Anonymous wrote:Why do coaches allow this? It's embarrassing for the club

Because coaches could care less about adults who never grew up and kids that need parental guidance that obviously missed the mark due to them living vicariously through their child as children themselves. This whole thread screams insane insecurities. Go have an adult beverage with a friend and try not to talk about soccer.

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Anonymous wrote:Conclusion from reading this thread. Vienna has a pervasive bullying / attitude problem at both the parent and kid level. Looks like a club that needs a shakeup from top down or change in culture.

Or perhaps you shouldn’t draw broad conclusions from reading anonymous threads. One could as easily conclude there is a broad plastic bubble culture in Vienna that parents try to appear to protect at all costs. Neither narrative, of course, is true. At least based on my experience for 14 years in Vienna.

Not the poster above, but I've heard from at least a half dozen people (from within Vienna) that there are some shitty attitudes in VYS. And, while the kids are talented, they don't play inspired soccer. Some NOT ALL, attribute this to demoralizing within teams caused by bad attitudes. At some point, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it's a duck.

Vienna definitely has a plastic bubble culture.

Anonymous wrote:Conclusion from reading this thread. Vienna has a pervasive bullying / attitude problem at both the parent and kid level. Looks like a club that needs a shakeup from top down or change in culture.

Or perhaps you shouldn’t draw broad conclusions from reading anonymous threads. One could as easily conclude there is a broad plastic bubble culture in Vienna that parents try to appear to protect at all costs. Neither narrative, of course, is true. At least based on my experience for 14 years in Vienna.

Conclusion from reading this thread. Vienna has a pervasive bullying / attitude problem at both the parent and kid level. Looks like a club that needs a shakeup from top down or change in culture.

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Anonymous wrote:Ass kissers are irritating. Moms who are convinced that their mediocre kid isn’t starting because cronyism are just as annoying.

Amen. The passive aggressive whining - I mean, at some point, your kid is absolutely getting what she deserves.

So, kids deserve to be called names and harassed by their teammates for no reason? In your feeble mind, it's not your problem if my kid was born small and your kid has the right to call him a midget - completely unprovoked. That's the mentality that Donald Trump normalized.

Um no, that’s not what I said, but I think you ought to deal with this directly instead of airing your grievances anonymously while attacking kids whose identity can be deduced. And as far as mental acumen goes, I am fairly sure I will do laps around you any old day of the week.

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Anonymous wrote:Ass kissers are irritating. Moms who are convinced that their mediocre kid isn’t starting because cronyism are just as annoying.

Amen. The passive aggressive whining - I mean, at some point, your kid is absolutely getting what she deserves.

So, kids deserve to be called names and harassed by their teammates for no reason? In your feeble mind, it's not your problem if my kid was born small and your kid has the right to call him a midget - completely unprovoked. That's the mentality that Donald Trump normalized.

Why do coaches allow this? It's embarrassing for the club

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Anonymous wrote:"promote" him to one or two age groups up on the top team!! then he'll learn.

Ironically, he's playing up a year on the top team of a very good team. And is still mouthing off to everyone, which makes it all the more unbelievable.

VYS 05 Eagles

This was enabled by the coaches.

Was not referring to this particular team but same club and also enabled by coaches. Kid's playing time only increased after repeatedly name calling and talking back to the coach. Would not happen under my watch.

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Anonymous wrote:"promote" him to one or two age groups up on the top team!! then he'll learn.

Ironically, he's playing up a year on the top team of a very good team. And is still mouthing off to everyone, which makes it all the more unbelievable.

VYS 05 Eagles

This was enabled by the coaches.

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Anonymous wrote:We have a kid who is a menace - constantly bickering with other kids, name calling, and even talking back to the coach - including pushing back on position assignments. When brought to the coach, there was NO discipline ever made. Today the club released their board members - and the kid's parent is on this year's board. Now I see how it works.

DC's team has one of these too.

Same here. This girl was the only one not wearing a mask throughout the season. And the coach did - nothing. It even felt my DD was punished with playtime since I raised the mask issue with the coach.

Anonymous wrote:Ass kissers are irritating. Moms who are convinced that their mediocre kid isn’t starting because cronyism are just as annoying.

Amen. The passive aggressive whining - I mean, at some point, your kid is absolutely getting what she deserves.

Ass kissers are irritating. Moms who are convinced that their mediocre kid isn’t starting because cronyism are just as annoying.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"promote" him to one or two age groups up on the top team!! then he'll learn.

Ironically, he's playing up a year on the top team of a very good team. And is still mouthing off to everyone, which makes it all the more unbelievable.

VYS 05 Eagles

Anonymous wrote:We have a kid who is a menace - constantly bickering with other kids, name calling, and even talking back to the coach - including pushing back on position assignments. When brought to the coach, there was NO discipline ever made. Today the club released their board members - and the kid's parent is on this year's board. Now I see how it works.

DC's team has one of these too.