Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would not show it to (or share the details with) my 18-year old Whitman grad. Partly because it’s too close to home - she knew him well - and partly because it would encourage too much “who was it” gossip. Those details don’t need to be shared.
I’d be shocked if your grad didn’t know everything about this case, unless she has no phone and never texts? You probably should consider whether you want to open up a conversation to help her understand your perspective and vice versa.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"MCPS hasn't yet begun hiring psychics to do background checks."
What are you taking about? How about following up on reports from students? How about reporting inappropriate behavior between students? Other school staff must have had suspicions. I do not believe that nobody knew, its more that nobody did anything.
I hope you mean psychologists assessing teachers. Your sarcastic comment is not helpful. We are talking about child sexual predators; you should take it seriously.
All MCPS staff already have a legal duty to report suspicions of sexual abuse.
And it has been well documented that they don't report.
Anonymous wrote:Age of consent in both DC and Maryland is 16, so it's not statutory rape. I'd bet a fair amount he was well aware of the age and waited until girls were at least 16 to do anything physical.
It looks like if he'd done the same thing in Maryland,actions toward FS-1 would NOT be a crime because the Maryland law seems to only apply to minors. She was 18. https://codes.findlaw.com/md/criminal-law/md-code-crim-law-sect-3-308.html (I'd be really glad to learn I'm wrong, so feel free to correct me if I am.)
If he was "only" the coach for one girl, he'll probably argue the statute doesn't apply since officially crew wasn't sponsored by the school.
He'll probably also argue that the DC statute doesn't apply because the school wasn't in DC.
I suspect that at least some teachers and staff at the school knew or suspected what was going on, but didn't think anything could be done about it since she was 18.
Anonymous wrote:Two different infractions, so far as I can tell.
[1] Teacher and student having sexual activity while student is under 20 (and, obviously, still a student). [This is a DC statute, and it pertains to the 2018 victim]
[2] Statutory rape. [This pertains to 2013 victim who had graduated but was under 18]
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"MCPS hasn't yet begun hiring psychics to do background checks."
What are you taking about? How about following up on reports from students? How about reporting inappropriate behavior between students? Other school staff must have had suspicions. I do not believe that nobody knew, its more that nobody did anything.
I hope you mean psychologists assessing teachers. Your sarcastic comment is not helpful. We are talking about child sexual predators; you should take it seriously.
All MCPS staff already have a legal duty to report suspicions of sexual abuse.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it okay to let your 17 year old read the court documents?
Personally - and I'm very lenient - I wouldn't. Read it for yourself and decide.
Anonymous wrote:Two different infractions, so far as I can tell.
[1] Teacher and student having sexual activity while student is under 20 (and, obviously, still a student). [This is a DC statute, and it pertains to the 2018 victim]
[2] Statutory rape. [This pertains to 2013 victim who had graduated but was under 18]
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The text messages seem to imply it was a consensual relationship.
What does that have to do with anything? Sex with a minor is illegal. Sex with a student is gross.
She was not a minor at the time of the relationship though still a student. And yes from the text messages it seems consensual. Wonder what happened that caused her to file charges against him
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Apparently and sadly this was not shocking news to any of the girls involved with crew in the past 5 years or so.
Yikes - and apparently no one did anything about it.
PP - I just meant many rowers knew about this apparently. I doubt any adults knew. Sorry if that was the implication.
Still if the girls knew their friend was being raped they should have told somebody… police, counselor, parent.
Anonymous wrote:Amongst the kids, the identity of the super-brave, awesome 2018 grad is well-known.
Anonymous wrote:I would not show it to (or share the details with) my 18-year old Whitman grad. Partly because it’s too close to home - she knew him well - and partly because it would encourage too much “who was it” gossip. Those details don’t need to be shared.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:MCPS continues to hire predators. Think it is time to start a program of continuous monitoring - not just one background check. Certain MCEA would fight it - but again they put their ‘members’ ahead of students nearly every day. (Eg COVID response). Why do we allow unions to dominate our kids again?
Unfortunately, this has been true for years. My job puts me in contact with people from the MoCo Police Department and they have known that MCPS has system wide issues with sexual predators.
MCPS continues to hire predators that pass background checks. MCPS hasn't yet begun hiring psychics to do background checks.
What would "continuous monitoring" look like?
Random on the spot phone checks.
I think access to all devises and email would need to cover it. Phones only tell so much. But then there's privacy issues.
All school related electronic communications are subject to public record requests regardless of the device or account.
I wasn't referring to school related electronics - but private ones, at his home.