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Anonymous wrote:They were photographed all week.

It’s super weird that her kids and Ben aren’t in the Hamptons as well

I love the way Violet dresses. Such a cute nerdy girl vibe.

I think she seems nerdy and I know she made that speech about masking but I feel like it is a defense mechanism/anxiety issue at this point. She’s masking outside in 95 degree weather in NY?

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Anonymous wrote:They were photographed all week.

It’s super weird that her kids and Ben aren’t in the Hamptons as well

I love the way Violet dresses. Such a cute nerdy girl vibe.

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Anonymous wrote:They were photographed all week.

It’s super weird that her kids and Ben aren’t in the Hamptons as well

I love the way Violet dresses. Such a cute nerdy girl vibe.

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Anonymous wrote:They were photographed all week.

It’s super weird that her kids and Ben aren’t in the Hamptons as well

I love the way Violet dresses. Such a cute nerdy girl vibe.

Anonymous wrote:They were photographed all week.

It’s super weird that her kids and Ben aren’t in the Hamptons as well

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First they were moving to Europe, nowNY?

Anonymous wrote:Violet and Jen out in the Hamptons all week.
Ben’s in LA.
Where are her actual kids?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why anyone would need 24 bathrooms. I don’t understand houses like this. Why would you want to live here with your family?

Don’t tell me you like to host a big Thanksgiving. The whole thing screams mental illness.

right! Even if there were 24 people over, does everyone go to the bathroom at the exact same time?

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Anonymous wrote:Violet and Jennifer were in the Hamptons.

They are all in the Hamptons. They are moving to NY full time, not divorcing, and all is just fine.

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Anonymous wrote:she clearly cares a lot what others think - otherwise she wouldn’t make two movies about ben. why couldn’t she just be with him? because she wanted us to know how perfect her relationship is.

The movie isn't about Ben, it's about her.

The movie is called This is me Now..A Love Story.

So the love story is to herself?

This is part of the confusion behind this project and why people are calling her a narcissist . Why would it take someone like Ben to teach her how to love herself? He barely loves himself and generally seems like a self loathing downer about life .

In the documentary, Ben says he realized that the movie wasn't about him, but about Jennifer loving herself. Now the movie's story does support this narrative when it's ending with her alone and smiling, until the very end when Ben shows up (though you don't see his entire face but we all know it's him) and that seems to be the karmic reward for Lopez finding self-acceptance. It should have ended with empowered Lopez standing by herself. Have you seen it?

Yes. I don’t understand the purpose of it. It’s like she was making fun of herself as one big SNL skit. Who cares that she was married four times? Most celebrities particularly popstars have been divorced twice . Britney’s just gone through her third divorce . The same amount as J Lo. I don’t understand why J Lo wanted to spend 30 million dollars to tell us what we all know: that she sees Ben as her soulmate . Is she really that proud of being Ben’s girl? Why would she think a drunk , gambler, and cheat is her Prince Charming?

She was just as cringy when she was with arod. I remember the last time ( I think ) she hosted SNL and she was with him. Her monologue was so cringe because she needed to broadcast her relationship with a NY Yankee. It's another source of attention for her. She will never have a quiet relationship. It's about getting attention. Also the show seemed to be a narc fest. Most hosts get some of the jokes directed back at them or they do skits that don't make them appear so perfect. As I recall a lot of the humour was about how hot she was. The writers allowed her to turn it into a narc fest. I had been supportive of her and was very disappointed.

Anonymous wrote:Violet and Jennifer were in the Hamptons.

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Anonymous wrote:Violet and Jennifer were in the Hamptons.

Did Violet wear her mask?

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why anyone would need 24 bathrooms. I don’t understand houses like this. Why would you want to live here with your family?

Don’t tell me you like to host a big Thanksgiving. The whole thing screams mental illness.