Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 22:07     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?


Did you read the first paragraph of the OP?


UVA and RVA mean nothing to most of us. You know that, right?


Lol what are you talking about. DCUM loves UVA—too much.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 22:06     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My personal belief is that "evil" is born of trauma. Not excusing evil acts but making sense of them. Sometimes it's an idea you can follow such as ... kid grew up being deprived and abused in multiple ways, grows up to be impulsive and angry, commits escalating crimes from thefts to carjackings, for example. It's not an excuse but you can see how it happened.

This one, we have no template for it. She's not like any other abuser I ever read about.


Lots and lots of evil people come from great homes with no trauma. The columbine murderers, Bernie Madoff, Sam Bankman fried, that guy who murdered a family in Connecticut (but not before raping a daughter-- maybe 10 or 11-- in front of the mom).

Most people who grew up with trauma do not go on to commit crimes.

I don't believe trauma is an excuse at all. And I grew up with trauma. It doesn't make you do anything. If anything, it makes it clear why you shouldn't.


It’s clear that you failed statistics class.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 22:04     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:My personal belief is that "evil" is born of trauma. Not excusing evil acts but making sense of them. Sometimes it's an idea you can follow such as ... kid grew up being deprived and abused in multiple ways, grows up to be impulsive and angry, commits escalating crimes from thefts to carjackings, for example. It's not an excuse but you can see how it happened.

This one, we have no template for it. She's not like any other abuser I ever read about.


You are wrong. Sometimes evil is just evil. Statistically small, but exists. Some people are simply wired wrong from birth.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 22:02     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:My personal belief is that "evil" is born of trauma. Not excusing evil acts but making sense of them. Sometimes it's an idea you can follow such as ... kid grew up being deprived and abused in multiple ways, grows up to be impulsive and angry, commits escalating crimes from thefts to carjackings, for example. It's not an excuse but you can see how it happened.

This one, we have no template for it. She's not like any other abuser I ever read about.


Lots and lots of evil people come from great homes with no trauma. The columbine murderers, Bernie Madoff, Sam Bankman fried, that guy who murdered a family in Connecticut (but not before raping a daughter-- maybe 10 or 11-- in front of the mom).

Most people who grew up with trauma do not go on to commit crimes.

I don't believe trauma is an excuse at all. And I grew up with trauma. It doesn't make you do anything. If anything, it makes it clear why you shouldn't.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:59     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:I know her, her brother and her ex-husband.


Then please spill about what you know. Please. Even just how she gets along with people, reasons for divorce, custody situation. Spill, please!
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:57     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
I know her, her brother and her ex-husband.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:51     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
My personal belief is that "evil" is born of trauma. Not excusing evil acts but making sense of them. Sometimes it's an idea you can follow such as ... kid grew up being deprived and abused in multiple ways, grows up to be impulsive and angry, commits escalating crimes from thefts to carjackings, for example. It's not an excuse but you can see how it happened.

This one, we have no template for it. She's not like any other abuser I ever read about.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:44     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?


I don't know her, but it makes sense enough if she went to UVA, was from a prominent family in Va and associated wirh multiple groups? People will know of her even if they didn't socialize with her. I never heard of her, but for Charlottesville/Richmond, you'd know the name , I would assume. No one here said thsy were close, except one person who claimed to have slept with her at uva, ugh!!
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:43     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?


Did you read the first paragraph of the OP?


UVA and RVA mean nothing to most of us. You know that, right?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:40     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?


Did you read the first paragraph of the OP?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:36     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:33     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?


Right? Obviously I don’t know what, if any, trauma she suffered as a child. But I was sexually abused by my foster brother, and never in a million years would I want a child to go through what I did. I know exactly how painful and traumatic it is. So if she did have trauma, I don’t understand how she could want to perpetrate that on someone else?!

Yet I understand that, at least for males, the abused often becomes the abuser. I don’t understand the reasoning behind it.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:32     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
My thoughts are with her children and any ither victims of this souless monster. Pleae hold them in your hearts. Please let them heal. She is no reglection on them and their inncocence.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:30     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?


I don’t accept the word “evil” as an explanation for anything.


Same. I want to know why, even if th answer is "psychopath" or whatever it is. With this one, I cannot guess, never heard another case like it.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:23     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?


I don’t accept the word “evil” as an explanation for anything.