Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:20     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?


The explanation I have read is that it is like compulsively recreating traumatic events bur reversing victim and victimizer. I don't know if treating the underlying trauma can make any difference or not, she should still never be near a kid, keyboard or video camera again. most victims NEVER become abusers.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:14     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 21:04     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
One can only hope she will be locked up a long time. We've had Sandusky and Epstein, now this monster.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:57     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
She is more evil than evil. Her poor family. And UC is a hero. What a terrible job, to interact with that evil. I am curious to know if people that knew her in real life thought she was trouble or not.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:54     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.


That's not true, there are sex offender treatment programs - that are private and expensive. They use technology to measure sexual arousal and discourage it as a part of a larger treatment program.


And years later they are still aroused on scans after “treatment.”
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:53     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.


That's not true, there are sex offender treatment programs - that are private and expensive. They use technology to measure sexual arousal and discourage it as a part of a larger treatment program.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:50     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
She’s goin away longtime
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:36     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:I once had a sexual relationship wig her in college


Was she hypersexual? Anything to note?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:32     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:I once had a sexual relationship wig her in college


Are you the same PP from W&L?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:26     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Did she survive the honor code at UVA?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:26     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:24     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
I once had a sexual relationship wig her in college
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:24     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:If you know her, is she smart/average/stupid?


Dumb as a rock
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:21     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
If you know her, is she smart/average/stupid?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2023 20:20     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anybody know how long ago she was divorced? Terms of divorce regarding child custody?