Anonymous
07/21/2016 10:51
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:I think Jojo is the type of person who is very empathetic, to the point where she loses herself and is very influenced by what others say and do. She kind of molds herself to match or to fulfill a need, but it's a subconscious thing.
This kind of person (I think I'm one too) doesn't really get a strong sense of herself/himself until later. With a guy like Ben, she probably would've been okay, because he's mature and kind enough not to take advantage. But the guys there , even the well-meaning ones, seem like they'd lead her down a bad path because they lack depth or focus or sincerity (except maybe Luke). I think in her 30s or 40s she'll go through something that will help her become a more discerning and strong woman. Until then, I don't know...
Seems true to some extent. However I think she is also pretty savvy and asks the right questions of people. Whether she makes good choices based on that information is a different matter...
Anonymous
07/21/2016 09:26
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
I think Jojo is the type of person who is very empathetic, to the point where she loses herself and is very influenced by what others say and do. She kind of molds herself to match or to fulfill a need, but it's a subconscious thing.
This kind of person (I think I'm one too) doesn't really get a strong sense of herself/himself until later. With a guy like Ben, she probably would've been okay, because he's mature and kind enough not to take advantage. But the guys there , even the well-meaning ones, seem like they'd lead her down a bad path because they lack depth or focus or sincerity (except maybe Luke). I think in her 30s or 40s she'll go through something that will help her become a more discerning and strong woman. Until then, I don't know...
This kind of person (I think I'm one too) doesn't really get a strong sense of herself/himself until later. With a guy like Ben, she probably would've been okay, because he's mature and kind enough not to take advantage. But the guys there , even the well-meaning ones, seem like they'd lead her down a bad path because they lack depth or focus or sincerity (except maybe Luke). I think in her 30s or 40s she'll go through something that will help her become a more discerning and strong woman. Until then, I don't know...
Anonymous
07/21/2016 09:20
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kinda sad because it seems like her and Ben were a better fit than any of these guys.
It's true. Whatever they had felt genuine.
That's because Ben was a genuine guy.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 23:28
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:Kinda sad because it seems like her and Ben were a better fit than any of these guys.
It's true. Whatever they had felt genuine.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 23:02
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Kinda sad because it seems like her and Ben were a better fit than any of these guys.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 22:57
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Still think Robbie has a 'looks can kill' thing about his eyes, and when speaking to someone, it seems as if he is looking slightly downward somehow, as if maybe at the person's lips, first. Not sure, just a weird thing going on overall. His intensity toward JoJo feels real, but it is really soo heavy, almost too much.
Luke - Putting aside whatever passion they have, the guy says "like" so much and seems too serious for her.
Chase - Unclear what at all he and JoJo have in common.
Jordan - Something feels unconvincing overall. Agree seems if he and JoJo end up together that duo won't last long.
Guess overall I can't say with confidence any of them are a 'perfect' match for her.
Luke - Putting aside whatever passion they have, the guy says "like" so much and seems too serious for her.
Chase - Unclear what at all he and JoJo have in common.
Jordan - Something feels unconvincing overall. Agree seems if he and JoJo end up together that duo won't last long.
Guess overall I can't say with confidence any of them are a 'perfect' match for her.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 19:20
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
She mentioned once that he was "an Olympic swimmer." Still, your point is correct.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 18:27
Subject: Re:JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Speaking of titles- what does RObbie do? You can't be a "former competitive swimmer" professionally! These titles would piss me off!
Anonymous
07/20/2016 18:06
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Why does Jordan wear the tightest clothes? I swear he has jeggings on.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 17:43
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
What is it with Jordan and pushing her up against walls to kiss the whole time ? Did he see it in a movie and think it was a cool move or something? Its getting a little repetitive.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 15:30
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:
Totally agree about red flags with Jordan. It never works out with guys who have issues with the other guys (or girls with the girls). NEVER. Red flag if you can't play nice with others.
Luke - not sure. Yes, he's quiet, but I haven't seen that much depth, either. Being quiet doesn't necessarily mean deep. Does he work? Seems they just say "veteran." I don't know that he's playful enough for her.
He'd still be my first choice.
He's a singer-songwriter: https://www.gigmasters.com/country-band/lukepell Interesting they haven't really made a big deal of that on the show - unlike James Taylor who seemed surgically attached to his guitar.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 14:57
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:Chase seems like the most normal. I'd pick him.
I think Jordan won't talk about the brother because he doesn't want to air his dirty laundry on TV, and at this point I'd be annoyed with JoJo for continuing to bring it up. He was pretty clear that he didn't want her to talk about it with the family. I'm sure he'd tell her more after the show.
I'm not a huge Jordan fan - agree with PP it'll be a People magazine cover and then crash and burn while she pines for Luke - but I'm pretty sure the producers are egging her to talk about Aaron. It's definitely part of why they cast Jordan in the first place.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 12:16
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Chase seems like the most normal. I'd pick him.
I think Jordan won't talk about the brother because he doesn't want to air his dirty laundry on TV, and at this point I'd be annoyed with JoJo for continuing to bring it up. He was pretty clear that he didn't want her to talk about it with the family. I'm sure he'd tell her more after the show.
I think Jordan won't talk about the brother because he doesn't want to air his dirty laundry on TV, and at this point I'd be annoyed with JoJo for continuing to bring it up. He was pretty clear that he didn't want her to talk about it with the family. I'm sure he'd tell her more after the show.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 11:22
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
She should pick Jordan just to indulge that fiery chemistry until it inevitably fizzles out. As much as she blathers about how deeply she feels for each of them, I don't think her heart is in it any more than theirs.
Robbie is just creepy with all his ex drama and denial.
Robbie is just creepy with all his ex drama and denial.
Anonymous
07/20/2016 11:01
Subject: JoJo the new Bachelorette 2016
Anonymous wrote:Also in every single conversation we've seen between Jordan and JoJo they interrupt and talk across each other's sentences, talk about not being in tune AT ALL, in fact I think they are completely at odds with each other and she is just lured by his assocication with fame. I really do. Its not brought the best out in her at all.
I agree, along with her fixation with the pseudo-drama with his brother.