Anonymous wrote:Can you tell me if me and the guy I was talking to from a distance will talk again? I haven't heard from him in almost 2 weeks. What does he think of me?

Hello! I really appreciate your patience with me. I just tried 3 times to pull cards and for some reason, I cannot connect with this reading. Do you know anyone in his family that you can ask if he is okay or that everyone in his family is okay? I will say if you find out that everything is alright in his world (through family or social media), that truly is all that you need to know.

How about this. For now, try to work on yourself and not focusing on him. Give it a week or so and see what you find out. Come back, ask a new question and I will try again. I really am sorry and I am unsure as to why I am having difficulty reading into your situation.

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Anonymous wrote:Hi! Apologies if this isn't your forte, but can you tell what kind of company I will work at next (like what industry), as well as how soon I'll find a job? Thanks!

Unfortunately this is not my forte, but during a reading yesterday I had something happen during an in depth reading that is making me want to develop other aspects of what I do. So I will let you know what I tried with your questions. As I was shuffling the cards, I asked what company you will work at next and heard the word TRAVEL pop into my head. So perhaps your next company will require travel as part of the job or maybe you will be working in the travel industry. The cards that popped out are not really related to your career, but instead you and they gave me the feeling that you need to be more introspective and look within yourself to figure out what you really want. You seem to be in a not so happy space at the moment and you are having difficulties making things happen, like you are blocked.

I don't know if that helps, but I hope it does. I tend to read the energy surrounding a situation, so if this response has prompted any questions, I can read the energy surrounding your inquiry.

This is interesting to think about. I can't comment on whether travel will be part of my next job but might feel a bit stuck. I think you picked up on my energy correctly.

Anonymous wrote:Hi! Apologies if this isn't your forte, but can you tell what kind of company I will work at next (like what industry), as well as how soon I'll find a job? Thanks!

Unfortunately this is not my forte, but during a reading yesterday I had something happen during an in depth reading that is making me want to develop other aspects of what I do. So I will let you know what I tried with your questions. As I was shuffling the cards, I asked what company you will work at next and heard the word TRAVEL pop into my head. So perhaps your next company will require travel as part of the job or maybe you will be working in the travel industry. The cards that popped out are not really related to your career, but instead you and they gave me the feeling that you need to be more introspective and look within yourself to figure out what you really want. You seem to be in a not so happy space at the moment and you are having difficulties making things happen, like you are blocked.

I don't know if that helps, but I hope it does. I tend to read the energy surrounding a situation, so if this response has prompted any questions, I can read the energy surrounding your inquiry.

Is this person meant to be in my life? I think of them every day and wonder. Any insight you could give would help my peace of mind.

What can I do about the imposter syndrome I feel every day at my job.

Any advice for me? I have huge troubles opening up to people and I'm basically friendless. I'm trying to change this, I realized how isolated I've become especially during covid where I didn't speak to anyone for weeks.I have this overwhelming feeling that I'm bothering people if I talk to them and I shouldn't make a nuisance of myself because I'm not worth talking to. This has been a problem since I was young. Obviously big self esteem issues... Any insight and advice?

Anonymous wrote:I would love to know what is going to happen with my job. Should I leave my current organization and should I look for a job in the same field or go in another direction? Should I consider a commuter marriage and go elsewhere for more opportunities?

Hello! I pulled a few cards.

Current Organization: X of Cups and The Fool. The 10 of cups is a card of emotional happiness and The Fool is a card of new beginnings. If you stay where you are, you may have a new beginning coming up, like a promotion. It could also indicate that perhaps you will start to look at what you are doing from a different perspective and find contentment there once again.

Looking For a Job In The Same Field: Hanged Man in reverse and the 4 of Cups. The Hangman in reverse suggests being stuck and the 4 of Cups is suggesting apathy and not accepting something. I feel like you may feel your current path in this field is becoming boring and should you be offered a job in the same field, that you may end up rejecting it.

Different Direction: Strength reversed and 2 of Wands reversed. The 2 of Wands suggests a lack of foresight and Strength reverse is suggesting self doubt. It feels like this option is an impulsive idea to me and could make you revaluate taking this path if that is how you choose to go.

Commuter Marriage: Page of Pentacles and the 7 of Cups. The Page represents a financial opportunity and the 7 of Cups represents a decision to be made. However, the wrong decision can come with negative consequences so it is imperative that you think everything through as thoroughly as possible.

