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Anonymous wrote:It is odd that he would only date or marry one of them when clearly the other one is involved. I can’t imagine how awkward sex may be with literally two people who can talk but one body essentially. Does Brittany just have to be quiet?

That's kind of the only option isn't it? I mean, we all only get to legally marry one person...

It doesn't seem like a "sister wives" situation where the guy is married to one, but in love with both. Everything people have discussed or read seems to indicate that he is only in love with Abby, which leaves Brittany in a weird place. To me, it would make more sense if he said he loved both, but could only marry one legally, but the way this set-up has been described has a lot of people asking what about Brittany?

Anonymous wrote:Raises interesting questions about consent.
It's not quite the same as "I want to see movie A and you want to see movie B" or "I want to sightsee and you want to read by the pool."
I am happy for Abby, but I hope Brittany is happy too.

+1

In a life literally filled with constant compromise you hope they have each found a way to both experience peace and joy that is not at the expense of the other.

They share their lives publicly which can be appreciated and of course they are under no obligation to explain their logistics with us.

So one can only wonder, hypothesize, and hope.

I don’t view that level of curiosity offensive at all. But others might. And that’s ok. It also probably means this is not the thread for you.

Anonymous wrote:It is odd that he would only date or marry one of them when clearly the other one is involved. I can’t imagine how awkward sex may be with literally two people who can talk but one body essentially. Does Brittany just have to be quiet?

That's kind of the only option isn't it? I mean, we all only get to legally marry one person...

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.today.com/today/amp/rcna145275

I watched these beautiful and brave girls on their TLC show. How wonderful that Abby has found love.

Abby, 34, is now married. According to public records, Abby, a teacher, and Josh Bowling, a nurse and United States Army veteran, tied the knot in 2021. The sisters also shared photos of the wedding on social media. The couple live in Minnesota, where the Hensels were born and raised.

The sisters are both teaching fifth grade in Minnesota.

I mean...obviously?

Surprising. I knew one was a fifth grade teacher in Minnesota. But I thought the other was a rodeo clown in New Mexico.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.today.com/today/amp/rcna145275

I watched these beautiful and brave girls on their TLC show. How wonderful that Abby has found love.

Abby, 34, is now married. According to public records, Abby, a teacher, and Josh Bowling, a nurse and United States Army veteran, tied the knot in 2021. The sisters also shared photos of the wedding on social media. The couple live in Minnesota, where the Hensels were born and raised.

The sisters are both teaching fifth grade in Minnesota.

I mean...obviously?

Surprising. I knew one was a fifth grade teacher in Minnesota. But I thought the other was a rodeo clown in New Mexico.

Omg THANK YOU. I am still laughing out loud.

Raises interesting questions about consent.
It's not quite the same as "I want to see movie A and you want to see movie B" or "I want to sightsee and you want to read by the pool."
I am happy for Abby, but I hope Brittany is happy too.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.today.com/today/amp/rcna145275

I watched these beautiful and brave girls on their TLC show. How wonderful that Abby has found love.

Abby, 34, is now married. According to public records, Abby, a teacher, and Josh Bowling, a nurse and United States Army veteran, tied the knot in 2021. The sisters also shared photos of the wedding on social media. The couple live in Minnesota, where the Hensels were born and raised.

The sisters are both teaching fifth grade in Minnesota.

I mean...obviously?

Surprising. I knew one was a fifth grade teacher in Minnesota. But I thought the other was a rodeo clown in New Mexico.

Anonymous wrote:https://www.today.com/today/amp/rcna145275

I watched these beautiful and brave girls on their TLC show. How wonderful that Abby has found love.

Abby, 34, is now married. According to public records, Abby, a teacher, and Josh Bowling, a nurse and United States Army veteran, tied the knot in 2021. The sisters also shared photos of the wedding on social media. The couple live in Minnesota, where the Hensels were born and raised.

The sisters are both teaching fifth grade in Minnesota.

I mean...obviously?

What if Brittany doesn’t like the husband? How awkward would that be?

I guess Brittany is now stuck. Whichever twin fell in love first will determine the course of their lives. Now if Brittany wanted to date someone else, it wouldn’t work. How would the husband feel?

He only really looked at Abby, he only kissed Abby and all the monogramming at the rehearsal and wedding was A and J. Prior to deletion the Facebook page also only spoke of Abby as being the daughter in law (the wedding was back in 2021).

Brittany does look at him and her arm is around his neck when they dance but there is no indication otherwise that they are in a 3 way relationship. I am sure she approves of him and the relationship and they would have talked about it a lot but what are the chances that both women would fall for the same guy and that he would fall for both of them. Pretty slim.

She is really the only one I feel for in this. Not because of the sex question but it is a huge sacrifice on her part and potentially she is giving up a chance at romance and love to be sure Abby gets it. And you have to feel like a third wheel. The videos where he and Abby were kissing and looking into each others eyes and Brittany is just there...that has to be a little soul destroying.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently the groom’s mom posted a bunch of videos and then deleted her Facebook page after all the attention. In them you see them dancing at the wedding and it does seem he only makes eye contact with Abby. Their relationship seems more normal if all 3 are in it together but maybe just Abby is the one who
Is in a relationship.

The wedding dress was over Brittany's shoulder, so she was dressed as the bride too.

Yeah…. I mean do you think they would do a half-and-half dress? They only have two shoulders, it’s not as if they can wear different “outfits”.

What happens if Brittany decides to get married too?

Anonymous wrote:Apparently the groom’s mom posted a bunch of videos and then deleted her Facebook page after all the attention. In them you see them dancing at the wedding and it does seem he only makes eye contact with Abby. Their relationship seems more normal if all 3 are in it together but maybe just Abby is the one who
Is in a relationship.

The wedding dress was over Brittany's shoulder, so she was dressed as the bride too.

It is odd that he would only date or marry one of them when clearly the other one is involved. I can’t imagine how awkward sex may be with literally two people who can talk but one body essentially. Does Brittany just have to be quiet?