Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:59 yo and spouse is 65 yo. Both feds. Spouse retired under the old system and took a survivor annuity, so nice pension. In addition one in college one in HS, and college fully funded. TSPs have a combined $3M+ as we both always maxed out as well as catch up. Invest accounts outside of retirement is another $3M plus a house fully paid off - in this sellers market could easily get $1M. Yes, I know this is good BUT we didn't spend (low cost/no vacations, ran our cars into the ground, no cable, etc) So now we are having a hard time trying to figure out how to spend. First world problems I know, but is causing a lot of stress.
Sad situation. Most of your “good days” are long gone. Need to balance life out a bit. Not good to hoard and sacrifice so much
for a future that may never materialize. I’ve seen many who plan but never get there, run into debilitating health conditions, or
one of the spouses dies prior to retirement.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:59 yo and spouse is 65 yo. Both feds. Spouse retired under the old system and took a survivor annuity, so nice pension. In addition one in college one in HS, and college fully funded. TSPs have a combined $3M+ as we both always maxed out as well as catch up. Invest accounts outside of retirement is another $3M plus a house fully paid off - in this sellers market could easily get $1M. Yes, I know this is good BUT we didn't spend (low cost/no vacations, ran our cars into the ground, no cable, etc) So now we are having a hard time trying to figure out how to spend. First world problems I know, but is causing a lot of stress.
So you guys are worth $10M. Sheesh government workers get paid so much more than us idiot private company ones. I have a PhD and we saved and saved and never spent but not pension and had expensive housing and didn’t get your $400HHI standard for two FEDs.
Anonymous wrote:55 year old widow with net worth of about 11 million.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We started making money pretty late. House worth 500K, and around 1.5mil in investments. We have money for college for kids. And then we have a pension that we can live on. Of course, pension disappears when we die. We will probably only be able to give this to our kids - paid college and grad school, a new car when starting job, $50K for wedding, $50K for down payment, some seed money for our grandkids.
I think you are doing great!! This sounds very comfortable especially with a pension and $1.5 million. That could easily double by the time you turn 65.
Anonymous wrote:59 yo and spouse is 65 yo. Both feds. Spouse retired under the old system and took a survivor annuity, so nice pension. In addition one in college one in HS, and college fully funded. TSPs have a combined $3M+ as we both always maxed out as well as catch up. Invest accounts outside of retirement is another $3M plus a house fully paid off - in this sellers market could easily get $1M. Yes, I know this is good BUT we didn't spend (low cost/no vacations, ran our cars into the ground, no cable, etc) So now we are having a hard time trying to figure out how to spend. First world problems I know, but is causing a lot of stress.
Anonymous wrote:God we are so far behind. I can’t read these threads. I’m 50, DH is 55, total net worth is just over $1M all in. I am the primary breadwinner making $300k now, so planning to save as much as possible the next 10 years to try to catch up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:59 yo and spouse is 65 yo. Both feds. Spouse retired under the old system and took a survivor annuity, so nice pension. In addition one in college one in HS, and college fully funded. TSPs have a combined $3M+ as we both always maxed out as well as catch up. Invest accounts outside of retirement is another $3M plus a house fully paid off - in this sellers market could easily get $1M. Yes, I know this is good BUT we didn't spend (low cost/no vacations, ran our cars into the ground, no cable, etc) So now we are having a hard time trying to figure out how to spend. First world problems I know, but is causing a lot of stress.
Sad situation. Most of your “good days” are long gone. Need to balance life out a bit. Not good to hoard and sacrifice so much
for a future that may never materialize. I’ve seen many who plan but never get there, run into debilitating health conditions, or
one of the spouses dies prior to retirement.
Anonymous wrote:We started making money pretty late. House worth 500K, and around 1.5mil in investments. We have money for college for kids. And then we have a pension that we can live on. Of course, pension disappears when we die. We will probably only be able to give this to our kids - paid college and grad school, a new car when starting job, $50K for wedding, $50K for down payment, some seed money for our grandkids.
Anonymous wrote:59 yo and spouse is 65 yo. Both feds. Spouse retired under the old system and took a survivor annuity, so nice pension. In addition one in college one in HS, and college fully funded. TSPs have a combined $3M+ as we both always maxed out as well as catch up. Invest accounts outside of retirement is another $3M plus a house fully paid off - in this sellers market could easily get $1M. Yes, I know this is good BUT we didn't spend (low cost/no vacations, ran our cars into the ground, no cable, etc) So now we are having a hard time trying to figure out how to spend. First world problems I know, but is causing a lot of stress.