Anonymous wrote:Ben is rich, famous and aside from the white trash back tattoo is attractive for his age. Why wouldn’t a broke D List nobody 30-something gal want to be with him?

You all do realize basically every actress in Hollywood “earns” parts from Harvey Weinstein type slobs, right?

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know who she was until this relationship. How many times was she in the tabloids before Ben vs. after? Ben undoubtedly has close contacts throughout Hollywood and absolutely can help boost her career. Who knows though, maybe she fell for the guy and is in it for love!

I knew who she was from having seen her in films. I do not gauge someone's value or talent from their appearances in the tabloids.

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His cigarette really classes up the photo. /s

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know who she was until this relationship. How many times was she in the tabloids before Ben vs. after? Ben undoubtedly has close contacts throughout Hollywood and absolutely can help boost her career. Who knows though, maybe she fell for the guy and is in it for love!

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Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.

Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”

I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.

Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.

Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.

And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?

She thinks she's different. He's telling her he's never been in love like this before. He's telling her he's a changed man and acting like one too. He's handsome and wealthy and charming and she's in love.

When the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to bet it will end similarly to all his other relationships. Especially if they end up having a kid.

She doesn't think she's different she knows what she's doing. She's a 30 something woman, which in Hollywood land is old, she has been trying to make it big for years, and hasn't. She's tried unsuccessfully to attach herself to her other male costars, Ben took, the bait, and she's using it for her benefit, jobs, getting her name out their and money.

Who did she "attach" herself too?
She has a storming career in her own right I believe
Are you from the Victorian era or the 1950s because your thinking is stunted. Ever heard of feminism?

Keanu Reeves
Ryan Gosling
Chris Evans

It's working with Ben. She's been trying to be the next big thing in Hollywood for many years, now and it hasn't really worked until this thing with Ben. Nothing to do with feminism

where did you get these names?
Keanu has been with his partner for years
Gosling has been married for years
Chris Evans I might believe because he is putting it around town. And you assume she wants to "attach" herself - why not just be up for a casual fxxk? why does she have to be looking to "attach" You are ridiculous.

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Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.

Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”

I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.

Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.

Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.

And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?

She thinks she's different. He's telling her he's never been in love like this before. He's telling her he's a changed man and acting like one too. He's handsome and wealthy and charming and she's in love.

When the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to bet it will end similarly to all his other relationships. Especially if they end up having a kid.

She doesn't think she's different she knows what she's doing. She's a 30 something woman, which in Hollywood land is old, she has been trying to make it big for years, and hasn't. She's tried unsuccessfully to attach herself to her other male costars, Ben took, the bait, and she's using it for her benefit, jobs, getting her name out their and money.

Who did she "attach" herself too?
She has a storming career in her own right I believe
Are you from the Victorian era or the 1950s because your thinking is stunted. Ever heard of feminism?

Keanu Reeves
Ryan Gosling
Chris Evans

It's working with Ben. She's been trying to be the next big thing in Hollywood for many years, now and it hasn't really worked until this thing with Ben. Nothing to do with feminism

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Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.

Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”

I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.

Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.

Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.

And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?

She thinks she's different. He's telling her he's never been in love like this before. He's telling her he's a changed man and acting like one too. He's handsome and wealthy and charming and she's in love.

When the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to bet it will end similarly to all his other relationships. Especially if they end up having a kid.

She doesn't think she's different she knows what she's doing. She's a 30 something woman, which in Hollywood land is old, she has been trying to make it big for years, and hasn't. She's tried unsuccessfully to attach herself to her other male costars, Ben took, the bait, and she's using it for her benefit, jobs, getting her name out their and money.

Who did she "attach" herself too?
She has a storming career in her own right I believe
Are you from the Victorian era or the 1950s because your thinking is stunted. Ever heard of feminism?

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Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.

Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”

I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.

Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.

Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.

And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?

She thinks she's different. He's telling her he's never been in love like this before. He's telling her he's a changed man and acting like one too. He's handsome and wealthy and charming and she's in love.

When the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to bet it will end similarly to all his other relationships. Especially if they end up having a kid.

She doesn't think she's different she knows what she's doing. She's a 30 something woman, which in Hollywood land is old, she has been trying to make it big for years, and hasn't. She's tried unsuccessfully to attach herself to her other male costars, Ben took, the bait, and she's using it for her benefit, jobs, getting her name out their and money.

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Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.

Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”

I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.

Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.

Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.

And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?

She thinks she's different. He's telling her he's never been in love like this before. He's telling her he's a changed man and acting like one too. He's handsome and wealthy and charming and she's in love.

When the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to bet it will end similarly to all his other relationships. Especially if they end up having a kid.

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Anonymous wrote:Violet (who just turned 15) was an oopsie

Yeah, don't really care about it, but Ben and Jen's marriage was a shotgun wedding and they got together when both of them were with other people.

not just "with" - he was engaged to Jlo

So why doesn’t Jen garner the kind of hatred that Angelina did over Brad?