Anonymous
Post 12/18/2023 17:10     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Excellent 25-year marriage, great kids, all left the nest. DH has never been super high libido but now just not that into it, drinks a fair bit in the evenings which I think that saps desire as well. Best of husbands in all other respects. I’ve tried hard to keep in shape, pay attention to grooming etc. I do try to initiate but it’s rarely successful. Am moderately, conventionally pretty so do get some asks, especially in Mediterranean countries where guys seem more open about their interest but have never acted on it. Traveling more now on business, and recently met someone at a work dinner (!) who has me incredibly stirred up, I mean - it was super hard for me to turn down the charming and subtle pass, when what I really wanted to say was OMG put your hands on me! Love DH and want to stay in the marriage, but he’s not going to change at this point. Am sorely tempted. Would be a once-or-twice a year deal at most. WWYD?


I have an asexual DH. No sex for 18 years. Therefore, I consider my sex life my business, and definitely not his. YMMV, especially if sex with your DH is rare as opposed to nonexistent.


Similar situation. I have an asexual DW. No sex for almost 11 years now. She's 100% fine with it apparently. We live like roommates raising our kid. A few years ago I started having flings and sex with other women. No relationship, just sex. It's great. Give me what I need a few times a month. 11 years without sex is insane.
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2023 16:51     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The truly sad part about this thread is how OP’s spouse fails to understand that withholding sex and refusing to discuss or truly address it, is actually a form of abuse.


Withholding sex is a form of abuse? Oh please

Yes it is. Who else is that person supposed to have sex with?


um, other people?
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2023 16:36     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The truly sad part about this thread is how OP’s spouse fails to understand that withholding sex and refusing to discuss or truly address it, is actually a form of abuse.


Withholding sex is a form of abuse? Oh please

Yes it is. Who else is that person supposed to have sex with?
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2023 15:58     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
Anonymous wrote:The truly sad part about this thread is how OP’s spouse fails to understand that withholding sex and refusing to discuss or truly address it, is actually a form of abuse.


Withholding sex is a form of abuse? Oh please
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2023 12:20     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
The truly sad part about this thread is how OP’s spouse fails to understand that withholding sex and refusing to discuss or truly address it, is actually a form of abuse.
Anonymous
Post 11/09/2023 23:24     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
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Is this the HABG poster?
Anonymous
Post 11/09/2023 22:27     Subject: Love DH but he’s low sex drive…considering a business trip affair
really good hotel bar...the best hunting ground