Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:unhappiness is one thing. window shopping is another.
how do you know what's out there unless you go see? Don't be an idiot. Programs and practices are very different from club-to-club. Sometimes you don't know how good you have until you shop around.
Anonymous wrote:unhappiness is one thing. window shopping is another.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If parents would commit to a club without shopping their kid around every year, the process would be a lot less intense
We all know open tryouts aren't really open tryouts, yet a lot of parents seem to treat them as such and get caught up in the whole thing. It's a game on both sides.
Parents are paying $3 k a year per kid. With multiple kids, it really adds up. If they don't like the training, etc. of course they will shop around. We shop around for things that cost a whole lot less than 3 kids playing travel soccer. Also, coaches change/move and sometimes you don't like what you end up with. Maybe there isn't chemistry with a team, etc. Sometimes the team moves into a league with too much travel, etc. The worst is you pay all this $$ before you actually know who will be coaching your kid.
Anonymous wrote:If parents would commit to a club without shopping their kid around every year, the process would be a lot less intense
We all know open tryouts aren't really open tryouts, yet a lot of parents seem to treat them as such and get caught up in the whole thing. It's a game on both sides.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am giggly at the thought of some loser black-balling a kid. All hail--the almighty youth soccer coach. Adults with advanced degrees really worry about this shit? Oh no--coach denied us now will never make a FIFA first team or play for that shitty soccer college. In the big picture, does it really matter?
When you put it that way, it sounds stupid.
But let's put it another way ...
Suppose you have enough commitments to field two teams. Then five of your players bail.
Would you be pissed off? Would other parents be pissed off if the club could no longer field two teams?
If we're talking Arlington or Loudoun or McLean or Vienna or some other club that would just call No. 45 on the list to take No. 23's spot, sure, it's not a big deal. At other clubs, a couple of parents shopping around can create a lot of chaos.
I wish I had a solution short of forcing every travel club to make its offers on the same day.
Anonymous wrote:If your DC can play and is at the top of their age group throughout the area, then it doesn't matter, they will always take you unless the parents are insane troublemakers. Coaches do blackball, but only the players that don't matter anyway, and those players can easily go elsewhere.