God bless you and your DD OP, you have touched my heart, and broken my heart, but rather than be totally useless, i wanted to post this message of love and support, and I hugged my kids today, left work early and we had ice cream for dinner...because life is so short, and so precious..may the memories shared with her sustain you, and all the hugs you ever gave her, ever, come back to help you through this...you will survive this, you won't know how, but you will, and I'm guessing she would insist upon it....with much love, Mary