Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:35     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think they are probably somewhat desperate for this to work. Starting over again when you have teens and exes is exhausting. Especially when you have had a string of relationships.

Maybe they will have a better and healthier relationship if they don't live together.



Maybe. I think the only way their relationship could work is if they give each other lots of space. But if they don't have enough space in a massive mansion with 24 bathrooms, I don't know what to tell you. Living apart seems pretty drastic under these circumstances. He must be really fed up if he moved out. Her poor kids.


Now this is the documentary the world wants to see..

J Lo needs to recoup that 20 million dollars
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:34     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
She looks like such an idiot now. "Love story for the ages," that lasted less than two years the first time and didn't do any better the second time.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:32     Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why they got married. They could have just dated again.



She wanted to lock him down and for some dumb reason he went along with it.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:22     Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why they got married. They could have just dated again.


Because she's obsessed with the reconciliation story
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:21     Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
I don’t understand why they got married. They could have just dated again.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:21     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:You would think a smart woman would understand that a guy who commits adultery and has addiction issues related to gambling, drinking, and smoking is not likely going to be a stable, supportive husband for the long haul.



I think the abuse she said she grew up with was far worse than she has discussed and it's following her. She keeps repeating patterns over and over and over. She fits the profile of someone who had a traumatic, emotionally deprived childhood. (Not necessarily financial though that too perhaps). They both have childhood trauma. It's not good.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:13     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
I think essentially he's a troubled genius who is very much an adult in most aspects of his life, except romantic relationships.

And I think she is a romantic who is also hugely ambitious and probably never stops working on something.

I can see how they were drawn to each other, but not the staying power of it.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:09     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think they are probably somewhat desperate for this to work. Starting over again when you have teens and exes is exhausting. Especially when you have had a string of relationships.

Maybe they will have a better and healthier relationship if they don't live together.



Maybe. I think the only way their relationship could work is if they give each other lots of space. But if they don't have enough space in a massive mansion with 24 bathrooms, I don't know what to tell you. Living apart seems pretty drastic under these circumstances. He must be really fed up if he moved out. Her poor kids.



This is all I've got here. We know Ben's kids will be okay since they have their mother's stability. At one point Jlo posted a pic of her son cuddled up on Ben's lap. He seems shy and sensitive. I don't think Marc Anthony is very involved in their lives at all. So sad.


He is involved. He lives in Miami and that’s why the kids were bummed they left Miami too.

He also has a bunch of divorces as well. He was a cheater , chain smoking addict as well. It seems J Lo loves bad boys. Her first husband Ojani Noa (the chef) was also possessive and abusive to her allegedly. He hated her fame . Diddy was a cheater , party boy, and possibly abusive to her as well.

I think she is too shallow to attach herself to a nerdy homebody who worships the ground she walks on. That’s the ideal man to me but to her, she likes a challenge and a life of the party arrested development macho man. She is from the Bronx so I understand why it’s tough machismo she likes. She probably would be bored to tears with a man from West Hollywood or Beverly Hills. All the guys she hooks up with are from the East Coast



I agree she gravitates toward a certain machismo. But her biggest problem is the desire to be part of a power couple. When does that every work out?


I don't know about the power couple thing. That Not chef was a CHEF and there was Casper something - he was a backing dancer. That's a couple of pretty non-power dudes.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:09     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is anyone really surprised about this marriage?


I'm not surprised at all, but I did think they would last a bit longer than two years.


I’m actually surprised they lasted this long. This relationship had disaster written all over it. These two are both walking disasters in their own ways, so neither stands a chance at a normal relationship.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 11:09     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:You would think a smart woman would understand that a guy who commits adultery and has addiction issues related to gambling, drinking, and smoking is not likely going to be a stable, supportive husband for the long haul.


I would not describe J. Lo as smart...in most ways but definitely not when it comes to relationships.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 10:58     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think they are probably somewhat desperate for this to work. Starting over again when you have teens and exes is exhausting. Especially when you have had a string of relationships.

Maybe they will have a better and healthier relationship if they don't live together.



Maybe. I think the only way their relationship could work is if they give each other lots of space. But if they don't have enough space in a massive mansion with 24 bathrooms, I don't know what to tell you. Living apart seems pretty drastic under these circumstances. He must be really fed up if he moved out. Her poor kids.



This is all I've got here. We know Ben's kids will be okay since they have their mother's stability. At one point Jlo posted a pic of her son cuddled up on Ben's lap. He seems shy and sensitive. I don't think Marc Anthony is very involved in their lives at all. So sad.


He's a player too. He's on wife #4 and has 5 other children. From Marc Anthony's Wiki,

--Girlfriend Debbie Rosado, 2 children
--Broken engagement to Claudette Lali
--Married Dayanara Torres, 2 children
--Married Jennifer Lopez, 2 children
--Married Shannon De Lima
--Married Nadia Ferreira two weeks after pregnancy announcement, 1 child


Disgusting
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 10:53     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:How could they not be separated if Ben got another residence in town? Otherwise that would be such a ridiculous action to take.



Legal separation vs. taking a week or two apart to reflect are not necessarily the same thing. Time will tell.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 10:53     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think they are probably somewhat desperate for this to work. Starting over again when you have teens and exes is exhausting. Especially when you have had a string of relationships.

Maybe they will have a better and healthier relationship if they don't live together.



Maybe. I think the only way their relationship could work is if they give each other lots of space. But if they don't have enough space in a massive mansion with 24 bathrooms, I don't know what to tell you. Living apart seems pretty drastic under these circumstances. He must be really fed up if he moved out. Her poor kids.



This is all I've got here. We know Ben's kids will be okay since they have their mother's stability. At one point Jlo posted a pic of her son cuddled up on Ben's lap. He seems shy and sensitive. I don't think Marc Anthony is very involved in their lives at all. So sad.


He is involved. He lives in Miami and that’s why the kids were bummed they left Miami too.

He also has a bunch of divorces as well. He was a cheater , chain smoking addict as well. It seems J Lo loves bad boys. Her first husband Ojani Noa (the chef) was also possessive and abusive to her allegedly. He hated her fame . Diddy was a cheater , party boy, and possibly abusive to her as well.

I think she is too shallow to attach herself to a nerdy homebody who worships the ground she walks on. That’s the ideal man to me but to her, she likes a challenge and a life of the party arrested development macho man. She is from the Bronx so I understand why it’s tough machismo she likes. She probably would be bored to tears with a man from West Hollywood or Beverly Hills. All the guys she hooks up with are from the East Coast



I agree she gravitates toward a certain machismo. But her biggest problem is the desire to be part of a power couple. When does that every work out?
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 10:52     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is anyone really surprised about this marriage?


I'm not surprised at all, but I did think they would last a bit longer than two years.


Same especially after the while movie/doc
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2024 10:51     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
How could they not be separated if Ben got another residence in town? Otherwise that would be such a ridiculous action to take.