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Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

How are LGBTQ people part of the world of people you date?

Could have worded that better. I was trying to say that LGBTQ+ community may not be a part of the world that the men that the PP date, but said community is part of my world or "my universe" if you will. That is to say, I have friends and family that are part of the community, specifically some of the folks that I'm friendly with at my gym or that come to ride BMX with me and others at times. I have also dated a few transwomen, but once we got to the stage where I was made aware they had transitioned, I politely broke off any romantic pursuits. Still chat/hang out from time to time platonically.

Ah. There’s the buried lede.

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Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

How are LGBTQ people part of the world of people you date?

Could have worded that better. I was trying to say that LGBTQ+ community may not be a part of the world that the men that the PP date, but said community is part of my world or "my universe" if you will. That is to say, I have friends and family that are part of the community, specifically some of the folks that I'm friendly with at my gym or that come to ride BMX with me and others at times. I have also dated a few transwomen, but once we got to the stage where I was made aware they had transitioned, I politely broke off any romantic pursuits. Still chat/hang out from time to time platonically.

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Anonymous wrote:How about Baltimore? There are plenty of quirky folks without moving to Philadelphia or Chicago!

Or even Richmond...today's DC is not really a great place for someone like OP to meet likeminded folks. He would have had a better time here 20 years ago. There's a reason why a lot of metal and punk bands that used to LOVE playing in DC now choose to skip DC and go straight from Richmond to Baltimore.

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Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

How are LGBTQ people part of the world of people you date?

Anonymous wrote:How about Baltimore? There are plenty of quirky folks without moving to Philadelphia or Chicago!

Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

Anonymous wrote:Hey if a guy with niche looks like Pete Davidson can have his choice of beautiful women then you should be able to as well. Plus he has tats all over his body yet he still gets the hot girl.

Perhaps you just are not funny. Women LOVE a man with a great sense of humor. They find it inherently sexy too.

Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

Anonymous wrote:Not trying to help a cause. Sorry that you don't expect a "real man" (whatever that means) to...express empathy? The question was asked whether I was trans and I answered in the negative with a chaser to make clear that I support a community that is going through a lot right now. That may not be a part of the world of the men you date but it's a part of mine so I'm going to speak on it if I feel like I need to.

I don't hide any aspects of my personality, whether they neatly fit into masculine or feminine or in between. Sometimes I wear pastels, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'll binge watch romcoms on Netflix, sometimes I'll go spar with people at a boxing gym. Life is so much better when I don't confine myself to activities, or saying things that only "real men" say.

That being said, I have a first date lined up with a friend of one of the artists that did some of my tattoos. She's straight edge, so we're going to go grab some decaf beverages (she considers the caffeine a drug) and go for a walk, weather permitting. Seems like a nice person, with a solid career (owns small CPA firm focusing on tattooers/piercers/etc). She's seen pictures of me and has no issues with the tattoos since she is also heavily tattooed.

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I think it's apparent that you are trying to date out of your league. Either women are in tune with a short POC gym rat covered in tattoos or not. Learn to tell the difference. An attorney should be able to figure out that his choice of dating pools is going to be very small and will have to make sacrifices.

Anonymous wrote:Nope, not a transman. But I do support my brothers / sisters / non-binary siblings (as in, the trans folk that exist out in the world) that are trying to live their lives without grief and persecution.