Anonymous wrote:OP here- WOW! I did not realize my comment would open such a heated exchange! It is interesting to hear the different perspectives. I agree- the bottom line is that raising children is a unique experience regardless of what combination of genders you have. If some parents find an identity or commoradery in their situation, it certainly doesn’t have an impact on my life. I truely did not mean to sound judgemental in my original post. As a new parent, this phenomenon genuinely intrigued me!