Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When someone is of sound mind, you cannot force a caregiver into their home. Check out the Elder forum for countless examples of this. People have the right to live as they choose, and assume the risks. Even adult protective services cannot force someone who has decision-masking capacity to accept help in the home. Family members may wring their hands, but there’s nothing they can do.
We have no idea of the particulars in Savannah Guthrie’s mom’s case. Please don’t turn this into a tiresome debate about whether she has enough help in her home, or should’ve been in assisted living.
The age and health described in this thread is that of someone who needs full-time help. A frail 84 year old should not be living alone in an isolated huge house. It’s a recipe for disaster. And I guarantee the other allegedly nearby family didn’t live they close and rarely visited. The NBC gals daily phone calls to her mom from 2,500 miles away are not a substitute for in-home care she needed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When someone is of sound mind, you cannot force a caregiver into their home. Check out the Elder forum for countless examples of this. People have the right to live as they choose, and assume the risks. Even adult protective services cannot force someone who has decision-masking capacity to accept help in the home. Family members may wring their hands, but there’s nothing they can do.
We have no idea of the particulars in Savannah Guthrie’s mom’s case. Please don’t turn this into a tiresome debate about whether she has enough help in her home, or should’ve been in assisted living.
The age and health described in this thread is that of someone who needs full-time help. A frail 84 year old should not be living alone in an isolated huge house. It’s a recipe for disaster. And I guarantee the other allegedly nearby family didn’t live they close and rarely visited. The NBC gals daily phone calls to her mom from 2,500 miles away are not a substitute for in-home care she needed.
Anonymous wrote:When tragedies go viral it always underscores the fact that backwater local law enforcement are all worthless morons stealing six figure compensations and driving around in $80,000 Chevy Tahoes. The only crimes they ever “solve” are Walmart shoplifters.
Anonymous wrote:When someone is of sound mind, you cannot force a caregiver into their home. Check out the Elder forum for countless examples of this. People have the right to live as they choose, and assume the risks. Even adult protective services cannot force someone who has decision-masking capacity to accept help in the home. Family members may wring their hands, but there’s nothing they can do.
We have no idea of the particulars in Savannah Guthrie’s mom’s case. Please don’t turn this into a tiresome debate about whether she has enough help in her home, or should’ve been in assisted living.
Anonymous wrote:She had security cameras so either they caught what happened, the person knew where they were and covered or avoided, or they were used against her. The risk with most cameras is someone can hack in and spy on you.
Anonymous wrote:They are now reporting blood was found at crime scene.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When someone is of sound mind, you cannot force a caregiver into their home. Check out the Elder forum for countless examples of this. People have the right to live as they choose, and assume the risks. Even adult protective services cannot force someone who has decision-masking capacity to accept help in the home. Family members may wring their hands, but there’s nothing they can do.
We have no idea of the particulars in Savannah Guthrie’s mom’s case. Please don’t turn this into a tiresome debate about whether she has enough help in her home, or should’ve been in assisted living.
+1. By all accounts, she lived in a beautiful home in Tucson (the absolute dream for many older people). She was obviously getting to church regularly and had friends. There is no earthly reason why anyone should think she should have been in assisted living. People have medical issues and all ages and most of them live at home.