Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
There's nothing wrong with VA kids but just wrong for my kid. UVA is a fairly conservative school that attracts kids, in-state and out who want to join frats and have that joe-college kind of experience. Nothing wrong with them, just wrong for him. (And please don't argue that there are all kinds of kids there because there's no point in working hard to pick a college if none of them have anything special about the product they offer. This is just one that is not for him.)
Good luck to your kid, truly. But you can’t make a sweeping generalization about 30K students being into fraternities. And UVA conservative? LOL!
Over 60% consider themselves moderate, conservative, or very conservative. Only 35% consider themselves democrats. For college kids, that is glaringly conservative
Anonymous wrote:
Source? “Moderate” does not equal “conservative”.
Signed,
Moderate voter
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
There's nothing wrong with VA kids but just wrong for my kid. UVA is a fairly conservative school that attracts kids, in-state and out who want to join frats and have that joe-college kind of experience. Nothing wrong with them, just wrong for him. (And please don't argue that there are all kinds of kids there because there's no point in working hard to pick a college if none of them have anything special about the product they offer. This is just one that is not for him.)
Good luck to your kid, truly. But you can’t make a sweeping generalization about 30K students being into fraternities. And UVA conservative? LOL!
Over 60% consider themselves moderate, conservative, or very conservative. Only 35% consider themselves democrats. For college kids, that is glaringly conservative
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
There's nothing wrong with VA kids but just wrong for my kid. UVA is a fairly conservative school that attracts kids, in-state and out who want to join frats and have that joe-college kind of experience. Nothing wrong with them, just wrong for him. (And please don't argue that there are all kinds of kids there because there's no point in working hard to pick a college if none of them have anything special about the product they offer. This is just one that is not for him.)
Good luck to your kid, truly. But you can’t make a sweeping generalization about 30K students being into fraternities. And UVA conservative? LOL!
Anonymous wrote:UVA isn't even close to 30,000 students. It's just over half of that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
There's nothing wrong with VA kids but just wrong for my kid. UVA is a fairly conservative school that attracts kids, in-state and out who want to join frats and have that joe-college kind of experience. Nothing wrong with them, just wrong for him. (And please don't argue that there are all kinds of kids there because there's no point in working hard to pick a college if none of them have anything special about the product they offer. This is just one that is not for him.)
Good luck to your kid, truly. But you can’t make a sweeping generalization about 30K students being into fraternities. And UVA conservative? LOL!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am the OP who first started this thread back in Feb of 2018. Sorry. . .
My S is in the second semester of his freshman year at Davidson and loves it. Small classes, close faculty interaction, good friends, and an overall very supportive school environment.
Yes, my wallet would prefer UVA, but he is very happy. And he has found the Pre-med advising services to be quite helpful (even for freshmen).
Onward and upward.
Well done.
Anonymous wrote:I am the OP who first started this thread back in Feb of 2018. Sorry. . .
My S is in the second semester of his freshman year at Davidson and loves it. Small classes, close faculty interaction, good friends, and an overall very supportive school environment.
Yes, my wallet would prefer UVA, but he is very happy. And he has found the Pre-med advising services to be quite helpful (even for freshmen).
Onward and upward.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
There's nothing wrong with VA kids but just wrong for my kid. UVA is a fairly conservative school that attracts kids, in-state and out who want to join frats and have that joe-college kind of experience. Nothing wrong with them, just wrong for him. (And please don't argue that there are all kinds of kids there because there's no point in working hard to pick a college if none of them have anything special about the product they offer. This is just one that is not for him.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.
So very curious as to the kind of kids your VA kid doesn't care for?
Anonymous wrote:OP - It really depends on what it means to your family to spend this money.
My VA kid was absolutely opposed to going to UVA. It was a bad fit for him, and it attracts a kind of kid who he doesn't much care for. He went to an OOS flagship that is a much better fit (but we don't have the $$ for full fees private).
Those are two very good private colleges and they do offer something UVA does not, so it really comes down to opportunity cost:
a) borrowing!!!! scary.
b) no funds to help with grand school?
c) will be living lean for 4 years, which might affect internships and other opportunities
d) other children....
we can't answer that.