Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:58     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:We don't know if they tried to change her mind and she told them no so they left. It seems everyone was drunk, tired and sleep deprived after a day of beach, partying, drinking and power outage.



Exactly. If they wanted to go to sleep finally and she refused, what would you have them do? Dollars to donuts she also indicated she wanted to be alone with the guy.


That is NO excuse. After the Natalie Holloway situation, all girls know to NEVER leave their friend alone with a stranger. They should have stayed there with her.


Back up - they (including the men) all of them should have never gone onto the beach/ocean if they were really that much under an influence of whatever.

sure, but pp made a different point. girls know to stick together. never leave a friend behind. especially with a drunk dude you just met at the bar. girl code.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:57     Subject: Re:Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So how would you know you were the last person to see someone (especially a college woman you'd just drunkenly met hours earlier)? And you're to take responsibility when the FIVE traveling companions of the woman are kinda in a rush to meet their boat excursion sailaway time?


I think someone is desperately trying to keep suspicion on the boy. Someone familiar with DCUM.

Why? That is the question.


Because the family is important. And there’s no way their daughter could have made a series of bad choices (getting wasted, swimming in the ocean in the dark wasted, etc) that may have resulted in her demise. So it has to be someone else’s fault.


What do you mean the family is important?


IKR. Every so often a PP proclaims the "importance" of this family but none of us have ever heard of them and the PP never explains. Well, PP?


DP. But the whole point of having a good reputation is that in times like this it counts.


This is not India. Doesn’t matter how “important” her family is.


Maybe it's like that saying- you can take the Indian out of India, but you can't take the Indian out of them (or something like that)? You can substitute another country, it could probably apply to other immigrants or countries as well. Maybe their Indian community wherever they may live cares?


Their community has closed ranks around the friends. Nothing is being said about any of them, they're not speaking, and they left DR right away. No press conference crying about where is my best friend, please come home, we miss you and love you. NOTHING. The community has surrounded them and protecting them. They're perfectly fine with someone outside of their community taking the fall, very possibly for a crime he didn't commit, as long as it means no consequences for them and that their lives and continue on the previously set trajectory. The parents of the missing woman aren't even speaking out whatsoever against the friends.

I do not think this makes their community unique and it isn't intended to be racist in any way; this type of behavior is seen in many, MANY different tight knit communities.


Then put pressure on these girls to come forward….Ananya Chilakamarai, also from Loudoun and a TJ grad.


I hope her family gets a restraining order if you try.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:57     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:Why do 20 year olds think drinking to all hours of the morning is fun? I will never understand it. They are drinking and throwing up in the video and yet keep drinking.

some argue it's because we let them carry a gun at infancy but not have beer until 21. oh and their brains are not fully developed.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:56     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We don't know if they tried to change her mind and she told them no so they left. It seems everyone was drunk, tired and sleep deprived after a day of beach, partying, drinking and power outage.



Exactly. If they wanted to go to sleep finally and she refused, what would you have them do? Dollars to donuts she also indicated she wanted to be alone with the guy.


That is NO excuse. After the Natalie Holloway situation, all girls know to NEVER leave their friend alone with a stranger. They should have stayed there with her.


Back up - they (including the men) all of them should have never gone onto the beach/ocean if they were really that much under an influence of whatever.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:55     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about all the girls? We’ve heard nothing.


Yea let's blame that on Mr U.S. Prez, too

*this means I've got nothing to say*
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:55     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are all the girls Indian?


I think so. Either very selfish culture or guilty of something they got out immediately

oh stop. 100% more likely they had quick and prudent advice of their own council (to include one of their parents) to get the hell out of there asap. And it worked!
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:54     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:What about all the girls? We’ve heard nothing.


