couldn't find work. 4.0 with a lot of research and tech skills but just couldn't get anything. Most of her friends are off to med school or fellowships, so she's feeling a bit distraught. I feel horrible and like I failed to support, but I know she'll figure it out.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
And also a school with a STRONG alumni association, or go to a LOCAL school and network. Especially for a field like CS, the networking and internships trumps ranking, and your ROI is much higher.
And that the alumni power has to deal with the school, not the size. DC's LAC is undoubtedly tiny, but the alum network is very very powerful, and alum even reach out sometimes. Meanwhile at DS's big state school known for its connections, he's really struggled to connect with alum and have the same type of experience as DC, and he's the more social child! You have to tap into that alumni pool to get the unique positions that people want after an elite college
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
And also a school with a STRONG alumni association, or go to a LOCAL school and network. Especially for a field like CS, the networking and internships trumps ranking, and your ROI is much higher.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
I wrote that earlier post and of course the mob interpreted as just get a 2.0 and join a frat.
My point was get a decent GPA…but the marginal effort to get a 4.0 vs a 3.5 is massive and absolutely not worth it if it comes at the expense of building your peer and professional network (which is often what happens).
It’s not the bottom of the list…but yeah it’s 4 or 5 on the list (out of 10).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Both DS and DD recently graduated on May '24 along with three other nieces and nephews:
- DS graduated from Ivy and still looking for a job, had internships in both sophomore and junior year,
- DD graduated from Duke and is still looking for a job,
- Nephew #1 graduated from JMU. Received a job offer from a financial service because he was an athlete at JMU, and that job via athletic alumni,
- Nephew #2 graduated from UCLA; got a job offer from one of the political donor connections because he played music at one of the private fund-raising events, and made friends with several young people at the event. Their parents are rich political donors,
Niece #1 graduated from UNC; got a job offer as a government contractor PM job because her father is a SES in the government,
Both DS and DD are still looking. Without "networking" with decision makers, it is difficult to land a job these days. They both now realized that it is not the school you attended, it is who you know that matters. FWIW, nephew #1 is trying to leverage his skills to get both DS and DD a job where he is at.
Hahaha the ethically challenged SES put pressure on the gov contractor to hire his kid
Disgusting
I've seen SES card play many times in my 30+ years of gov't contracting.
OP - what did you DS and DD major in?
Total conflict of interest and fireable (like walked outta the building fireable) offense. Which agency is this?
DP. It goes on at many agencies, probably at your agency too.
Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.
Anonymous wrote:As some PP mentioned, GPAs should be near the bottom of the priority list, unless you go to law or med school. Connections and networking should be the number one priority on the list, because they will get you jobs after graduation. My Ivy kids learned that too late.