Anonymous wrote:I’m flabbergasted that anyone believes there is a committee room with AOs dutifully discussing candidates, carefully pouring over applications, hand selecting those golden nuggets whose stories bring warmth to their hearts. Parents of kids that got in thinking their kids crafted a cohesive story that resonated above all others while parents of kids who didn’t get in bemoan not focusing on a different angle in the essay.
People this is all being done with enrollment management software, consultants, and temporary workers checking off boxes in a rubric while watching White Lotus or YouTube videos of dancing pandas. AI is now being used in some software and I guarantee it will increase fast. Some enrollment management software packages even target admits before they apply grabbing data you didn’t think was part of the equation.
Universities are not transparent about this because they understand how it would be received.
Anonymous wrote:our top kid this year is going to Bocconi. But he applied to Harvard and Yale and Bocconi only .. so this was his own choice. He feels screwed -- but he's that kinda guy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nope. Ha Ha🤣
My kid was a top student, top grades, magnet rigor, cracked SAT, very good EC, research work, tons of accolades etc. Doing CS in flagship public university for free. Getting top internships and opportunities. Earning money and growing investment portfolio.
Not going to the top private school for full pay has saved us 400K which has enriched his inheritance significantly. At worst, he does not have to look after us for retirement.
Getting into a prestigious college is not the end game.
This is the same route our DS took as well:
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Applied to Yale (legacy), Princeton, Penn, Northwestern, Dartmouth, Cornell, Uchicago. Waitlisted at Northwestern and Cornell and rejected at the rest.
He is at our state flagship, which he was actually happy with from the beginning of the process, thankfully.
We invested the 300K we saved for college which will have a dramatic impact on his financial future. He is thrilled! And he joked about hoping it happened because he is pretty sure the social life is going to be so much better and is convinced he can get a great education pretty much anywhere.
What major? These results are surprising, unless STEM.
Public or private HS?
Agree, surprising if private HS. If public, I get it, regardless of major.
Absolutely. In public schools, students don't get to socialize with the T10 admission officers regularly as they do in private.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nope. Ha Ha🤣
My kid was a top student, top grades, magnet rigor, cracked SAT, very good EC, research work, tons of accolades etc. Doing CS in flagship public university for free. Getting top internships and opportunities. Earning money and growing investment portfolio.
Not going to the top private school for full pay has saved us 400K which has enriched his inheritance significantly. At worst, he does not have to look after us for retirement.
Getting into a prestigious college is not the end game.
This is the same route our DS took as well:
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Applied to Yale (legacy), Princeton, Penn, Northwestern, Dartmouth, Cornell, Uchicago. Waitlisted at Northwestern and Cornell and rejected at the rest.
He is at our state flagship, which he was actually happy with from the beginning of the process, thankfully.
We invested the 300K we saved for college which will have a dramatic impact on his financial future. He is thrilled! And he joked about hoping it happened because he is pretty sure the social life is going to be so much better and is convinced he can get a great education pretty much anywhere.
What major? These results are surprising, unless STEM.
Public or private HS?
Agree, surprising if private HS. If public, I get it, regardless of major.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nope. Ha Ha🤣
My kid was a top student, top grades, magnet rigor, cracked SAT, very good EC, research work, tons of accolades etc. Doing CS in flagship public university for free. Getting top internships and opportunities. Earning money and growing investment portfolio.
Not going to the top private school for full pay has saved us 400K which has enriched his inheritance significantly. At worst, he does not have to look after us for retirement.
Getting into a prestigious college is not the end game.
This is the same route our DS took as well:
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Applied to Yale (legacy), Princeton, Penn, Northwestern, Dartmouth, Cornell, Uchicago. Waitlisted at Northwestern and Cornell and rejected at the rest.
He is at our state flagship, which he was actually happy with from the beginning of the process, thankfully.
We invested the 300K we saved for college which will have a dramatic impact on his financial future. He is thrilled! And he joked about hoping it happened because he is pretty sure the social life is going to be so much better and is convinced he can get a great education pretty much anywhere.
Anonymous wrote:1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
How does that work? They don't let you take AP classes freshman year (at least I think they don't in FCPS). And some APs have prerequisites that are hard to get out of the way before sophomore year. Did he take 6 APs each year in junior and senior year, then somehow two others in sophomore year?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know one 1600 SAT kid who actually have good ECs, great grades, etc...but bragged to his classmates that he completed like 7 applications to top 10 schools all in one night just before the deadline.
Guess what...rejected at all. If you speak to the parents, their revisionist history is their kid was aggrieved and "less than" kids at the school were accepted.
The kids know he probably submitted POS applications.
Exactly! And there is no way a kid would actually want to attend 7 T10 schools, as they are all so different.
