Anonymous wrote:I think in a lot of ways, it depends on what they want to do after college - if their interest is going into environmental or public health type job that is either paid for or affiliated with the government? Probably need to rethink. Want to be a doctor or an engineer or get a degree in accounting? You will likely be fine.
This said, I would not send my DD to college in a deep red state however. DS can go if he wants but no way no how would I send my daughter. Also and to be blunt about it, my kids are white, Christian and straight - in today’s climate, if they weren’t all these things I’d be a lot more worried about which part of the country they’d go to for college and their future in general.
My kids are also straight. Not White. Not Christian. I don't think it really matters. CS majors currently. Going to UMD. 30 minutes from home. Have had paid internships for all the summers in college. Tuition paid entirely by UMD. Here are my takeaways -
- Yes, bad political, economic, social climate. Also, terrible job market which is not going to become great any time soon. Staying close to home has given us peace of mind and saved us a shitload of money.
- Cream rises to the top. It is great to be less privileged and less entitled from the get go. You are resilient and use all tools in your arsenal to get ahead.
- No student debt and maximizing your education dollars means that you already have a leg up.
- Whatever is happening is the new normal.
- Learn from others and incorporate that in your life. I suspect that multi-gen joint families will become the norm soon. The wastefulness of how Americans consume resources will also need to end. Adapt or perish.