Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A while back, I asked the original poster if she had even considered being a webcam girl and didn't get an answer.

I thought it was a reason able question. They can work from a studio or home, so it would be safer. They can make a ton of money, depending upon what they are willing to do and how many hours they are willing to work.

They can set their own hours.

Webcam girls come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Many much older than the OP are doing quite well.

Countries, and areas within a country can be blocked, to keep people that you don't want to know what you are doing from finding out online. Seems like it would be easier to protect your identity than if stripping in a club.

Also, there are webcam girls that dance and make good money while probably showing less skin than OP does.

Sorry I overlooked that question.

No, I'm not interested in becoming a webcam girl. I don't even know what that is, but I imagine it would involve my computer and my home. So...not interested.

Anonymous wrote:A while back, I asked the original poster if she had even considered being a webcam girl and didn't get an answer.

I thought it was a reason able question. They can work from a studio or home, so it would be safer. They can make a ton of money, depending upon what they are willing to do and how many hours they are willing to work.

They can set their own hours.

Webcam girls come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Many much older than the OP are doing quite well.

Countries, and areas within a country can be blocked, to keep people that you don't want to know what you are doing from finding out online. Seems like it would be easier to protect your identity than if stripping in a club.

Also, there are webcam girls that dance and make good money while probably showing less skin than OP does.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

+1 million. Women love to tear other women to shreds if they disagree with their sexual choices. It's always best to find out the individual stories of others before you attack them, and focus all that energy on helping victims of sexual trafficking- which is terribly rampant, especially underage trafficking, . Some women choose to strip or engage in prostitution. If you're a true feminist, you can disagree with another woman's actions but still allow them that choice without degradation.

Actually it's not -- or in any case nobody has any good numbers on it.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fact-checker/wp/2015/04/24/why-you-should-be-wary-of-statistics-on-modern-slavery-and-trafficking/
http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-watch/wp/2014/03/27/lies-damned-lies-and-sex-work-statistics/
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/04/23/study_of_sex_workers_and_pimps_reveals_how_the_market_for_underage_sex_actually.html

Which is not to say that underage sex work or coerced sex work aren't problems -- of course they are problems.

I'll poke through those links in a bit. I do know here in Seattle it's an issue, maybe because we have easier access to countries notorious for trafficking.

http://mynorthwest.com/646/2249364/Child-sex-trafficking--as-easy-in-Seattle-as-ordering-a-pizza

pp here. I also meant to say that I believe sex workers should be legalized and cared for. As per one of the links you posted, one example was given of New Zealand. I was just attempting to say that the focus of women on each other's sexuality is not useful to feminism.
I love this ama and you, op!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

+1 million. Women love to tear other women to shreds if they disagree with their sexual choices. It's always best to find out the individual stories of others before you attack them, and focus all that energy on helping victims of sexual trafficking- which is terribly rampant, especially underage trafficking, . Some women choose to strip or engage in prostitution. If you're a true feminist, you can disagree with another woman's actions but still allow them that choice without degradation.

Actually it's not -- or in any case nobody has any good numbers on it.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fact-checker/wp/2015/04/24/why-you-should-be-wary-of-statistics-on-modern-slavery-and-trafficking/
http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-watch/wp/2014/03/27/lies-damned-lies-and-sex-work-statistics/
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/04/23/study_of_sex_workers_and_pimps_reveals_how_the_market_for_underage_sex_actually.html

Which is not to say that underage sex work or coerced sex work aren't problems -- of course they are problems.

Anonymous wrote:

Really? What kind of business, legitimate business,, hires a stripper?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you have to interview for your job? If so, what was that process like?

I did. Chatted with management for a few minutes, danced, got the job. If you look decent, and are not an obvious psycho/addict, you have the job.

Really? What kind of business, legitimate business,, hires a stripper?

Anonymous wrote:

Unlike almost all other jobs, you get to choose your own schedule. You show up when you want to work, but it still has to be before the start of the shift (6-2 is the night shift). Many, but not all, strip clubs operate this way. If you come late or leave early, you pay a penalty on top of the house fee. I work two nights a week, and will work a third if I'm not too tired. So, 16-24 hours a week. However, I get there 1-1.5 hours beforehand to get ready

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How does management keep all the girls from coming on the good shifts (Fr-Sat nights) and no one showing up on the bad shifts (daytime/Sun/Mon/tue, I would guess)

I mean, couldn't there be a situation where 30 girls come in on Saturday and no one comes in Monday lunch time?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you have to interview for your job? If so, what was that process like?

I did. Chatted with management for a few minutes, danced, got the job. If you look decent, and are not an obvious psycho/addict, you have the job.

Really? What kind of business, legitimate business,, hires a stripper?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you have to interview for your job? If so, what was that process like?

I did. Chatted with management for a few minutes, danced, got the job. If you look decent, and are not an obvious psycho/addict, you have the job.

Unlike almost all other jobs, you get to choose your own schedule. You show up when you want to work, but it still has to be before the start of the shift (6-2 is the night shift). Many, but not all, strip clubs operate this way. If you come late or leave early, you pay a penalty on top of the house fee. I work two nights a week, and will work a third if I'm not too tired. So, 16-24 hours a week. However, I get there 1-1.5 hours beforehand to get ready

Anonymous wrote:If you were single and dating your now DH, do you think his mom would have accepted you?