Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From the ny link. Notice never mentions devoted, loving husband.

“To say he was devoted seems cliché. It feels like an overused word, but it is the correct word. He was a devoted father. His four children were and will always be his greatest love and his greatest legacy,” the obituary continued.

“He was the son, brother, father, friend, and love you prayed to have in your life,” it added. “Above all, he was a dreamer.”

Note use of word "love" and not "husband" or "partner". Careful writing there.