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Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

Burden didn’t need to write a book. She chose to write a book. She said her mother had also faced infidelity in her relationships and in her social class women were supposed to just smile, rug sweep and carry on. She wanted to defy that expectation.

Defying expectations alone isn’t a great idea. In the Modern Love podcast, she said that a friend asked why she was printing all this. I wouldn’t say this after my friend showed me her by-line, but if she told me about the idea before she published, I would have certainly asked her what she hoped to get out the experience.

Well, if her ex relies family friends to raise money or land jobs, he will have a harder time now. Funds of funds are a dime a dozen.

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Anonymous wrote:Did the predatory prenup get reenforced?

Her mother insisted on a prenup. Belle received and disregarded her lawyer’s advice. Then Belle, a lawyer, signed it.

There was nothing predatory about it.

you left out "her fiancé demanded changes that allowed him to hoard for himself every penny he made during the marriage"

That’s not a quite accurate description as she described it in the book. But in any event, she had legal advice and disregarded it. Yet, she still signed. She entered into this contract with your eyes wide open.

I read the book. My quote is absolutely what happened.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did the predatory prenup get reenforced?

Her mother insisted on a prenup. Belle received and disregarded her lawyer’s advice. Then Belle, a lawyer, signed it.

There was nothing predatory about it.

you left out "her fiancé demanded changes that allowed him to hoard for himself every penny he made during the marriage"

That’s not a quite accurate description as she described it in the book. But in any event, she had legal advice and disregarded it. Yet, she still signed. She entered into this contract with your eyes wide open.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

Burden didn’t need to write a book. She chose to write a book. She said her mother had also faced infidelity in her relationships and in her social class women were supposed to just smile, rug sweep and carry on. She wanted to defy that expectation.

Defying expectations alone isn’t a great idea. In the Modern Love podcast, she said that a friend asked why she was printing all this. I wouldn’t say this after my friend showed me her by-line, but if she told me about the idea before she published, I would have certainly asked her what she hoped to get out the experience.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did the predatory prenup get reenforced?

Her mother insisted on a prenup. Belle received and disregarded her lawyer’s advice. Then Belle, a lawyer, signed it.

There was nothing predatory about it.

you left out "her fiancé demanded changes that allowed him to hoard for himself every penny he made during the marriage"

Anonymous wrote:A lot of the socially prominent women of her generation in NY like Tory Burch, Alexandra von Furstenberg, Pia Getty, Brooke de Ocampo, and Marina Rust ended up divorced.

Belle met her ex not long after her father died, and he reminded her physically of his dad. He didn't have the temper of her father and thought she would not have the life her grandmother/mother had with their cheating husbands.

Men with opportunity especially in the finance world cheat just because they can.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did the predatory prenup get reenforced?

Her mother insisted on a prenup. Belle received and disregarded her lawyer’s advice. Then Belle, a lawyer, signed it.

There was nothing predatory about it.

Anonymous wrote:A lot of the socially prominent women of her generation in NY like Tory Burch, Alexandra von Furstenberg, Pia Getty, Brooke de Ocampo, and Marina Rust ended up divorced.

Belle met her ex not long after her father died, and he reminded her physically of his dad. He didn't have the temper of her father and thought she would not have the life her grandmother/mother had with their cheating husbands.

Men with opportunity especially in the finance world cheat just because they can.

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Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

You’re dead wrong and a quick search will prove it:

“Higher Male Regret: Studies by Avvo and others show men reporting regret (around 32-39%) more than women (around 27%) after divorce.”

Anonymous wrote:Did the predatory prenup get reenforced?

Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

Burden didn’t need to write a book. She chose to write a book. She said her mother had also faced infidelity in her relationships and in her social class women were supposed to just smile, rug sweep and carry on. She wanted to defy that expectation.

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Anonymous wrote:My boss is having an affair with a much younger woman. She doesn't work for our company. But the man is having the time of his life (his words not mine) with his young flame. He said that she knows that he is married and she asked for the first time last weekend to leave his wife for her. He said he is going to end it because she went there.

People are wild. In the meantime his poor wife is at home probably making his sandwiches every day, taking care of him when his sick and take care of their kids as well.

Now the craziest thing in all of this is that there is 99% chance that if he get caught she will just tell him they should go to therapy and will face zero consequences.

I feel bad for some of you married people.

You should advise the wife.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this how much divorce mentally affect women? I don't think men are as devastated when their marriage ends.

She didn't have to write a book. She just needed a you her stallion with a good D and forget about the loser

Or maybe because she is wealthy she thought it can't happen to her?

Every woman should never utter "I don't think he would ever do this to me" when their husband cheats on them. Men cheat and they will never stop. It doesn't matter if you are waitress, a CEO, a billionaire, a Prime minister, a spy. If a man is going to cheat on you, he will do so.

Burden didn’t need to write a book. She chose to write a book. She said her mother had also faced infidelity in her relationships and in her social class women were supposed to just smile, rug sweep and carry on. She wanted to defy that expectation.