Anonymous
09/26/2017 13:06
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:My SO is annoyed that I let my German Shepherd sleep on the bed. What he doesn't know is that when he travels on business my German Shepherd replaces him in bed.
You bang your dog? Gross!
Anonymous
09/26/2017 13:03
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Jesus... what's your total debt right now? No offense but this is something you need therapy for as that habit is absolutely going to bankrupt you.
+1
Dollars to donuts that PP is a guy.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 13:02
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Jesus... what's your total debt right now? No offense but this is something you need therapy for as that habit is absolutely going to bankrupt you.
Therapy doesn't work, and hasn't worked, I tried it 3 times.
You need to give credit up as a concept then. You're treating it like an addiction and it will break you, and he's likely going to leave you as well over it. Just cut up the cards and work toward paying them off and not opening any more
This is a "he." Doe sit change the situation, when this behavior is a man and not a woman?
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:59
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
My SO is annoyed that I let my German Shepherd sleep on the bed. What he doesn't know is that when he travels on business my German Shepherd replaces him in bed.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:58
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Jesus... what's your total debt right now? No offense but this is something you need therapy for as that habit is absolutely going to bankrupt you.
Therapy doesn't work, and hasn't worked, I tried it 3 times.
You need to give credit up as a concept then. You're treating it like an addiction and it will break you, and he's likely going to leave you as well over it. Just cut up the cards and work toward paying them off and not opening any more
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:56
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Jesus... what's your total debt right now? No offense but this is something you need therapy for as that habit is absolutely going to bankrupt you.
Therapy doesn't work, and hasn't worked, I tried it 3 times.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:51
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Jesus... what's your total debt right now? No offense but this is something you need therapy for as that habit is absolutely going to bankrupt you.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:49
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged[u] and balance is 30k.
I mean "CHARGED OFF."
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:49
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:
2. I had multiple affairs early in our marriage. At one point, I was sleeping with three different people besides him.
You sound like fun.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:48
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Maxed out two credit cards, took out a secret loan to pay them off, then maxed them out again, took out another secret loan to pay off the first loan and the maxed credit cards.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged and balance is 30k.
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Cleaned out child's savings account.
Spent $700 at a strip club.
Took out two random secret loans over 3 years for $3k and $5k.
Maxed out the credit cards again with cash advances to the amount of $20k.
Took out another secret loan to cover the credit cards again.
Acquired a third secret card and maxed it.
Stopped making payments on the secret loan and secret credit card last year and now both items have been discharged and balance is 30k.
Can't get any more loans.
Spouse wants to start buying a house.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:35
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
I have a fair amount of CC debt leftover from before I was divorced from my XH. Some of it came from bad joint decisions between us and I got a little screwed in the divorce. I don’t think my new SO would be upset because I pay it all myself and still contribute to our savings and overhead, but I’m embarrassed about it. It seems like small potatoes compared to some of these, though.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 12:29
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
He doesn't know about DCUM and my chats with other guys.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 11:26
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
I have 2.
1. Right before her death, DH's mother confided in me that he and his brother have different fathers. His brother's father is actually his uncle (FIL's brother). No one else (including FIL) knows this.
2. I had multiple affairs early in our marriage. At one point, I was sleeping with three different people besides him.
1. Right before her death, DH's mother confided in me that he and his brother have different fathers. His brother's father is actually his uncle (FIL's brother). No one else (including FIL) knows this.
2. I had multiple affairs early in our marriage. At one point, I was sleeping with three different people besides him.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 01:25
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
That I was not really born into his culture. My parents are dead and I have no siblings or relatives I'm in contact with. DH wanted a girl from his culture and I wanted him, so I lied. His fault for being stupid enough to let something as stupid as "blood" almost come between us.
Anonymous
09/26/2017 01:17
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
He thinks I've been with 3 people. I've been 29 sonething people