If you don't put in the effort, you don't have a real chance. And even if you do, go in knowing they are all highly rejective schools, even more so for certain majors (yes, even if not direct admit, if all your kid's EC revolve around Robotics/STEM/etc, they likely are not ending up as an English and art history major and the schools know that). So pick your reaches and spend time with targeted applications, but more importantly, pick excellent Targets and safeties. And pick some targets that are "more likely"---so no 21% acceptance rates and your kid at 40%==Pick a few with 30-40%+ acceptance rates where your kid is 75%+ and then show interest. Know if the schools do interviews, if they do, attempt to sign up for one and that's another 10-15 mins to highlight why you belong there. My high stats kid got into all their Targets and Safeties, and WL at two reaches, first year abroad at NEU and ultimately rejected at a T10 (ED1 Deferred then rejected). So exactly what you would expect to happen.
But since they picked great targets and safeties, they had many schools to choose from, and their top safety was such a great school, they kept it in the final 3 choices April of senior year.
I'd also say - study the data. Really really well. There is so much more than meets the eye.
Agree on STEM majors - classify down = if you think your 4.0/1600 CS/applied math/engineering major is competitive for REA at Harvard. They aren't. Look at ED at CMU. And ED2 a level down.
They may not get accepted...but hard to understand how they are not competitive.
They are competitive, but you must realize that so are 75%+ of the applicants, and 95% of the applicants will be rejected. So logically (simple stats), many highly qualified applicants will be rejected.
And applying to more schools doesn't change it. Each one is an individual event.
I get that...but competitive means you are at least through the first cut of kids with significantly lower scores, grades, etc.
I can't imagine telling a kid with those stats (and not knowing all the other parts of the application) to not apply to Harvard or MIT or wherever because "they aren't competitive". Sure, they are still likely to get rejected...but it won't be because the school didn't think you have the mental chops.
Just make sure the kid fully understands that it's still a crap shoot at all of those schools, because many many many highly qualified kids do get rejected. So apply all you want, I woudlnt' discourage it. But make sure you spend equal time on finding and applying to great targets and safeties, because there is a good chance you will be attending one of those.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know one 1600 SAT kid who actually have good ECs, great grades, etc...but bragged to his classmates that he completed like 7 applications to top 10 schools all in one night just before the deadline.
Guess what...rejected at all. If you speak to the parents, their revisionist history is their kid was aggrieved and "less than" kids at the school were accepted.
The kids know he probably submitted POS applications.
Exactly! And there is no way a kid would actually want to attend 7 T10 schools, as they are all so different.
If you don't put in the effort, you don't have a real chance. And even if you do, go in knowing they are all highly rejective schools, even more so for certain majors (yes, even if not direct admit, if all your kid's EC revolve around Robotics/STEM/etc, they likely are not ending up as an English and art history major and the schools know that). So pick your reaches and spend time with targeted applications, but more importantly, pick excellent Targets and safeties. And pick some targets that are "more likely"---so no 21% acceptance rates and your kid at 40%==Pick a few with 30-40%+ acceptance rates where your kid is 75%+ and then show interest. Know if the schools do interviews, if they do, attempt to sign up for one and that's another 10-15 mins to highlight why you belong there. My high stats kid got into all their Targets and Safeties, and WL at two reaches, first year abroad at NEU and ultimately rejected at a T10 (ED1 Deferred then rejected). So exactly what you would expect to happen.
But since they picked great targets and safeties, they had many schools to choose from, and their top safety was such a great school, they kept it in the final 3 choices April of senior year.
I'd also say - study the data. Really really well. There is so much more than meets the eye.
Agree on STEM majors - classify down = if you think your 4.0/1600 CS/applied math/engineering major is competitive for REA at Harvard. They aren't. Look at ED at CMU. And ED2 a level down.
They may not get accepted...but hard to understand how they are not competitive.
They are competitive, but you must realize that so are 75%+ of the applicants, and 95% of the applicants will be rejected. So logically (simple stats), many highly qualified applicants will be rejected.
And applying to more schools doesn't change it. Each one is an individual event.
I get that...but competitive means you are at least through the first cut of kids with significantly lower scores, grades, etc.
I can't imagine telling a kid with those stats (and not knowing all the other parts of the application) to not apply to Harvard or MIT or wherever because "they aren't competitive". Sure, they are still likely to get rejected...but it won't be because the school didn't think you have the mental chops.
Just make sure the kid fully understands that it's still a crap shoot at all of those schools, because many many many highly qualified kids do get rejected. So apply all you want, I woudlnt' discourage it. But make sure you spend equal time on finding and applying to great targets and safeties, because there is a good chance you will be attending one of those.
