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Anonymous wrote:Beard

Ha, no. Does it make any sense at all that a man would choose an overweight, not put together woman for appearances sake? Lol. Might want to rethink the logic on that sweetie.

It absolutely does make sense. Marrying a man who is gay is not an easy lifestyle. No sex, it's like a fake life. Not many beautiful woman are going to sign up for a fake life. But a nice, kind, over weight woman might jump at the offer. The two are together because they want a family and to be normal.

Anonymous wrote:well this thread got weird and racial quickly

please, white women, tell us more of your thoughts on "asians", they are so well thought out and valuable, please bestow your insights on us

White women are just as sick of your stereotypes. Doesn't feel good, does it?

well this thread got weird and racial quickly

please, white women, tell us more of your thoughts on "asians", they are so well thought out and valuable, please bestow your insights on us

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Anonymous wrote:It's sweet. He loves her. I wish I could find I man that would love me with all my flaws.

It helps if you learn to love them yourself. Cheerful women who are content with themselves are sexy.

+1

Some women will never be happy, no matter who they are with. Men know this.

Way to project! I'm very happy.

I moved here from the West Coast about 20 years ago. I noticed that there were some good looking guys with some plain women. On the West Coast, FWIW, the couples are about equal in looks.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

Unless a woman wears sunscreen. I'm white and age much better than all my non-white counterparts of roughly the same age. With the exception of very very dark-skinned ones when... well, you really can't tell, to be frank. None of them are pretty to begin with. I also find that many Asian women have apple-shaped bodies and don't carry weight well at all. Yes, they absolutely get fat just like the rest of us.

I guess we all have our biases

Daily gym goer here who is always looking at bodies. This is the truth!

I work out for my health at this point because I know that it will improve my quality of life and make me feel good. I haven't been "hot" in a long time even though I've been in decent shape.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

^Says the 1950's Good Housewife guide: "How to keep your man".

In reality, a man either has character or he doesn't. If he lacks character he'll sneak around and have women on the side and then blame it on his wife at home. Think of all of the cheating done in Hollywood....

Even Jennifer Aniston got cheated on.

There's always someone else who is better looking and/or better at sex than you.

Exactly. If it can happen to Jennifer, it can happen to anybody.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

Unless a woman wears sunscreen. I'm white and age much better than all my non-white counterparts of roughly the same age. With the exception of very very dark-skinned ones when... well, you really can't tell, to be frank. None of them are pretty to begin with. I also find that many Asian women have apple-shaped bodies and don't carry weight well at all. Yes, they absolutely get fat just like the rest of us.

I guess we all have our biases

Daily gym goer here who is always looking at bodies. This is the truth!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

The normal not crazy and truly beautiful Asians are married to other asians otherwise you get Wendi deng

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

Unless a woman wears sunscreen. I'm white and age much better than all my non-white counterparts of roughly the same age. With the exception of very very dark-skinned ones when... well, you really can't tell, to be frank. None of them are pretty to begin with. I also find that many Asian women have apple-shaped bodies and don't carry weight well at all. Yes, they absolutely get fat just like the rest of us.

I guess we all have our biases

The best looking people - male or female - are the good looking ones who don't make a big deal about being "hot". Their down to earth personalities only make them even nicer.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

ew, yuck yuck. there are a bunch of people on this thread I'm very glad not to be married to, no matter how they look! Why do you all think everything is about looks!

I have also come across mis-matched pairs in terms of superficial "hotness," but instead of looking for reasons to explain it, I take it as a lesson in being less superficial myself. As other posters said, maybe they just fell in love!

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

^Says the 1950's Good Housewife guide: "How to keep your man".

In reality, a man either has character or he doesn't. If he lacks character he'll sneak around and have women on the side and then blame it on his wife at home. Think of all of the cheating done in Hollywood....

Even Jennifer Aniston got cheated on.

There's always someone else who is better looking and/or better at sex than you.