Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:32     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.


How are those kids of yours doing? Do you even know where they are?


Yup, right in front of me. Do you know where yours are?


Atttitude again. I will keep pointing it out so you know what people are talking about.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:31     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.


How are those kids of yours doing? Do you even know where they are?


Yup, right in front of me. Do you know where yours are?
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:30     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just drop your $9/hr preschool and keep the kid at home - do more outings with her - set a schedule up for yourself - or get some other kids to babysit to stimulate her. That way, you will save money and make money.


Don't forget unemployed (sorry - 'vacation') DH will be home also. Has OP agreed to one reasonable change, like forgoing school, since she came on here to 'ask for help?' Many have been suggested yet there is always an excuse.


Well, she agreed to drop cable and get Netflix. I guess that counts as success.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:24     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.


How are those kids of yours doing? Do you even know where they are?
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:18     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.


Attitude again.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:18     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


Agree 100%


Agree a billion percent.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:16     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.


Please do. Then I know which threads are just going to be your drama and craziness and I can skip them.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:16     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


Agree 100%
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:16     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.


I'll get a screen name to make it easier on you.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:14     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

This thread has so damaged her. At this point, any time anyone suspects that it's her, they're going to stop giving a crap. Well, I suppose that I can only speak for myself. OP, any time I run across a thread that I either think is you or it's confirmed it's you, I officially don't give a crap.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:10     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, OP, if you are real, there is no way a mother's helper is the same cost as preschool. Hire a neighborhood girl a few times a week to take your daughter to the park or to story time at the library. Or, maybe you or your husband can go, since it seems neither of you work.


The last MH I had cost me $9/hour and this is exactly what we're paying if we enroll DC in school 5 mornings a week for 3 hours.


Are you in a public assistance program? i ask b/c I have never heard of any kind of school that is so cheap in any part of the country.


Wow! Do you know the price of the tuition for every single school in the entire whole country?


OP, if this is you: this is exactly what people are talking about: your ATTITUDE. Lose it.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 16:06     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, OP, if you are real, there is no way a mother's helper is the same cost as preschool. Hire a neighborhood girl a few times a week to take your daughter to the park or to story time at the library. Or, maybe you or your husband can go, since it seems neither of you work.


The last MH I had cost me $9/hour and this is exactly what we're paying if we enroll DC in school 5 mornings a week for 3 hours.


Are you in a public assistance program? i ask b/c I have never heard of any kind of school that is so cheap in any part of the country.


Wow! Do you know the price of the tuition for every single school in the entire whole country?
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 15:57     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:So I'm sorry, just so I'm straight. This woman, who clearly can't handle the two kids she has, based on her own "failings" comments, we're going to suggest that she take on the added responsibility of other people's kids? When she's a loose cannon to boot? Um, OP, do the people in your area a favor and don't take this idea.


OP's gotta buck up and face the music and be an adult one of these days. Welcome to reality, OP. When you're six feet under, stop digging. And start making some $$, fast. Taking care of 2 kids is not that hard. Maybe OP can rise to the challenge and be an adult like anyone else who has had to search within themselves and stretch themselves a bit to face hardship.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 15:52     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

Anonymous wrote:Just drop your $9/hr preschool and keep the kid at home - do more outings with her - set a schedule up for yourself - or get some other kids to babysit to stimulate her. That way, you will save money and make money.


Don't forget unemployed (sorry - 'vacation') DH will be home also. Has OP agreed to one reasonable change, like forgoing school, since she came on here to 'ask for help?' Many have been suggested yet there is always an excuse.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2012 15:48     Subject: DH is taking unpaid vacation

So I'm sorry, just so I'm straight. This woman, who clearly can't handle the two kids she has, based on her own "failings" comments, we're going to suggest that she take on the added responsibility of other people's kids? When she's a loose cannon to boot? Um, OP, do the people in your area a favor and don't take this idea.