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Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for girls nowadays who feel pressure to look “hot” vs “classy”.

I’m trying to teach my DD that you can be stylish and fashionable without showing T&A.
If you don’t want to be objectified, don’t put all of your objects on display.

Most of these girls by me are wearing very un-sexy clothes the rest of the time. Oversized giant sweatshirts and shirts that cover shorts. They look totally different one night for homecoming, but the rest of the time it’s giant shirts, pajama bottoms, and sloppy hair. So what if they want to get glammed up one night a year?

Glammed up doesn’t have to mean revealing.

I wonder why the men and boys aren’t racing to attend formal events in their underclothes.

What is being revealed in these dresses? Body shape? Arms? Legs? The same thing revealed in a swim suit? Or leotard? Or volleyball shorts? Or many other things girls wear?

I noticed you didn’t respond to my question. Where are the boys and men revealing full thigh, bare arms and shoulders, and upper pecs?

In their wrestling unis, Pearl.

Why not at the club or homecoming, Pickmesha?

Because the girls don’t really care about the guys. They are just another accessory.

So your claim is that girls wear revealing clothing because they “really don’t care about the guys”.

I’m not I’ve heard anything less convincing in my entire life. Are you 13?

Girls aren’t doing it for the guys they’re doing it for the Insta likes and to compete with the other girls. They just want to prove that they can get the guy and the other one can’t. Once they have the guy he no longer has value, he is just collateral damage and

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s spending $200-$400 on a homecoming dress?? That’s nuts.

Who? Most are about $60-75 and look it. Not much material and made in China. Not one ever wears their dress again and they don't trade with their friends, so it is once and done. Only needs to last a few hours for pictures and dinner.

I was responding to the pp who posted a bunch of designer dresses as acceptable HoCo dress options. It’s ludicrous.

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s spending $200-$400 on a homecoming dress?? That’s nuts.

Who? Most are about $60-75 and look it. Not much material and made in China. Not one ever wears their dress again and they don't trade with their friends, so it is once and done. Only needs to last a few hours for pictures and dinner.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

NP and you sound insane. Is there any age where you find these dresses appropriate? I mean, take 80% of boring suburban moms and we all used to dress like this back in the day.

This is DCUM. The population is multi-cultural, educated and multinational. So, the typical trailer trash is not the norm here. That's all. No, not ALL girls used to dress like this back in the day. Not ALL girls dress like this even now. At least not in DMV.

It’s not the length or the tightness that’s the problem. It’s the cheap material and cheap looking sparkles from stores that sell $60 dresses that look like trailer trash as you call it. You can’t help but look trashy in those dresses.

There are hundreds of different styles that look like they belong on the educated teen you are talking about.

https://www.aliceandolivia.com/CHARA-SLEEVELESS-SCOOP-NECK-MINI-DRESS/CC304P43515H330.html

https://www.revolve.com/katie-may-sahara-dress-in-periwinkle/dp/KATR-WD336/?d=F¤cy=USD&countrycode=US&gclid=CjwKCAjw9-6oBhBaEiwAHv1QvIE-YOaSo-7UZgV-n-oB54hM6fwPQb5qeo37_0d1aKx0znz-08VTlhoC4oQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/alice-olivia-harmony-mini-slip-dress-prod264990305?childItemId=NMT54WJ_&msid=4637426&navpath=cat000000_featuredd_cat40360738&page=0&position=11


You can find slip dresses and short dresses that don’t make you look cheap.

None of these dresses look like anything special and certainly not worth the price, given how rarely they will be worn again (if ever).

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

These are so ugly!



The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

NP and you sound insane. Is there any age where you find these dresses appropriate? I mean, take 80% of boring suburban moms and we all used to dress like this back in the day.

This is DCUM. The population is multi-cultural, educated and multinational. So, the typical trailer trash is not the norm here. That's all. No, not ALL girls used to dress like this back in the day. Not ALL girls dress like this even now. At least not in DMV.

It’s not the length or the tightness that’s the problem. It’s the cheap material and cheap looking sparkles from stores that sell $60 dresses that look like trailer trash as you call it. You can’t help but look trashy in those dresses.