Anonymous wrote:1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
How does that work? They don't let you take AP classes freshman year (at least I think they don't in FCPS). And some APs have prerequisites that are hard to get out of the way before sophomore year. Did he take 6 APs each year in junior and senior year, then somehow two others in sophomore year?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know one 1600 SAT kid who actually have good ECs, great grades, etc...but bragged to his classmates that he completed like 7 applications to top 10 schools all in one night just before the deadline.
Guess what...rejected at all. If you speak to the parents, their revisionist history is their kid was aggrieved and "less than" kids at the school were accepted.
The kids know he probably submitted POS applications.
Exactly! And there is no way a kid would actually want to attend 7 T10 schools, as they are all so different.
If you don't put in the effort, you don't have a real chance. And even if you do, go in knowing they are all highly rejective schools, even more so for certain majors (yes, even if not direct admit, if all your kid's EC revolve around Robotics/STEM/etc, they likely are not ending up as an English and art history major and the schools know that). So pick your reaches and spend time with targeted applications, but more importantly, pick excellent Targets and safeties. And pick some targets that are "more likely"---so no 21% acceptance rates and your kid at 40%==Pick a few with 30-40%+ acceptance rates where your kid is 75%+ and then show interest. Know if the schools do interviews, if they do, attempt to sign up for one and that's another 10-15 mins to highlight why you belong there. My high stats kid got into all their Targets and Safeties, and WL at two reaches, first year abroad at NEU and ultimately rejected at a T10 (ED1 Deferred then rejected). So exactly what you would expect to happen.
But since they picked great targets and safeties, they had many schools to choose from, and their top safety was such a great school, they kept it in the final 3 choices April of senior year.
I'd also say - study the data. Really really well. There is so much more than meets the eye.
Agree on STEM majors - classify down = if you think your 4.0/1600 CS/applied math/engineering major is competitive for REA at Harvard. They aren't. Look at ED at CMU. And ED2 a level down.
They may not get accepted...but hard to understand how they are not competitive.
They are competitive, but you must realize that so are 75%+ of the applicants, and 95% of the applicants will be rejected. So logically (simple stats), many highly qualified applicants will be rejected.
And applying to more schools doesn't change it. Each one is an individual event.
I get that...but competitive means you are at least through the first cut of kids with significantly lower scores, grades, etc.
I can't imagine telling a kid with those stats (and not knowing all the other parts of the application) to not apply to Harvard or MIT or wherever because "they aren't competitive". Sure, they are still likely to get rejected...but it won't be because the school didn't think you have the mental chops.
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nope. Ha Ha🤣
My kid was a top student, top grades, magnet rigor, cracked SAT, very good EC, research work, tons of accolades etc. Doing CS in flagship public university for free. Getting top internships and opportunities. Earning money and growing investment portfolio.
Not going to the top private school for full pay has saved us 400K which has enriched his inheritance significantly. At worst, he does not have to look after us for retirement.
Getting into a prestigious college is not the end game.
This is the same route our DS took as well:
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Applied to Yale (legacy), Princeton, Penn, Northwestern, Dartmouth, Cornell, Uchicago. Waitlisted at Northwestern and Cornell and rejected at the rest.
He is at our state flagship, which he was actually happy with from the beginning of the process, thankfully.
We invested the 300K we saved for college which will have a dramatic impact on his financial future. He is thrilled! And he joked about hoping it happened because he is pretty sure the social life is going to be so much better and is convinced he can get a great education pretty much anywhere.
What major? These results are surprising, unless STEM.
Public or private HS?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nope. Ha Ha🤣
My kid was a top student, top grades, magnet rigor, cracked SAT, very good EC, research work, tons of accolades etc. Doing CS in flagship public university for free. Getting top internships and opportunities. Earning money and growing investment portfolio.
Not going to the top private school for full pay has saved us 400K which has enriched his inheritance significantly. At worst, he does not have to look after us for retirement.
Getting into a prestigious college is not the end game.
This is the same route our DS took as well:
1560 SAT
4.0 Unweighted, 4.57 weighted
14 APs with all fives on the 8 tests taken so far
Merit Finalist
Captain and MVP of his rowing team
3 years juried music with awards
Helped run the family business (with demonstrated financial impact!)
Applied to Yale (legacy), Princeton, Penn, Northwestern, Dartmouth, Cornell, Uchicago. Waitlisted at Northwestern and Cornell and rejected at the rest.
He is at our state flagship, which he was actually happy with from the beginning of the process, thankfully.
We invested the 300K we saved for college which will have a dramatic impact on his financial future. He is thrilled! And he joked about hoping it happened because he is pretty sure the social life is going to be so much better and is convinced he can get a great education pretty much anywhere.
What major? These results are surprising, unless STEM.
Public or private HS?
DP. I have a similar kid with similar results, for what it's worth. Not a STEM major.