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"Surprisingly few well-designed studies of female age and natural fertility include women born in the 20th century—but those that do tend to paint a more optimistic picture. One study, published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 and headed by David Dunson (now of Duke University), examined the chances of pregnancy among 770 European women. It found that with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. (The fertility of women in their late 20s and early 30s was almost identical—news in and of itself.) Another study, released this March in Fertility and Sterility and led by Kenneth Rothman of Boston University, followed 2,820 Danish women as they tried to get pregnant. Among women having sex during their fertile times, 78 percent of 35-to-40-year-olds got pregnant within a year, compared with 84 percent of 20-to-34-year-olds. A study headed by Anne Steiner, an associate professor at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine, the results of which were presented in June, found that among 38- and 39-year-olds who had been pregnant before, 80 percent of white women of normal weight got pregnant naturally within six months (although that percentage was lower among other races and among the overweight). “In our data, we’re not seeing huge drops until age 40,” she told me."

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2013/07/how-long-can-you-wait-to-have-a-baby/309374/

In other words, fertility in most of your 30s is not all that much different from fertility in your 20s.

The reason 30 year old women are considered "old" is that their value is still intrinsically tied to reproduction in our sexist world. Eventually this comes around to men too -- it just takes a decade longer, when people start looking askance at never-married 40-year old men.

with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds.

You must stop all those "decreased fertility' comments. Above is a quote from page 3 or 4 - but who cares about the facts, right?

Sorry, PP. Among older women, the miscarriage rate is the determining factor in fertility, not the conception rate, and the miscarriage rate starts to increase between 25 and 30 years of age, and hits an astoundingly high rate of over 80% by age 45:

https://expectingscience.com/2015/08/26/lies-damned-lies-and-miscarriage-statistics/#womansage

Nobody ever said there isn't a decline with fertility with age. But it's factually incorrect to act like it's a crisis if you don't get pregnant in your 20s. The VAST majority of women in their mid 30s will conceive and give birth to healthy babies. Mid-30s is not "old" reproductively.

You must stop all those "decreased fertility' comments.

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"Surprisingly few well-designed studies of female age and natural fertility include women born in the 20th century—but those that do tend to paint a more optimistic picture. One study, published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 and headed by David Dunson (now of Duke University), examined the chances of pregnancy among 770 European women. It found that with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. (The fertility of women in their late 20s and early 30s was almost identical—news in and of itself.) Another study, released this March in Fertility and Sterility and led by Kenneth Rothman of Boston University, followed 2,820 Danish women as they tried to get pregnant. Among women having sex during their fertile times, 78 percent of 35-to-40-year-olds got pregnant within a year, compared with 84 percent of 20-to-34-year-olds. A study headed by Anne Steiner, an associate professor at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine, the results of which were presented in June, found that among 38- and 39-year-olds who had been pregnant before, 80 percent of white women of normal weight got pregnant naturally within six months (although that percentage was lower among other races and among the overweight). “In our data, we’re not seeing huge drops until age 40,” she told me."

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2013/07/how-long-can-you-wait-to-have-a-baby/309374/

In other words, fertility in most of your 30s is not all that much different from fertility in your 20s.

The reason 30 year old women are considered "old" is that their value is still intrinsically tied to reproduction in our sexist world. Eventually this comes around to men too -- it just takes a decade longer, when people start looking askance at never-married 40-year old men.

with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds.

You must stop all those "decreased fertility' comments. Above is a quote from page 3 or 4 - but who cares about the facts, right?

Sorry, PP. Among older women, the miscarriage rate is the determining factor in fertility, not the conception rate, and the miscarriage rate starts to increase between 25 and 30 years of age, and hits an astoundingly high rate of over 80% by age 45:

https://expectingscience.com/2015/08/26/lies-damned-lies-and-miscarriage-statistics/#womansage

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"Surprisingly few well-designed studies of female age and natural fertility include women born in the 20th century—but those that do tend to paint a more optimistic picture. One study, published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 and headed by David Dunson (now of Duke University), examined the chances of pregnancy among 770 European women. It found that with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. (The fertility of women in their late 20s and early 30s was almost identical—news in and of itself.) Another study, released this March in Fertility and Sterility and led by Kenneth Rothman of Boston University, followed 2,820 Danish women as they tried to get pregnant. Among women having sex during their fertile times, 78 percent of 35-to-40-year-olds got pregnant within a year, compared with 84 percent of 20-to-34-year-olds. A study headed by Anne Steiner, an associate professor at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine, the results of which were presented in June, found that among 38- and 39-year-olds who had been pregnant before, 80 percent of white women of normal weight got pregnant naturally within six months (although that percentage was lower among other races and among the overweight). “In our data, we’re not seeing huge drops until age 40,” she told me."

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2013/07/how-long-can-you-wait-to-have-a-baby/309374/

In other words, fertility in most of your 30s is not all that much different from fertility in your 20s.

The reason 30 year old women are considered "old" is that their value is still intrinsically tied to reproduction in our sexist world. Eventually this comes around to men too -- it just takes a decade longer, when people start looking askance at never-married 40-year old men.

with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds.

You must stop all those "decreased fertility' comments. Above is a quote from page 3 or 4 - but who cares about the facts, right?

