Anonymous wrote:It’s easier for attractive people.

For average Jane, there is a lot of compromise and we try to look at other things in life to make up for it.

I think for beautiful stunning women it can actually be a curse. My most beautiful friend from college is still single with kids from different men.

And what about many of us single guys nowadays that are still struggling to find love?

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Anonymous wrote:You're not going to settle, eh? Well, you will have to or you will end up all alone.

I don't want bald or fat. I don't want underemployed.

Yes but what about the guy.

The two people in my family who are still married are the ones who settle for everything and have little other choice. They are happily married enough but one of them has a husband who cheats on her and the other one has a husband who is either gay or just not very loving and they have little in common. They both enjoy life regardless and the men go along because the women handle their lives and also their own without their help.

B/c some women are manipulative and will do anything to get a date, a boyfriend, get married, etc.

Because there are two kinds of men educated women find attractive. If you are neither, no women are coming your way:

1) Chad, Brad, Thad, or Tad. 6'2", ripped, wears a backwards baseball cap. Typical guy on The Bachelor.

2) Urban, super skinny, effete metrosexual who speaks with a pseudo gay/artsy affectation.

Anonymous wrote:It's not luck. It's having clear relationship goals and knowing what you want. Not dithering around. At 32 I had been married for 12 years and had my third and last child. Still married happily 15 years later.

Congratulations. Plenty of DCUM women made relationships their priority.

Other women prioritize education and career. That's fine; men do it too. I was surprised when some women in their thirties decide they "deserve" a relationship, and expect men to cooperate. Women expect men to be older, taller, richer, and more educated. So men get rejected for a decade until they get old enough to develop careers and social skills. Some women are naturally pretty and slim, and get immediate attention as teenagers. Other women work on their appearance and flirting skills. But misguided women think their career success should translate into romantic appeal. These are the spinsters asking where to find a rich man.

A 25-year-old woman can date 25-35-year-old men, whereas a 25-year-old man will date 21-25-year-old women. In other words, young women have a 2:1 demographic advantage. A 35-year-old man will find many single 25-35-year-old women to date, but a 35-year-old women will not find many single men in a reasonable age range. And there is a reason these men are single! As you age, dating becomes like last-minute shopping for a holiday toy, when the shelves are almost bare. The selection resembles The Island of Misfit Toys.

It's not luck. It's having clear relationship goals and knowing what you want. Not dithering around. At 32 I had been married for 12 years and had my third and last child. Still married happily 15 years later.

Too many women are fake, fake, fake.

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Anonymous wrote:You're not going to settle, eh? Well, you will have to or you will end up all alone.

I don't want bald or fat. I don't want underemployed.

Yes but what about the guy.

Anonymous wrote:Most women nowadays feel very entitled now more than ever before and are also very greedy, selfish, spoiled, and very picky too since they will never settle for less which certainly has a lot to do with it why so many of us single guys can't really find love today even when we really try.

+1 couldn’t agree more

The ones who are unlucky are gold diggers. Most men can smell them a mile away. They have their fun and move on.

If you Lack of self confidence,are quiet and feeling you don’t deserve the best guy on the room and you are up against outgoing entitled and obvious women, Who is going to get the male attention?

Easy answer. Men aren’t going to step past someone who is totally making it simple for them to get to the person who is more work to win over. So the first category will always have it harder - double if they aren’t top tier good looking.

Anonymous wrote:Most women nowadays feel very entitled now more than ever before and are also very greedy, selfish, spoiled, and very picky too since they will never settle for less which certainly has a lot to do with it why so many of us single guys can't really find love today even when we really try.

Says someone who probably brings little-to-nothing to the table.

Most women nowadays feel very entitled now more than ever before and are also very greedy, selfish, spoiled, and very picky too since they will never settle for less which certainly has a lot to do with it why so many of us single guys can't really find love today even when we really try.