Anonymous
Post 01/17/2023 09:18     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why all the hate for Cartier and Van Cleef? Yes, they’re a bit over-saturated right now, but these are both established jewelry houses with beautiful craftsmanship. Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton wear Van Cleef alhambra, so I would think DCUMers would be all over these.


Lol. I’m just spot reading out of curiosity, but this is such white people aspiration. Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton. Oh la la. I guess it’s to be expected, for those white ladies here on private school forum.


Okay, racist.


More like “Okay, Karen” cuz you know this is a rich white lady making this comment.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2023 09:12     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/



Europeans have always been more fashionable. High fashion is much more common throughout Europe, then most of the United States. I would imagine that at some of the elite private schools throughout Europe you’re seeing purses, jewelry, etc. that are breathtaking.

The green Chanel blazer above is flawless. As is the rest of her outfit..



None of these women look elite or highly educated to me. Fashionable women do not wear name brands everywhere and those Prada clunky loafers with the name on them would not be considered fashionable. I like the blazer though.


Hahaha, well
Educated women are not a homogeneous bunch. I work at Johns Hopkins hospital and our female physicians span the entire spectrum of fashion - horrible outlet mall crap to incredibly high fashion. Their jewelry does too - some wear none and some have 6 carat solitaires.
You clearly have never hung out with partner track Ivy educated lawyers either.


John Hopkins as in Balmore?
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2023 08:25     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not at our school at all (and I've never heard of Van Cleef Alhambra). Very laid back vibe.


Really?

It's these:

Starting at $3500 for a full-size pendant. It's what all the sheeple are wearing. Now the teenagers are starting.


The best part, is this is not only ugly and boring, but cheap. $3500 and nary a stone in sight.


I’m a Van Cleef gal, that’s stone is Chalecedony. Yes van cleef is pricey for not necessarily diamonds guess one is paying for workmanship and style? I’ve slowed down in my van cleef collecting. Fun to wear, but I usually only wear one piece at a time. Sometimes I layer my motif necklaces.


I have none of these items because I don't have the budget for it, and I love when people wear them. I find the Van Cleef pieces to be pretty, and clearly, many others are drawn to them as well. Count me a sheeple, because I would wear the pieces if I could afford them. Why do you care how others choose to spend their money? If you think they are ugly and boring, you don't have to wear them. I will never understand why so many people get off on yucking someone else's yum. Find something else to get worked up about.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2023 08:12     Subject: Re:Overdressed and status symbols
It’s funny because many people are talking about how expensive flashy purses are somehow inappropriate for drop off or pick ups however, most extremely expensive purses are not “flashy “and Hermes purses are not even obvious in anyway. So if you don’t know about purses or care about purses you shouldn’t know what the Hermes purse is, right?

Here are some examples of understated perfection from Parisians:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ck07HrHsJm_/?igshid=NTdlMDg3MTY=
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2023 08:04     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:I love being new money. First of all, I have the pride of having made myself out of absolutely nothing. Second, I’m not beholden to some weird WASP austerity. I buy whatever I like, and I like plenty of stuff you all think is tacky. But I’m incredibly disinterested in what the moms at my kids’ school think of my jewelry and bags. I really never hang out with them. It’s not just their clothes that bore me.


*uninterested
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 22:52     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
There are so many fakes and dupes nowadays that regardless if you’re wearing the authentic thing, you still look like you’re trying too hard to impress.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 13:51     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Many of the moms who dress like this aren't new money but just have so f-ing much now its like brainless how they spend money and they all like nice things. These women are married to men who make millions per year, investing part of it and then making a ton of those investments. For some they cant even spend all that they have, it isn't really "keeping up with the jones." It's more like I saw Jane had this great necklace/bag etc. and I want it too and I can have it since I have a ton of disposable money. I find the women who actually work and make big incomes (over 500k per year) are somewhat disheveled, don't care and are aspie or are dressing just as nicely... the women who make money arent at pick up to see.