There are hundreds of different styles that look like they belong on the educated teen you are talking about.

https://www.aliceandolivia.com/CHARA-SLEEVELESS-SCOOP-NECK-MINI-DRESS/CC304P43515H330.html

https://www.revolve.com/katie-may-sahara-dress-in-periwinkle/dp/KATR-WD336/?d=F¤cy=USD&countrycode=US&gclid=CjwKCAjw9-6oBhBaEiwAHv1QvIE-YOaSo-7UZgV-n-oB54hM6fwPQb5qeo37_0d1aKx0znz-08VTlhoC4oQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/alice-olivia-harmony-mini-slip-dress-prod264990305?childItemId=NMT54WJ_&msid=4637426&navpath=cat000000_featuredd_cat40360738&page=0&position=11


You can find slip dresses and short dresses that don’t make you look cheap.

None of these dresses look like anything special and certainly not worth the price, given how rarely they will be worn again (if ever).

Anonymous wrote:Who’s spending $200-$400 on a homecoming dress?? That’s nuts.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for girls nowadays who feel pressure to look “hot” vs “classy”.

I’m trying to teach my DD that you can be stylish and fashionable without showing T&A.
If you don’t want to be objectified, don’t put all of your objects on display.

Most of these girls by me are wearing very un-sexy clothes the rest of the time. Oversized giant sweatshirts and shirts that cover shorts. They look totally different one night for homecoming, but the rest of the time it’s giant shirts, pajama bottoms, and sloppy hair. So what if they want to get glammed up one night a year?

Glammed up doesn’t have to mean revealing.

I wonder why the men and boys aren’t racing to attend formal events in their underclothes.

What is being revealed in these dresses? Body shape? Arms? Legs? The same thing revealed in a swim suit? Or leotard? Or volleyball shorts? Or many other things girls wear?

I noticed you didn’t respond to my question. Where are the boys and men revealing full thigh, bare arms and shoulders, and upper pecs?

In their wrestling unis, Pearl.

Why not at the club or homecoming, Pickmesha?

Because the girls don’t really care about the guys. They are just another accessory.

So your claim is that girls wear revealing clothing because they “really don’t care about the guys”.

I’m not I’ve heard anything less convincing in my entire life. Are you 13?

Are you 113? Girls dress to impress each other.

Sure they do Picmeisha, if you say so. Girls wear micro minis and expose their breasts to impress their girls

Have fun at Homecoming and objectifying yourself for male attention.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

NP and you sound insane. Is there any age where you find these dresses appropriate? I mean, take 80% of boring suburban moms and we all used to dress like this back in the day.

This is DCUM. The population is multi-cultural, educated and multinational. So, the typical trailer trash is not the norm here. That's all. No, not ALL girls used to dress like this back in the day. Not ALL girls dress like this even now. At least not in DMV.

It’s not the length or the tightness that’s the problem. It’s the cheap material and cheap looking sparkles from stores that sell $60 dresses that look like trailer trash as you call it. You can’t help but look trashy in those dresses.

There are hundreds of different styles that look like they belong on the educated teen you are talking about.

https://www.aliceandolivia.com/CHARA-SLEEVELESS-SCOOP-NECK-MINI-DRESS/CC304P43515H330.html

https://www.revolve.com/katie-may-sahara-dress-in-periwinkle/dp/KATR-WD336/?d=F¤cy=USD&countrycode=US&gclid=CjwKCAjw9-6oBhBaEiwAHv1QvIE-YOaSo-7UZgV-n-oB54hM6fwPQb5qeo37_0d1aKx0znz-08VTlhoC4oQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/alice-olivia-harmony-mini-slip-dress-prod264990305?childItemId=NMT54WJ_&msid=4637426&navpath=cat000000_featuredd_cat40360738&page=0&position=11


You can find slip dresses and short dresses that don’t make you look cheap.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for girls nowadays who feel pressure to look “hot” vs “classy”.

I’m trying to teach my DD that you can be stylish and fashionable without showing T&A.
If you don’t want to be objectified, don’t put all of your objects on display.

Most of these girls by me are wearing very un-sexy clothes the rest of the time. Oversized giant sweatshirts and shirts that cover shorts. They look totally different one night for homecoming, but the rest of the time it’s giant shirts, pajama bottoms, and sloppy hair. So what if they want to get glammed up one night a year?

Glammed up doesn’t have to mean revealing.

I wonder why the men and boys aren’t racing to attend formal events in their underclothes.

What is being revealed in these dresses? Body shape? Arms? Legs? The same thing revealed in a swim suit? Or leotard? Or volleyball shorts? Or many other things girls wear?

I noticed you didn’t respond to my question. Where are the boys and men revealing full thigh, bare arms and shoulders, and upper pecs?

