Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Tell me with the generational racial disparities in wealth that it has nothing to do with race.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2018/02/18/the-racial-wealth-gap-addressing-americas-most-pressing-epidemic/
I am from an affluent european country. Mostly white and made up of upper middle and lower class. Race is NOT the determining factor.
I am on team mental illness as the main reason for true poverty.
Can you acknowledge both that the US is different, that those immigrants and emigrants in your country are in a very different position for saving and building wealth,and that there isn’t *one* answer? Why do you say it has nothing to do with race in the face of evidence?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Tell me with the generational racial disparities in wealth that it has nothing to do with race.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2018/02/18/the-racial-wealth-gap-addressing-americas-most-pressing-epidemic/
I am from an affluent european country. Mostly white and made up of upper middle and lower class. Race is NOT the determining factor.
I am on team mental illness as the main reason for true poverty.
What the f does that have to do with the US?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Tell me with the generational racial disparities in wealth that it has nothing to do with race.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2018/02/18/the-racial-wealth-gap-addressing-americas-most-pressing-epidemic/
I am from an affluent european country. Mostly white and made up of upper middle and lower class. Race is NOT the determining factor.
I am on team mental illness as the main reason for true poverty.
Anonymous wrote:I'm considered lower middle class by DCUM standards (I'm a teacher, husband works in IT) and we have been able to buy a house, have a child in preschool and pay down my student loans (and pay off our cars) and we built up an emergency fund. But in order to make this happen we have sacrificed a lot of spending. We're also lucky to have good health insurance because we had an unexpected medical emergency a few years ago and that could have wiped out our savings but we were lucky to have good health insurance
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Don’t pay for your own graduate education, live further out and commute, send kids to public school, don’t eat at restaurants, have fewer kids...there are many ways to live within your means and save. Most don't.
There you go, OP! All those paycheck-to-paycheck types you are talking about could save tons of they just sent their kids to public school.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I didn't read through the whole thread because after a few pages I see you are getting alot of shade and shaming on this. Just want to say I agree with you. These people do not know what its like to be poor or live on a razors edge. Its very self righteous of them. Yes, there are people who are poor and make bad financial decisions. And yes, they could cut out some luxuries for sure. But cutting out a starbucks a couple times a week is not going to give you 6 months of living expenses. Get a grip people! Also, when you are that on the edge, you are often one step away from crisis and any savings you have get eaten up on a regular basis. ie. you manage to scrimp together $1000 in savings. Yay. Then you have a medical problem and need some testing done that's only partially covered by your insurance, your car breaks down or needs regular maintenance, etc. etc.
I agree with you. Privileged people can be completely tone deaf and simply have no frame of reference to understand. Not everyone can just go get a loan to cover their expenses like our supreme dumbass commerce secretary Wilbur Ross suggests
This sort of thinking right here is why people can't build emergency funds. No, cutting out Starbucks won't give you 6 months of emergency savings overnight, but keep doing it and it sure will. And you know what happens when you start consciously thinking about every $1-$2 expense like Starbucks? You end up cutting other little things here and there. And then over time, you have savings.
And then you have a medical emergency that cuts out that savings and guess what, you start over! You do the same thing you did before to scrimp that $1000 together until you need $1000 for the next emergency. But you don't never try to save to begin with because you might have that emergency one day that will use up the savings.
1000x this.
Anonymous wrote:Don’t pay for your own graduate education, live further out and commute, send kids to public school, don’t eat at restaurants, have fewer kids...there are many ways to live within your means and save. Most don't.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Tell me with the generational racial disparities in wealth that it has nothing to do with race.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2018/02/18/the-racial-wealth-gap-addressing-americas-most-pressing-epidemic/
I am from an affluent european country. Mostly white and made up of upper middle and lower class. Race is NOT the determining factor.
I am on team mental illness as the main reason for true poverty.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I didn't read through the whole thread because after a few pages I see you are getting alot of shade and shaming on this. Just want to say I agree with you. These people do not know what its like to be poor or live on a razors edge. Its very self righteous of them. Yes, there are people who are poor and make bad financial decisions. And yes, they could cut out some luxuries for sure. But cutting out a starbucks a couple times a week is not going to give you 6 months of living expenses. Get a grip people! Also, when you are that on the edge, you are often one step away from crisis and any savings you have get eaten up on a regular basis. ie. you manage to scrimp together $1000 in savings. Yay. Then you have a medical problem and need some testing done that's only partially covered by your insurance, your car breaks down or needs regular maintenance, etc. etc.
I agree with you. Privileged people can be completely tone deaf and simply have no frame of reference to understand. Not everyone can just go get a loan to cover their expenses like our supreme dumbass commerce secretary Wilbur Ross suggests
This sort of thinking right here is why people can't build emergency funds. No, cutting out Starbucks won't give you 6 months of emergency savings overnight, but keep doing it and it sure will. And you know what happens when you start consciously thinking about every $1-$2 expense like Starbucks? You end up cutting other little things here and there. And then over time, you have savings.
And then you have a medical emergency that cuts out that savings and guess what, you start over! You do the same thing you did before to scrimp that $1000 together until you need $1000 for the next emergency. But you don't never try to save to begin with because you might have that emergency one day that will use up the savings.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The PP who said “people find themselves there because of poor life choices” wins for saying the most ignorant, racist thing I could think of for this thread. Ignorant f*ck.
That's ridiculous! Tons of people make poor life choices and it has nothing to do with race.
Tell me with the generational racial disparities in wealth that it has nothing to do with race.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2018/02/18/the-racial-wealth-gap-addressing-americas-most-pressing-epidemic/
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The privilege from some of these posters is astonishing. Some of you literally have NO IDEA that people are not struggling because they are getting their nails or hair done or buying Starbucks every day, but because basic costs like housing and healthcare have gone up greatly and incomes haven't followed.
Or perhaps it's because these costs have increased, incomes have not followed, and yet people think they "deserve" to live as before. If your income is not keeping up with your basic costs, you reduce those costs or you hustle more.
Of course there are exceptions; it's not that simple for people with hundreds of thousands in medical bills because they have a horrible disease, etc., or for the 25 year old widow with 3 kids who suddenly lost her husband in a car crash. But we're talking in generalizations here and these extenuating circumstances are not what are keeping most people from getting ahead.
Saving is supposed to be hard. No one is saying it's easy. But hard doesn't equal impossible.