Disagree. There is a look and you can spot it instantly. It screams bad taste and flashy. It’s hard to explain but you can tell by looking. There is a vibe more fashionable women have and it can wreak of money but it doesn’t involve wearing all of this stuff to pick up. It is couture clothing, expensive but simple jewelry, nice purse and shoes but no labels showing. You would recognize the items if you shop at those places but they are subtle. That is how the truly wealthy and fashionable dress.


The word you were looking for is "reek."
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 13:06     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:Many of the moms who dress like this aren't new money but just have so f-ing much now its like brainless how they spend money and they all like nice things. These women are married to men who make millions per year, investing part of it and then making a ton of those investments. For some they cant even spend all that they have, it isn't really "keeping up with the jones." It's more like I saw Jane had this great necklace/bag etc. and I want it too and I can have it since I have a ton of disposable money. I find the women who actually work and make big incomes (over 500k per year) are somewhat disheveled, don't care and are aspie or are dressing just as nicely... the women who make money arent at pick up to see.


Disagree. There is a look and you can spot it instantly. It screams bad taste and flashy. It’s hard to explain but you can tell by looking. There is a vibe more fashionable women have and it can wreak of money but it doesn’t involve wearing all of this stuff to pick up. It is couture clothing, expensive but simple jewelry, nice purse and shoes but no labels showing. You would recognize the items if you shop at those places but they are subtle. That is how the truly wealthy and fashionable dress.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 13:01     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
It's a private school for people with money, what did you expect?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 12:38     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/



My comment must have struck a nerve.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 12:34     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Many of the moms who dress like this aren't new money but just have so f-ing much now its like brainless how they spend money and they all like nice things. These women are married to men who make millions per year, investing part of it and then making a ton of those investments. For some they cant even spend all that they have, it isn't really "keeping up with the jones." It's more like I saw Jane had this great necklace/bag etc. and I want it too and I can have it since I have a ton of disposable money. I find the women who actually work and make big incomes (over 500k per year) are somewhat disheveled, don't care and are aspie or are dressing just as nicely... the women who make money arent at pick up to see.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 11:29     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/



Europeans have always been more fashionable. High fashion is much more common throughout Europe, then most of the United States. I would imagine that at some of the elite private schools throughout Europe you’re seeing purses, jewelry, etc. that are breathtaking.

The green Chanel blazer above is flawless. As is the rest of her outfit..



None of these women look elite or highly educated to me. Fashionable women do not wear name brands everywhere and those Prada clunky loafers with the name on them would not be considered fashionable. I like the blazer though.


Hahaha, well
Educated women are not a homogeneous bunch. I work at Johns Hopkins hospital and our female physicians span the entire spectrum of fashion - horrible outlet mall crap to incredibly high fashion. Their jewelry does too - some wear none and some have 6 carat solitaires.
You clearly have never hung out with partner track Ivy educated lawyers either.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 10:49     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/



Europeans have always been more fashionable. High fashion is much more common throughout Europe, then most of the United States. I would imagine that at some of the elite private schools throughout Europe you’re seeing purses, jewelry, etc. that are breathtaking.

The green Chanel blazer above is flawless. As is the rest of her outfit..



None of these women look elite or highly educated to me. Fashionable women do not wear name brands everywhere and those Prada clunky loafers with the name on them would not be considered fashionable. I like the blazer though.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2023 10:28     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/



Europeans have always been more fashionable. High fashion is much more common throughout Europe, then most of the United States. I would imagine that at some of the elite private schools throughout Europe you’re seeing purses, jewelry, etc. that are breathtaking.

The green Chanel blazer above is flawless. As is the rest of her outfit..

Anonymous
Post 01/15/2023 13:05     Subject: Overdressed and status symbols
Anonymous wrote:I would feel like an idiot wearing a 10k bracelet.


Meanwhile, people in Europe and Asia will wonder what is wrong with you and this perspective on life. IMO, this guilt and self-consciousness are connected with American women's poor body image, overeating, and sexual disfunction. 43% of American women experience sexual disfunction, over 70% are overweight, almost half are obese. There is so much guilt or shame about everything in this country. You shouldn't feel like an idiot because of your outfit. 99% of people won't even pay attention and why would you care if the 1% judge you? Just live a little.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CncGf2sBVoM/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmFSIbtJpF6/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm4oyVCBmhd/