In their wrestling unis, Pearl.

Why not at the club or homecoming, Pickmesha?

Because the girls don’t really care about the guys. They are just another accessory.

So your claim is that girls wear revealing clothing because they “really don’t care about the guys”.

I’m not I’ve heard anything less convincing in my entire life. Are you 13?

Are you 113? Girls dress to impress each other.

Exactly

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

Sorry, I’m not spending $200+ on a dress that’ll be worn once. I *may* she’ll out for prom, but HoCo? No way.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

NP and you sound insane. Is there any age where you find these dresses appropriate? I mean, take 80% of boring suburban moms and we all used to dress like this back in the day.

This is DCUM. The population is multi-cultural, educated and multinational. So, the typical trailer trash is not the norm here. That's all. No, not ALL girls used to dress like this back in the day. Not ALL girls dress like this even now. At least not in DMV.

It’s not the length or the tightness that’s the problem. It’s the cheap material and cheap looking sparkles from stores that sell $60 dresses that look like trailer trash as you call it. You can’t help but look trashy in those dresses.

There are hundreds of different styles that look like they belong on the educated teen you are talking about.

https://www.aliceandolivia.com/CHARA-SLEEVELESS-SCOOP-NECK-MINI-DRESS/CC304P43515H330.html

https://www.revolve.com/katie-may-sahara-dress-in-periwinkle/dp/KATR-WD336/?d=F¤cy=USD&countrycode=US&gclid=CjwKCAjw9-6oBhBaEiwAHv1QvIE-YOaSo-7UZgV-n-oB54hM6fwPQb5qeo37_0d1aKx0znz-08VTlhoC4oQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/alice-olivia-harmony-mini-slip-dress-prod264990305?childItemId=NMT54WJ_&msid=4637426&navpath=cat000000_featuredd_cat40360738&page=0&position=11


You can find slip dresses and short dresses that don’t make you look cheap.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s fine, most of the girls look very nice. They are with their friends and will have a great time and great memories.

I have seen a few parents post pic of girls who are WAY to chubby to be wearing these dresses. They have a kangaroo pooch or they look 4 months pregnant. As a parent, I would guide my kid to something more flattering. I’m sure everyone on FB was thinking the same but everyone was being fake and telling her how pretty she was. She has a nice face but the dress made her look absolutely horrible. The rolls of fat, panty lines, it was bad.

ie, don't wear slutty dresses if you are chubby. Only girls who are not fat should wear slutty dresses.

Anonymous wrote:It’s fine, most of the girls look very nice. They are with their friends and will have a great time and great memories.

I have seen a few parents post pic of girls who are WAY to chubby to be wearing these dresses. They have a kangaroo pooch or they look 4 months pregnant. As a parent, I would guide my kid to something more flattering. I’m sure everyone on FB was thinking the same but everyone was being fake and telling her how pretty she was. She has a nice face but the dress made her look absolutely horrible. The rolls of fat, panty lines, it was bad.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for girls nowadays who feel pressure to look “hot” vs “classy”.

I’m trying to teach my DD that you can be stylish and fashionable without showing T&A.
If you don’t want to be objectified, don’t put all of your objects on display.

Most of these girls by me are wearing very un-sexy clothes the rest of the time. Oversized giant sweatshirts and shirts that cover shorts. They look totally different one night for homecoming, but the rest of the time it’s giant shirts, pajama bottoms, and sloppy hair. So what if they want to get glammed up one night a year?

Glammed up doesn’t have to mean revealing.

I wonder why the men and boys aren’t racing to attend formal events in their underclothes.

What is being revealed in these dresses? Body shape? Arms? Legs? The same thing revealed in a swim suit? Or leotard? Or volleyball shorts? Or many other things girls wear?

I noticed you didn’t respond to my question. Where are the boys and men revealing full thigh, bare arms and shoulders, and upper pecs?

In their wrestling unis, Pearl.

Why not at the club or homecoming, Pickmesha?

Because the girls don’t really care about the guys. They are just another accessory.

So your claim is that girls wear revealing clothing because they “really don’t care about the guys”.

I’m not I’ve heard anything less convincing in my entire life. Are you 13?

Are you 113? Girls dress to impress each other.

Sure they do Picmeisha, if you say so. Girls wear micro minis and expose their breasts to impress their girls

Have fun at Homecoming and objectifying yourself for male attention.

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