I like groping my DH.

Any physical touch from DH would be appreciated...

Not a problem here. Not sure about all the "hate it"s. It seems Youth feels it is disrespectful and Age feels it is love and affection and a sign that he is still turned. I wouldn't care if kids around although he does. We live by the tenent that 'The best thing a man can do for his kids is love their mother.' They'll learn more about manhood from'love' than from rules and boundaries and 'this but niot that', and 'dad, why is mom so hard to please?'. My advice, treat each pass as a 'Honey I love you and you still turn me on". A man rejected has only so many rejections on his punch card before the punch card is full.
Married 16 years.

It's like fart jokes. Some find them amusing, while others don't. There's room for both kinds of people on the planet. There's no room for judging others for their likes, though. Objectively speaking, the fart joke is a silly, juvenile thing, but no judgment--nothing wrong with having fun with whatever silly, juvenile things make us smile in life.

The poster who sneered, belittled, and name-called women who didn't like getting groped is an example of what we don't need. So I don't enjoy fart jokes. That's me. You enjoy fart jokes. That's you. If we marry, and all you ever do is tell fart jokes, I'm going to get sick of you and you're going to find me no fun at all.

If the only way my husband ever physically approached me was to run up and dry hump me, especially if I were tired, overburdened, and trying to get things done while he was just goofing off, it would be annoying. Mine does have this instinct, and his inner teenaged boy sex fiend is always lurking. We get silly and juvenile together, which embarrasses our teens. But he also comes up and hugs me lovingly or massages me or kisses me. He also pitches in when things need to get done.

Anonymous wrote:^get a hobby, PP

Get groped!

^get a hobby, PP

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Anonymous wrote:What a bunch of uptight, boring women. No wonder your husbands are flirting and being "childish" with other women and getting the reaction they need out of it. Maybe you guys should be the ones that grow up and do something that you don't love to make your husband's happy. I'm so happy my husband still loves to flirt and make sexy gestures sometimes. ANd I love flirting back. Uptight little biotches was the first thing that came to my mind reading this thread. Ugh. Horrible.

It's been repeated numerous times in this thread that no one is opposed to flirting and sexy gestures. Rather, we're opposed to juvenile dry-humping, etc. If that gets you going, great, but I prefer not to repeat my HS years.

Who nominated you to speak for the group? Did I miss a meeting or something?

No, you just missed all the posts that echo OP's displeasure.

And you missed all the posts of women who disagreed

-not the pp you are responding to but another one who disagreed with you.

Although I will caveat that I will agree there is a line of appropriateness/not funnyness, the problem is that line is different for every couple. And I would think that by the time you got married you would have at least passively signed off on your husband's line

Then they aren't included in the "we're opposed," are they? Is it necessary to say "the people in the thread who agree with OP don't like....?" No.

Just say "I am opposed" -- let other folks speak for themselves. The "we're opposed" is an appeal to authority of sorts; an effort to give your opinion added weight.

I don't know. He never does.

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Anonymous wrote:What a bunch of uptight, boring women. No wonder your husbands are flirting and being "childish" with other women and getting the reaction they need out of it. Maybe you guys should be the ones that grow up and do something that you don't love to make your husband's happy. I'm so happy my husband still loves to flirt and make sexy gestures sometimes. ANd I love flirting back. Uptight little biotches was the first thing that came to my mind reading this thread. Ugh. Horrible.

It's been repeated numerous times in this thread that no one is opposed to flirting and sexy gestures. Rather, we're opposed to juvenile dry-humping, etc. If that gets you going, great, but I prefer not to repeat my HS years.

Who nominated you to speak for the group? Did I miss a meeting or something?

No, you just missed all the posts that echo OP's displeasure.

And you missed all the posts of women who disagreed

-not the pp you are responding to but another one who disagreed with you.

Although I will caveat that I will agree there is a line of appropriateness/not funnyness, the problem is that line is different for every couple. And I would think that by the time you got married you would have at least passively signed off on your husband's line

Then they aren't included in the "we're opposed," are they? Is it necessary to say "the people in the thread who agree with OP don't like....?" No.

I suppose not but there is a lot of speaking for all women that goes down on this board.

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Anonymous wrote:What a bunch of uptight, boring women. No wonder your husbands are flirting and being "childish" with other women and getting the reaction they need out of it. Maybe you guys should be the ones that grow up and do something that you don't love to make your husband's happy. I'm so happy my husband still loves to flirt and make sexy gestures sometimes. ANd I love flirting back. Uptight little biotches was the first thing that came to my mind reading this thread. Ugh. Horrible.

It's been repeated numerous times in this thread that no one is opposed to flirting and sexy gestures. Rather, we're opposed to juvenile dry-humping, etc. If that gets you going, great, but I prefer not to repeat my HS years.

Who nominated you to speak for the group? Did I miss a meeting or something?

No, you just missed all the posts that echo OP's displeasure.

And you missed all the posts of women who disagreed

-not the pp you are responding to but another one who disagreed with you.

Although I will caveat that I will agree there is a line of appropriateness/not funnyness, the problem is that line is different for every couple. And I would think that by the time you got married you would have at least passively signed off on your husband's line

Then they aren't included in the "we're opposed," are they? Is it necessary to say "the people in the thread who agree with OP don't like....?" No.