Anonymous wrote:It’s not that unusual to get pregnant in your early 40s. Before birth control, women did this all the time. Check geneologies from the past. Women were having kids for 20+ years.

Though, it’s possible that having your first child after 40 might be different than having your seventh.

Anonymous wrote:Because women peak in 20s/early 30s. Men don't.

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Anonymous wrote:Women will always look their best in their 20's. They are not old in their 30's but because of declining fertility women have been viewed as becoming old in their 30's. That's not to say that women in their 40's and older can't be attractive but they don't have the same supple skin as when they were 20.

The day women realise they have more to offer than their looks is when they will find happiness. Chasing youth with surgery and botox screams of insecurity to me.

What is supple skin? line free and wrinkle free? cause I met plenty of 20 somethings with lines, bags, acne, etc.

Younger skin is dewy, smooth, plump, soft. As you age you get fine lines, larger pores, it's drier. It's aging, it's ok. Older women aren't suppose to be the same as younger women, even in ethnic races you can tell an older face, they get harder somehow.

Agree about the harder face but those of us with round or moon faces (not chubby though) run a lesser risk of getting a hard aging face. Also again I never ask people how old I look but they do tell me how much younger I look when they find out my age.

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Anonymous wrote:Women will always look their best in their 20's. They are not old in their 30's but because of declining fertility women have been viewed as becoming old in their 30's. That's not to say that women in their 40's and older can't be attractive but they don't have the same supple skin as when they were 20.

The day women realise they have more to offer than their looks is when they will find happiness. Chasing youth with surgery and botox screams of insecurity to me.

What is supple skin? line free and wrinkle free? cause I met plenty of 20 somethings with lines, bags, acne, etc.

Younger skin is dewy, smooth, plump, soft. As you age you get fine lines, larger pores, it's drier. It's aging, it's ok. Older women aren't suppose to be the same as younger women, even in ethnic races you can tell an older face, they get harder somehow.

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Anonymous wrote:Women will always look their best in their 20's. They are not old in their 30's but because of declining fertility women have been viewed as becoming old in their 30's. That's not to say that women in their 40's and older can't be attractive but they don't have the same supple skin as when they were 20.

The day women realise they have more to offer than their looks is when they will find happiness. Chasing youth with surgery and botox screams of insecurity to me.

What is supple skin? line free and wrinkle free? cause I met plenty of 20 somethings with lines, bags, acne, etc.

Younger skin is dewy, smooth, plump, soft. As you age you get fine lines, larger pores, it's drier. It's aging, it's ok. Older women aren't suppose to be the same as younger women, even in ethnic races you can tell an older face, they get harder somehow.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd heard all this scary stuff about being in your late 30s and having fertility issues. Then I conceived two kids at 36 and 39 our first month trying both times. I know a lot of women like me including my mother who had an Oops baby at 43 -but no one ever talks about this.

Fertility does decline. You were lucky. I had to use a reproductive endo at age 30. There were women in their 30s crying everyday at the clinic. He has the highest success rate in my city (not DC) and he even said, fertility declines I see it everyday.

I'm 33 now and it's all about that. I look good but my clock internally for babies is different.

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Anonymous wrote:Women will always look their best in their 20's. They are not old in their 30's but because of declining fertility women have been viewed as becoming old in their 30's. That's not to say that women in their 40's and older can't be attractive but they don't have the same supple skin as when they were 20.

The day women realise they have more to offer than their looks is when they will find happiness. Chasing youth with surgery and botox screams of insecurity to me.

What is supple skin? line free and wrinkle free? cause I met plenty of 20 somethings with lines, bags, acne, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd heard all this scary stuff about being in your late 30s and having fertility issues. Then I conceived two kids at 36 and 39 our first month trying both times. I know a lot of women like me including my mother who had an Oops baby at 43 -but no one ever talks about this.

Fertility does decline. You were lucky. I had to use a reproductive endo at age 30. There were women in their 30s crying everyday at the clinic. He has the highest success rate in my city (not DC) and he even said, fertility declines I see it everyday.

I'm 33 now and it's all about that. I look good but my clock internally for babies is different.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd heard all this scary stuff about being in your late 30s and having fertility issues. Then I conceived two kids at 36 and 39 our first month trying both times. I know a lot of women like me including my mother who had an Oops baby at 43 -but no one ever talks about this.

Fertility does decline. You were lucky. I had to use a reproductive endo at age 30. There were women in their 30s crying everyday at the clinic. He has the highest success rate in my city (not DC) and he even said, fertility declines I see it everyday.

I'm 33 now and it's all about that. I look good but my clock internally for babies is different.

Anonymous wrote:I'd heard all this scary stuff about being in your late 30s and having fertility issues. Then I conceived two kids at 36 and 39 our first month trying both times. I know a lot of women like me including my mother who had an Oops baby at 43 -but no one ever talks about this.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP and I am a woman. I'm just saying like it is. Women dont age as well unless they try real hard like J. Lo.

This has been rehashed in other threads in the beauty forum: people of color usually age better than Caucasians. General thought is because there is more melanin, less sun damage, and more moisturizing that is done since darker complexions see dryness in their skin and use lotion to hydrate before they feel it getting tight and dry. Helps ward off wrinkles and eye bags. African, Asian, Hispanic, and Indian men and women have some of the most supple beautiful skin in old age.