Anonymous wrote:He testifies as an expert witness with a professional background and credentials in mental health.

All these details are making me cringe. Why not just call the wife up and tell her if you want her to know?

Anonymous wrote:He testifies as an expert witness with a professional background and credentials in mental health.

Wow. You really do want to be discovered, which just proves what so many posters have already implied. You're not actually as happy and satisfied with your current lifestyle as you pretend. You obviously want to shake things up and make him choose you.

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Anonymous wrote:OP how old are the kids????????????

3 and 4.

Did he tell you that they would be trying to have kids or was that before you started seeing him?

Plenty of women become sex workers because they don't have any other options or don't know any better.

You, on the other hand, are an educated woman with the ability to earn a living and support yourseld. Don't you feel any shame? Any guilt?

He testifies as an expert witness with a professional background and credentials in mental health.

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Anonymous wrote:How does his wife not notice the loss of $$ that he uses for your life and upkeep?

My understanding is that she doesn't handle the money, so it's not a huge issue. She handles the children, house and pets. He handles the houses, cars and money.

Lol this is my husband and me

Then this wife and you may be in for a huge shock if DH drops dead one day. The nest egg you believe is protecting you and the kids is sitting under the pert ass of a boring 24 year old.

FIFY

Lol! Thanks. That IS more accurate.

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Lemme guess, your marriage isn't so great at home, huh? Otherwise I doubt you would be quite so threatened by this

+1. The thread has generated 10 pages in less than two hours. I think the DCUMies are VERY threatened....

i'm also a happily married poster and not threatened but like many women, i too was dealing w/a married man when i was younger. offering advice/slamming the young girl will solve nothing and not deter her. these are things she'll learn on her own and in due time.

OP did you post here intentionally to get the wife's attention?

Did you see him a lot when the wife was pregnant?????????

Did he tell you when the kids were born?

She's having an affair with Dr. Phil!!!

Anonymous wrote:OP is neither 24 nor childless. Nobody of that demographic would have a reason to post on DCUM. Yawn.

Plenty of people who are not actually DC, urban or moms post here. I think OP is 24 and childless. She is posting here because she is pushing the buttons of someone who is not 24 and is not childless.

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Anonymous wrote:How does his wife not notice the loss of $$ that he uses for your life and upkeep?

My understanding is that she doesn't handle the money, so it's not a huge issue. She handles the children, house and pets. He handles the houses, cars and money.

Lol this is my husband and me

Then this wife and you may be in for a huge shock if DH drops dead one day. The nest egg you believe is protecting you and the kids is sitting under the pert ass of a boring 24 year old.

FIFY

OP is neither 24 nor childless. Nobody of that demographic would have a reason to post on DCUM. Yawn.

Anonymous wrote:OP, when you accompany your man on trips, where do you go?

Trials aren't held in exotic locales usually.

What joy do you get out of being so morally bankrupt?