Anonymous wrote:Getting into conversation late, but couldn't just one of you, either dh or dw just change your address to the apt. and use the excuse that you are working on your marriage -- that's why you and your children still spend so much time back at the out of area house. And that would be why you have the playdates at that house plus why your child only knows the address to that house. There are plenty of ways around it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's all a scam or none of it is a scam. My guess is that the very upset pps were shut out of a preschool spot. So now they want to find someone to blame.
And the poster who made the point about shifting boundaries due to potential over crowding- that is the first rational issue I've heard raised. Although, then you should do what you are telling everyone else to do. Either work to improve your new IB or try OOB the regular way. Lead by example.
Everyone is afraid of bad schools for their kids. Some folks are fleeing those situations while they rest are afraid that they will suddenly find themselves carved out of a currently good school.
Not one of the very upset pps, but how does a family that is lying about their residency and thereby securing a preschool spot not harm a family that is legitimately inbounds for a school that is then shutout? Preschool costs $$$ or time for commute or both. If I was paying an extra $30K or commuting an extra hour or two a day for several years due to the fact that other families were cheating, I would definitely be upset. Also, how do overcrowded classrooms due to people who are there illegitimately (and I'm not talking about kids who are there at the principal's discretion; I'm talking about those who provided false information to the school about their residence) not harm families that are there illegitimately? Would you rather have 20 or 30 kids per classroom/teacher? Space and classrooms are limited in these schools.
Anonymous wrote:What I love about the preschool frenzy is that the entire reason DCPS has the program is to help low income families. But it's the high SES folks who get hot and bothered about their access to it. Turns out- us poor folk have done a thing or two for ya'll!
Anonymous wrote:It's all a scam or none of it is a scam. My guess is that the very upset pps were shut out of a preschool spot. So now they want to find someone to blame.
And the poster who made the point about shifting boundaries due to potential over crowding- that is the first rational issue I've heard raised. Although, then you should do what you are telling everyone else to do. Either work to improve your new IB or try OOB the regular way. Lead by example.
Everyone is afraid of bad schools for their kids. Some folks are fleeing those situations while they rest are afraid that they will suddenly find themselves carved out of a currently good school.
Anonymous wrote:They should follow suspected cheaters home and send surveillace to monitor that the children are leaving from the correct address in the mornings, as well as touring the properties periodically. Of course residential exemption should be tracked, as well as voter registration, tax returns, drivers licenses, and vehicle registrations. In addition, there should be heightened scrutiny where a family of four claims to live in a studio IB, while owing a 3+ bedroom elsewhere.
NP. This thread has really gone down a rabbit hole.
I keep reading this vitriol and wondering what loss is causing you so much indignation? If you're in-boundary for the school, you're in. How is it that you're robbed by a rent payer at the same school? There's no diminished value to your child's education if someone else chooses to rent or own a second home to attend. There's no damage to your community nor your property. You've not even lost any of your elite address status - obviously a precious commodity.
All this talk about karma and morals is infectious, but in a flesh-eating way when you're talking chasing down and persecuting parents and children who are trying to gain access to a quality education - and paying extra (i.e. more funds than you're paying) to do so. You want to send investigators after them to hopefully send them to a shitty school?
All this moral outrage is a little sick. Seriously, I think you're going to be surprised by karma's target on this one.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Launching whispering campaigns against fellow parents you've decided to "out" could easily lead to those with legitimately complicated residency situations (e.g. legal separation, divorce, relatives who are not the parents with legal custody, military and diplomatic families with one parent serving abroad) being hurt.
If you want to call the DCPS fraud hotline, your call, but your threats to take make life miserable for others whose motives for enrolling their kid in any particular in-demand, by-right school may or may be suspect are out of line!
NP here.
This argument is a red herring often brought up by people who cheat the system. If someone has a legitimately complicated residency situation, they should have no trouble proving it if investigated. Life is only miserable for the cheaters.
You've never been wrongly investigated.
Anonymous wrote:Launching whispering campaigns against fellow parents you've decided to "out" could easily lead to those with legitimately complicated residency situations (e.g. legal separation, divorce, relatives who are not the parents with legal custody, military and diplomatic families with one parent serving abroad) being hurt.
If you want to call the DCPS fraud hotline, your call, but your threats to take make life miserable for others whose motives for enrolling their kid in any particular in-demand, by-right school may or may be suspect are out of line!
NP here.
This argument is a red herring often brought up by people who cheat the system. If someone has a legitimately complicated residency situation, they should have no trouble proving it if investigated. Life is only miserable for the cheaters.
Launching whispering campaigns against fellow parents you've decided to "out" could easily lead to those with legitimately complicated residency situations (e.g. legal separation, divorce, relatives who are not the parents with legal custody, military and diplomatic families with one parent serving abroad) being hurt.
If you want to call the DCPS fraud hotline, your call, but your threats to take make life miserable for others whose motives for enrolling their kid in any particular in-demand, by-right school may or may be suspect are out of line!
Anonymous wrote:Where do you get that they are paying more? They are paying for two places, we don't know what the cost is for both and theoretically the one IB is not inhabitable by a family, or could even be used by someone else but the parent uses the address. We own a condo we rent out in a good district, it would be against the regs for us to use that as our address. I suspect that is what some of the PPs that talk about paying taxes on another dc property are talking about.
This is gaming the system and if allowed will lead to more gaming and eventual boundary changes for overcrowded schools. See the vitriol that has happened around boundary changes to see how much this matters to people.