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Anonymous wrote:Several PP have advised OP take respite or seek therapy for herself. She won't or can't because in the middle of this type of episode, the person lacks insight that they are ill. I think she might have undiagnosed bipolar. Bipolar can develop when sustained stress or trauma cause the chemical imbalance others inherit genetically.

Op is annoying but so are you. You can't diagnose bipolar because someone's a jerk in the internet. Cool your shorts.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my child, too. I don't want her to be frightened or upset either. If your son gets unfavorable comments or a parent (or nanny - DD's nanny is fiercely protective) raises their voice to your child, it is because we are protecting our own. No other reason.

Try thinking in broader terms.

What broader terms?

Like your kid isn't standing at the very center of the universe. You're setting her up for some serious sad times. Give her a chance to not be such a giant wuss.

No. Just no. My daughter is 14 months old. I have no clue why a large five year old is spitting st her and simply will not allow it even if I did know why. So no.

she never said to allow spitting. she said to have some empathy and not jump to conclusions about why it happened. It is possible to protect your kid and not be a judgmental asshole. but it is much more satisfying to judge the other mom and kid, I get that.

Anonymous wrote:Several PP have advised OP take respite or seek therapy for herself. She won't or can't because in the middle of this type of episode, the person lacks insight that they are ill. I think she might have undiagnosed bipolar. Bipolar can develop when sustained stress or trauma cause the chemical imbalance others inherit genetically.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my child, too. I don't want her to be frightened or upset either. If your son gets unfavorable comments or a parent (or nanny - DD's nanny is fiercely protective) raises their voice to your child, it is because we are protecting our own. No other reason.

Try thinking in broader terms.

What broader terms?

Like your kid isn't standing at the very center of the universe. You're setting her up for some serious sad times. Give her a chance to not be such a giant wuss.

No. Just no. My daughter is 14 months old. I have no clue why a large five year old is spitting st her and simply will not allow it even if I did know why. So no.

You are a fool. Having a 14 month old does not make you incredibly special. So do millions of other people. Your kid gets to scream her head off on the plane vecause she's 14 months old and it's developmentally appropriate. My kid blows raspberries in her direction because it's developmentally appropriate for him at 4 when he is autistic. He gets punished and we leave the pool. That's what I'm trying to explain. You'd be so outraged if someone dared to complain that your kid was acting like a baby's my kids acting. Like he acts and I'm monitoring him and taking him away and he's making real progresses I'm not locking him up. You're taking your kid on planes and maybe to brunch. I wouldn't dream. Actually my kids amazing on planes and always was there are some benefits.

You need to be medicated, OP. She never said that she was special for having a 14 month old. She was explaining why she felt protective of her child. You take obnoxious to a whole new level.

Anonymous wrote:OP, your drunk. Go home.
Please take a mental health day because if you are to the point of pointing fingers at everyone except you and your child and you overreact to parents being parents, well then, you need a break.
It will only get harder as your child ages, you won't be able to carry him out of situations. You best deal with that.

Anonymous wrote:The only parent you empathize with is YOURSELF.

and the whole "we can spot each other easily' when referring to other SN parents. Give me a break.
Haven't year heard the saying "If you know one child with Autism, you know ONE child with Autism".

SN mom of a DD with Autism.
You don't know us.

Anonymous wrote:I was in a situation yesterday where I paid for an experience (think: carnival game) for my kids, and a boy came running over and grabbed the equipment from my child and proceeded to do the activity. We were all taken aback, but I immediately assumed the child had special needs. His mother quickly came running over and while she was approaching she said, "He has special needs and doesn't understand. I'm so sorry." And she quickly grabbed him. I said, "No worries, it's totally okay," but she dragged the kid away.

I thought the mom handled it well in terms of quickly running over and giving us a heads up about her child as she was approaching. My kids stood there quietly, and I told the mom it wasn't a problem.

Isn't that the appropriate response all around?

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Anonymous wrote:Good god, op here. Your willful insistence on completely refusing to comprehend what I actually said is amazing. I did it ask for special accommodations. I asked that you keep your babies out of playgrounds marked 3-5 and out of the big kid pool arear for 3-5 when there are baby parks and baby playgrounds. You hover over your kids creating a huge logistical block for those of us with kids with special needs who need to closely monitor. You also hugely react if my child say blows a raspberry in your direction. That's not hurrying anyone. It's annoying. Maybe it warrants a telling him off but you frankly can't tell off a child with autism for every odd behavior. So parents telling me, your child just spit at me, etc. these are the issues I'm talking about. My kid isn't aggressive he is odd and it confuses parents more than children.

If you have a hard time believing that my child hasn't been yelled at numerous times for things like making faces at babies, growling at them, spitting, not waiting a turn even when I'm there to hold him back, you don't live in my world and Rabat my point.

As for the other kids with autism being similar I didn't say all but seeking reactions is indeed fairly common.

See, that's not okay

No, it isn't. I cannot imagine my friends with autistic children not leaving immediately when these behaviors start.

And by the way op, not that you care, but some of those kids and parents may be dealing with issues of their own.

We left everytime or we ignored once and then left per the advice of our aba therapist who was usually with us.

I do care actually. One benefit of this whole thing: actual empathy.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my child, too. I don't want her to be frightened or upset either. If your son gets unfavorable comments or a parent (or nanny - DD's nanny is fiercely protective) raises their voice to your child, it is because we are protecting our own. No other reason.

Try thinking in broader terms.

What broader terms?

Like your kid isn't standing at the very center of the universe. You're setting her up for some serious sad times. Give her a chance to not be such a giant wuss.

No. Just no. My daughter is 14 months old. I have no clue why a large five year old is spitting st her and simply will not allow it even if I did know why. So no.

You are a fool. Having a 14 month old does not make you incredibly special. So do millions of other people. Your kid gets to scream her head off on the plane vecause she's 14 months old and it's developmentally appropriate. My kid blows raspberries in her direction because it's developmentally appropriate for him at 4 when he is autistic. He gets punished and we leave the pool. That's what I'm trying to explain. You'd be so outraged if someone dared to complain that your kid was acting like a baby's my kids acting. Like he acts and I'm monitoring him and taking him away and he's making real progresses I'm not locking him up. You're taking your kid on planes and maybe to brunch. I wouldn't dream. Actually my kids amazing on planes and always was there are some benefits.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my child, too. I don't want her to be frightened or upset either. If your son gets unfavorable comments or a parent (or nanny - DD's nanny is fiercely protective) raises their voice to your child, it is because we are protecting our own. No other reason.

Try thinking in broader terms.

What broader terms?

Like your kid isn't standing at the very center of the universe. You're setting her up for some serious sad times. Give her a chance to not be such a giant wuss.