Yea let's blame that on Mr U.S. Prez, too
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:54     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:That fat hillybilly wrestler dunked her head in the water when she wouldn’t accept his gross advances


Certainly a possibility, drunk men kill women all the time.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:53     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Why do 20 year olds think drinking to all hours of the morning is fun? I will never understand it. They are drinking and throwing up in the video and yet keep drinking.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:53     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:A bunch of bad choices made by all, teaching them, hopefully, that actions have consequences.

Next time your infant/toddler is keeping you up at night/or your 4 year old isn't potty trained/whatever, remember, little children = little problems, big children = big problems


Ah those days of potty training. Only if it were only days like that for the rest of parenting?
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:52     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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Anonymous wrote:Those girls were the rats that abandoned the sinking ship. They got themselves and their disappeared friend into one hell of a mess. They left a random boy who made their acquaintance a few hours prior to face the music for their mistakes.

I'm going to repeat that for the idiots in the room: This is a random boy who had just met them a few hours before. Now he is getting raked over the coals for a situation these future physicians created for themselves. The fact they're okay with this boy taking the fall for their mistakes speaks volumes about their character, their ethics, their essential cowardice, and their lack of basic decency.

Someone on this thread is trying very hard to keep the negative spotlight on him, while keeping the girls out of the picture. The disappeared girl and her lifelong friend were both local to the area. Someone on this thread doesn't want "their good names smeared." They're okay this random nice Midwestern boy is taking the fall in their place. Do you all get that? This is very ugly behavior.

The boy did the honorable thing by not leaving the scene immediately, and now has been dragged through the mud. We aren't even sure - nor is he - if he was in fact the last person to see her alive. He was too drunk to be in a position to state that affirmatively.

These girls need to be named out loud. Their behavior is abhorrent.


The Riibe and company of IA strike back


I think his arrest is inevitable.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:52     Subject: Re:Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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Anonymous wrote:Most likely scenario is that she drowned because she drunkenly entered treacherous water at night. The guy will be judge harshly for the rest of his life. And the girlfriends will go about their lives as if nothing happened.



Agree. The silence of the girls is weird and . Terrible, convoluted accident with many bad decisions, but not his fault.



And how do you know that exactly? Because if you do and could share with law enforcement (LE), that could help him get cleared and relieve him, his family and those around him of unnecessary stress and spotlight.


Oh, shut up. I'm tired of you. You're part of the community protecting the girls.

Aren't you ashamed of yourselves for letting someone else take the fall for the series of mistakes the girls made? As someone else has pointed out, they don't even have the guts to so much as stand in front of the media and beg for any information or help in retrieving their friend, dead or alive.


You are sick. No need to risk case for your entertainment.
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:51     Subject: Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:Those girls were the rats that abandoned the sinking ship. They got themselves and their disappeared friend into one hell of a mess. They left a random boy who made their acquaintance a few hours prior to face the music for their mistakes.

I'm going to repeat that for the idiots in the room: This is a random boy who had just met them a few hours before. Now he is getting raked over the coals for a situation these future physicians created for themselves. The fact they're okay with this boy taking the fall for their mistakes speaks volumes about their character, their ethics, their essential cowardice, and their lack of basic decency.

Someone on this thread is trying very hard to keep the negative spotlight on him, while keeping the girls out of the picture. The disappeared girl and her lifelong friend were both local to the area. Someone on this thread doesn't want "their good names smeared." They're okay this random nice Midwestern boy is taking the fall in their place. Do you all get that? This is very ugly behavior.

The boy did the honorable thing by not leaving the scene immediately, and now has been dragged through the mud. We aren't even sure - nor is he - if he was in fact the last person to see her alive. He was too drunk to be in a position to state that affirmatively.

These girls need to be named out loud. Their behavior is abhorrent.


The Riibe and company of IA strike back
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:50     Subject: Re:Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So how would you know you were the last person to see someone (especially a college woman you'd just drunkenly met hours earlier)? And you're to take responsibility when the FIVE traveling companions of the woman are kinda in a rush to meet their boat excursion sailaway time?


