Anonymous wrote:She’s gonna be a young cool mom. Stop hating on her choices just because you couldn’t get your shit together until you were 40 and now your kids have to spend their prime years worrying about your elderly care.

+1. Feels like the same handful of unhinged women in every thread ridiculing young mothers.

Anonymous wrote:Y’all don’t realize that it was their own surrogate baby they adopted.

That makes absolutely no sense.

No guarantee a 31 yr old
Will be a better mom than a 21 yr
Old.

Most college aged students are still treated like children by both their parents and the school.
That doesn’t mean they’re incapable of great and sustained responsibilities.

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Anonymous wrote:I like Millie. There's nothing wrong with marrying young and having children young. I certainly wish I would have had my children earlier.

Except she is not having a child, she is adopting one, which is pretty strange for someone in their early 20s. Would be a lot easier just to have your own child unless you have fertility issues.

Good for Millie. There are plenty of children that need a home. Adopting a young child is a great thing.

It's not a great thing, and it's not a young child. This is an infant that can't speak for themselves. That can't call a caseworker to say "Help, I've been put in house with 60 animals and it's FILTHY!"

That's funny because on the babies and toddlers subforum, daycare moms insist constant exposure to the filth and germs of daycare strengthens the immune system and that kids raised by stay at home parents and nannies will get sick all the time once they hit school. (Never happened once to my non-daycare kids, hmmm....) By DCUM logic, being raised in a home with lots of animals will only strengthen the immune system and render the child super resilient to all future infections.

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Anonymous wrote:I like Millie. There's nothing wrong with marrying young and having children young. I certainly wish I would have had my children earlier.

Except she is not having a child, she is adopting one, which is pretty strange for someone in their early 20s. Would be a lot easier just to have your own child unless you have fertility issues.

Good for Millie. There are plenty of children that need a home. Adopting a young child is a great thing.

It's not a great thing, and it's not a young child. This is an infant that can't speak for themselves. That can't call a caseworker to say "Help, I've been put in house with 60 animals and it's FILTHY!"

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Anonymous wrote:I like Millie. There's nothing wrong with marrying young and having children young. I certainly wish I would have had my children earlier.

Except she is not having a child, she is adopting one, which is pretty strange for someone in their early 20s. Would be a lot easier just to have your own child unless you have fertility issues.

Good for Millie. There are plenty of children that need a home. Adopting a young child is a great thing.

Anonymous wrote:Y’all don’t realize that it was their own surrogate baby they adopted.

Or maybe they just adopted.

Anonymous wrote:Y’all don’t realize that it was their own surrogate baby they adopted.

That is a strong possibility.