So the least risk would be staying put for now and seeing if perhaps a new opportunity will pop up there. The commuter marriage also seems promising, but definitely a bigger risk than staying where you are. Intuitively, I feel that you should stay put for now and revisit this in a few months...and I honestly think that is what the cards are saying as well with the 10 of Cups and The Fool.

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Anonymous wrote:Hi OP,

It’s really kind of you to do this for your fellow DCUM’ers. I hope the goodness comes right back to you.

I’m wondering - should we leave DC? We love it here and our kids school community has been a grounding force for us all, even when stuff went virtual. Beyond that, however, I’m just not sure I can see a future here when I close my eyes. I can’t see one anywhere else specific either. What’s best for our family?

Thanks so much for your insight (if you’re able to get to it). Hope you had a nice trip.

Hello! I pulled the Knight of Cups reversed with The Tower and the word ANXIETY when I asked what I need to know about this situation. I feel like you may be trying to find perfection and that is causing you anxiety. With the Tower card, I am feeling that you need to look within to see what you can change within yourself to bring your answer to light. You said that you can't see a future anywhere is telling me that something is blocking you at the moment and you need to dig deep to figure out what that is. I think we tend to think moving somewhere will be good because it's fresh energy. While that can be true, it is only true when you are doing it because you want to and not because you feel it will make things get better. I hope that makes sense!

I asked again what is best for the family and I got the Ace of Cups reversed as well as the 3 of Pentacles reversed with the word LOVE. The Ace actually talks about feeling depleted and the need for self care. The 3 of Pentacles is about feeling burnt out and with LOVE supporting both these cards, I think you really need to dig deep and take care of yourself first.

If you love it here, what is it that is making you feel you want to leave? Try and meditate on that question and see what comes up. None of this means that a move can't happen in the future but the cards are dealing with right now. Right now it looks like you need to recharge yourself and figure out what this blockage may be.

This is ridiculously on point. I’m going to think on it for a while and will likely reach out to you directly.

Thank you a hundred times for your generosity and insight.

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Anonymous wrote:Can you tell me if me and the guy I was talking to from a distance will talk again? I haven't heard from him in almost 2 weeks. What does he think of me?

Help please?

I will get to you, I promise, but I still have a couple people ahead of you and I just finished an in depth reading. I will say this in the meantime. If he disappeared with no good reason and is ignoring you on purpose, this is not someone who deserves you or your time. It shouldn't matter what he thinks of you, because you need to see your worth and people who do what he did prey on those who are kind and generous. You should settle for no less than what you give.

I apologize for the delay, but I will hopefully get to this reading in the next day or so.

Anonymous wrote:Can you tell me if me and the guy I was talking to from a distance will talk again? I haven't heard from him in almost 2 weeks. What does he think of me?

Help please?

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Anonymous wrote:OP tarot card reader, if you are still reading and answering questions, can you give me some career guidance? Is it worth it to keep applying to jobs? Will I ever get another opportunity? What am I doing wrong? What direction should I be going in? Why doesn't it dawn on my employer that they should offer to pay me more?

Hey there! I do want to do a reading for you and answer everything you may have, but there are too many questions for me to answer on here. There is the option to email me for a 10 minute in depth reading (still free, you receive an audio, email is in the original post) or if you wouldn't mind limiting it to just one or two.

Thank you! Sorry for so many questions! How about, is it worth it to keep applying for jobs? What direction should I be going on? Thanks!

Hello! In regards to if it's worth it to keep applying for jobs, I got the Ace of Cups and the King of Wands. The Ace of Cups suggests a new opportunity coming in and the King suggests taking a leadership role. It feels like should you keep applying, you will have a new opportunity come in that will allow you to take on a role that provides you with healthy challenges.

I asked what if they stay where they are and pulled the 4 of Cups in reverse and the Knight of Cups. The 4 suggests you being stuck and the Knight suggests offers or new projects. So if you are currently feeling stuck in your situation, a new project could come in helping break up that routine.

I pulled two final cards. I asked what is the outcome of the Ace and King and pulled the 7 of Swords. I asked the outcome for the 4 of Cups and Knight and pulled the 8 of wands.

So should you take this new offer that offers you a leadership role, the offer may look better than it is. Sort of a bait and switch. The 7 of Swords is suggesting trickery and I feel like you may regret taking that offer in the end. However, should you stay where you are (4 of Cups and Knight of Cups), there may be upward movement in the future. This is suggested by the 8 of Wands and the Knight as well.