I think someone is desperately trying to keep suspicion on the boy. Someone familiar with DCUM.

Why? That is the question.


Because the family is important. And there’s no way their daughter could have made a series of bad choices (getting wasted, swimming in the ocean in the dark wasted, etc) that may have resulted in her demise. So it has to be someone else’s fault.


What do you mean the family is important?


IKR. Every so often a PP proclaims the "importance" of this family but none of us have ever heard of them and the PP never explains. Well, PP?


DP. But the whole point of having a good reputation is that in times like this it counts.


This is not India. Doesn’t matter how “important” her family is.


Maybe it's like that saying- you can take the Indian out of India, but you can't take the Indian out of them (or something like that)? You can substitute another country, it could probably apply to other immigrants or countries as well. Maybe their Indian community wherever they may live cares?


Their community has closed ranks around the friends. Nothing is being said about any of them, they're not speaking, and they left DR right away. No press conference crying about where is my best friend, please come home, we miss you and love you. NOTHING. The community has surrounded them and protecting them. They're perfectly fine with someone outside of their community taking the fall, very possibly for a crime he didn't commit, as long as it means no consequences for them and that their lives and continue on the previously set trajectory. The parents of the missing woman aren't even speaking out whatsoever against the friends.

I do not think this makes their community unique and it isn't intended to be racist in any way; this type of behavior is seen in many, MANY different tight knit communities.


Then put pressure on these girls to come forward….Ananya Chilakamarai, also from Loudoun and a TJ grad.


Are there issues with their visa status why are they protecting them. This is some shady stuff.


???

I'd bring my kid home in this situation. Demand it even. Not trusting some banana republic cops. No matter how much she protested.


And they may have come home when they realized the horrible things that could happen??


Horrible things happen when you trust cops in these countries. I'd advise my kid not to vacation there but if they are adults, what can you fo?
Anonymous
Post 03/17/2025 08:48     Subject: Re:Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So how would you know you were the last person to see someone (especially a college woman you'd just drunkenly met hours earlier)? And you're to take responsibility when the FIVE traveling companions of the woman are kinda in a rush to meet their boat excursion sailaway time?


I think someone is desperately trying to keep suspicion on the boy. Someone familiar with DCUM.

Why? That is the question.


Because the family is important. And there’s no way their daughter could have made a series of bad choices (getting wasted, swimming in the ocean in the dark wasted, etc) that may have resulted in her demise. So it has to be someone else’s fault.


What do you mean the family is important?


IKR. Every so often a PP proclaims the "importance" of this family but none of us have ever heard of them and the PP never explains. Well, PP?


DP. But the whole point of having a good reputation is that in times like this it counts.


This is not India. Doesn’t matter how “important” her family is.


Maybe it's like that saying- you can take the Indian out of India, but you can't take the Indian out of them (or something like that)? You can substitute another country, it could probably apply to other immigrants or countries as well. Maybe their Indian community wherever they may live cares?


Their community has closed ranks around the friends. Nothing is being said about any of them, they're not speaking, and they left DR right away. No press conference crying about where is my best friend, please come home, we miss you and love you. NOTHING. The community has surrounded them and protecting them. They're perfectly fine with someone outside of their community taking the fall, very possibly for a crime he didn't commit, as long as it means no consequences for them and that their lives and continue on the previously set trajectory. The parents of the missing woman aren't even speaking out whatsoever against the friends.

I do not think this makes their community unique and it isn't intended to be racist in any way; this type of behavior is seen in many, MANY different tight knit communities.


Then put pressure on these girls to come forward….Ananya Chilakamarai, also from Loudoun and a TJ grad.


Are there issues with their visa status why are they protecting them. This is some shady stuff.


???

I'd bring my kid home in this situation. Demand it even. Not trusting some banana republic cops. No matter how much she protested.


And they may have come home when they realized the horrible things that could happen??