Anonymous
Post 03/11/2014 17:47     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:I totally love my girlfriend and in the two years we have dated, have never asked her about the number of people she has slept with, and vice versa. What good would it do? There are some things in my past I am not proud of and am sure she probably does also. Does that make either of us terrible people? Why someone would even ask a partner is beyond me. I would really rather not know.


No, you're not a terrible person for that, but your post does make you seem like a terrible writer/editor. #strunkandwhite
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2014 17:45     Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
10 including DH.
DH I don't want to know his number!
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2014 17:37     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
25, OP? What a ginger-pup....."Spread-ém" .
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 16:01     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:i have no clue, stopped counting long ago. dumb question but how does a woman have sex with a woman? is'nt a P necessary for sex?


You're kidding.


No, I'm not. Do they have to strap something on for it to be considered sex? I'm straight so I honestly have no clue.


You're a sheltered little thing, aren't you? Bless your heart.

Oral sex, hand play, mutual masturbation, fisting, and sometimes toys, including strap-ons.

Sex doesn't have to involve penetration for it to be sex.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 07:41     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
One
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 07:39     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:i have no clue, stopped counting long ago. dumb question but how does a woman have sex with a woman? is'nt a P necessary for sex?


You're kidding.


No, I'm not. Do they have to strap something on for it to be considered sex? I'm straight so I honestly have no clue.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 07:27     Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Tried counting them a couple of times as I lay in bed and fell asleep both times! I was actually doing it chronologically as best as I could remember the order.

I guess it's the modern version of counting sheep!
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 07:13     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What I always wonder is why women never worry about how many a man has slept with? My guess is because women can have sex whenever they want and a man has to work for it. Therefore, it is looked at as an achievement for guys.


Why are you generalizing? I sure don't want a whore man.


Because the questions are always about a woman's sexuality, not a man's. I have never heard of stud shaming.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 02:43     Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:+2 Probably a bitter dick who always got rejected. Always have your hand buddy


LOL at the weak, stupid and predictable insults. If you're the nasty skank who has had hundreds of men inside you, yeah, I would rather use my hand than come within a mile of you.

Have fun getting pumped and dumped!


^This bitch probably shits on women for doing the same thing he does. Yes, go fuck yourself.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 22:59     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:What I always wonder is why women never worry about how many a man has slept with? My guess is because women can have sex whenever they want and a man has to work for it. Therefore, it is looked at as an achievement for guys.


Why are you generalizing? I sure don't want a whore man.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 21:58     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
2, including DH, who I started dating at age 21. Definitely fooled around with plenty of other guys before then, but just didn't have sex.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 19:35     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally love my girlfriend and in the two years we have dated, have never asked her about the number of people she has slept with, and vice versa. What good would it do? There are some things in my past I am not proud of and am sure she probably does also. Does that make either of us terrible people? Why someone would even ask a partner is beyond me. I would really rather not know.


You don't have to ask from a judgement perspective, but her past is part of who she is today. Don't you ask about previous jobs, or schools, or friends? I just feel like its part of sharing who we are with the people we commit to.


I think the number of people someone has sex with is a little different than talking about a previous job or school.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 08:33     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:I totally love my girlfriend and in the two years we have dated, have never asked her about the number of people she has slept with, and vice versa. What good would it do? There are some things in my past I am not proud of and am sure she probably does also. Does that make either of us terrible people? Why someone would even ask a partner is beyond me. I would really rather not know.


You don't have to ask from a judgement perspective, but her past is part of who she is today. Don't you ask about previous jobs, or schools, or friends? I just feel like its part of sharing who we are with the people we commit to.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 08:14     Subject: How many men have you slept with?
What I always wonder is why women never worry about how many a man has slept with? My guess is because women can have sex whenever they want and a man has to work for it. Therefore, it is looked at as an achievement for guys.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 08:05     Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:+2 Probably a bitter dick who always got rejected. Always have your hand buddy


LOL at the weak, stupid and predictable insults. If you're the nasty skank who has had hundreds of men inside you, yeah, I would rather use my hand than come within a mile of you.

Have fun getting pumped and dumped!