I think you should pause the job search and give it a bit more time where you are. If in a month or two nothing is changing, start the search again. Should you choose to keep looking and applying, if you are indeed given an offer, make sure you think through if that is really what you want to do. Perhaps talking to your higher ups in your current job and letting it be known you want to take on something new may be what you need.

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Anonymous wrote:Hi OP,

It’s really kind of you to do this for your fellow DCUM’ers. I hope the goodness comes right back to you.

I’m wondering - should we leave DC? We love it here and our kids school community has been a grounding force for us all, even when stuff went virtual. Beyond that, however, I’m just not sure I can see a future here when I close my eyes. I can’t see one anywhere else specific either. What’s best for our family?

Thanks so much for your insight (if you’re able to get to it). Hope you had a nice trip.

Hi OP,

I’m the poster above. If you have time, will you please let me know that you’re not avoiding my question bc you pulled a bunch of bad cards or something? I know you’re busy and you don’t need to do a reading for me! I’m just wondering if you saw something ugly you don’t want to share.

Oh WOW! I was typing out your response when you posted this!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP,

It’s really kind of you to do this for your fellow DCUM’ers. I hope the goodness comes right back to you.

I’m wondering - should we leave DC? We love it here and our kids school community has been a grounding force for us all, even when stuff went virtual. Beyond that, however, I’m just not sure I can see a future here when I close my eyes. I can’t see one anywhere else specific either. What’s best for our family?

Thanks so much for your insight (if you’re able to get to it). Hope you had a nice trip.

Hello! I pulled the Knight of Cups reversed with The Tower and the word ANXIETY when I asked what I need to know about this situation. I feel like you may be trying to find perfection and that is causing you anxiety. With the Tower card, I am feeling that you need to look within to see what you can change within yourself to bring your answer to light. You said that you can't see a future anywhere is telling me that something is blocking you at the moment and you need to dig deep to figure out what that is. I think we tend to think moving somewhere will be good because it's fresh energy. While that can be true, it is only true when you are doing it because you want to and not because you feel it will make things get better. I hope that makes sense!

I asked again what is best for the family and I got the Ace of Cups reversed as well as the 3 of Pentacles reversed with the word LOVE. The Ace actually talks about feeling depleted and the need for self care. The 3 of Pentacles is about feeling burnt out and with LOVE supporting both these cards, I think you really need to dig deep and take care of yourself first.

If you love it here, what is it that is making you feel you want to leave? Try and meditate on that question and see what comes up. None of this means that a move can't happen in the future but the cards are dealing with right now. Right now it looks like you need to recharge yourself and figure out what this blockage may be.

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP,

It’s really kind of you to do this for your fellow DCUM’ers. I hope the goodness comes right back to you.

I’m wondering - should we leave DC? We love it here and our kids school community has been a grounding force for us all, even when stuff went virtual. Beyond that, however, I’m just not sure I can see a future here when I close my eyes. I can’t see one anywhere else specific either. What’s best for our family?

Thanks so much for your insight (if you’re able to get to it). Hope you had a nice trip.

Hi OP,

I’m the poster above. If you have time, will you please let me know that you’re not avoiding my question bc you pulled a bunch of bad cards or something? I know you’re busy and you don’t need to do a reading for me! I’m just wondering if you saw something ugly you don’t want to share.

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP Reader, and Thank you! What an amazing thread!

If you have time, my question is this: Have we chosen the right educational path for my oldest child—socially, psychologically, and emotionally? Is this a good path for him in those ways?

Thank you!

Hello! I have pulled the cards UPHEAVAL, THE KEY, with the words SEPARATION and STRENGTH, as well as the 7 of Pentacles and Judgement reversed.

So I feel there was a big happening that led to you choosing this path for your child. The Key card is suggesting to me that this is the right path and that you may have unlocked what they need to grow. I am unsure whether or not the separation card means physical distance or emotional distance, but it feels like some separation and strength is needed on your part for this process to work for them.

When I asked a second time if this is the right path, that is when I pulled the 7 of Pentacles and Judgement in reverse. You have planted these seeds and now you need to be patient and wait for them to grow. It will take time. Judgement in reverse means you could possibly be regretting making this decision, but it will take time to know fully what the outcome of this choice will be. I cannot say for sure if this is the right path, but it feels like it was a path that you HAD to take as there was not other option. You have to try and stay present and not worry about what ifs. What is done is done and the future hasn't happened yet. So take it day by day and know that you always have choices.

I pulled a message card for you and it says LUCK IS ON YOUR SIDE.