Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 01:40     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


That's super weird.


Sounds like July 2013 is the date he checked out of the marriage.



Yep, when the boy he was thrilled to have was not much more than a year old.


Is that supposed to mean something? Plenty of men check out -especially tired fathers and he’s been a part-time dad ever since.


Only the jerks check out.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 01:02     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


That's super weird.


Sounds like July 2013 is the date he checked out of the marriage.



Yep, when the boy he was thrilled to have was not much more than a year old.


Is that supposed to mean something? Plenty of men check out -especially tired fathers and he’s been a part-time dad ever since.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 00:43     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


Denial of reality is how the relapse starts.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 00:35     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Jen Garner feels like she dodged a bullet with him being someone else’s problem now, or if she feels like he never really loved her and she stood in the way of his happiness all these years?

If this marriage lasts forever, then I think Garner might feel like the big loser.


I doubt Garner feels like a big loser. How ridiculous. He's the one who acted out. A lot


She famously trapped him into marriage. The fact that he seemingly wanted JLo all along must make her think about her own actions and how life might have been different.


What’s interesting is both Jens were married to other men when they fell in love with Ben. Poor Cris Judd is like a footnote in J Lo history. J. Lo’s dad said he loved him the most of all her boyfriends. He seemed like a genuinely nice man and standup guy


He was also the least successful.

As for Jennifer Garner’s ex, Scott Foley seemed like a nice guy.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 00:29     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I think their reunion and marriage is so romantic. Very happy for them and wish them all the best.


In the future, there will be a movie about their love.

Anonymous
Post 07/20/2022 00:27     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Jen Garner feels like she dodged a bullet with him being someone else’s problem now, or if she feels like he never really loved her and she stood in the way of his happiness all these years?

If this marriage lasts forever, then I think Garner might feel like the big loser.


I doubt Garner feels like a big loser. How ridiculous. He's the one who acted out. A lot


She famously trapped him into marriage. The fact that he seemingly wanted JLo all along must make her think about her own actions and how life might have been different.


What’s interesting is both Jens were married to other men when they fell in love with Ben. Poor Cris Judd is like a footnote in J Lo history. J. Lo’s dad said he loved him the most of all her boyfriends. He seemed like a genuinely nice man and standup guy
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 21:31     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


That's super weird.


Sounds like July 2013 is the date he checked out of the marriage.



Yep, when the boy he was thrilled to have was not much more than a year old.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 20:47     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:I still am in utter shock whenever I see a current pic of Jennifer Lopez.

No way that she can be fifty-three this month!!

No fifty-three year olds look like this in the real world - nope not even ONE.

Sure, since she is a celebrity everyone will just comment that she has $$ for cosmetic surgery, personal trainers, stylists, etc.

But so does Madonna and Mariah Carey.
And neither of them looked even a fraction of how good J Lo does.

J Lo defies aging.
Instead of looking worse as she gets older > she actually gets better looking as the years add on.
It’s not fair!!!!!
Lol.


There are a lot of 53 year olds that are as hot as her.


No way, boomer. Sorry. It's just not true.


Aw it's cute that a 15 year old is reading DCUM!! Are you a he, she, or they?
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 20:22     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


That's super weird.


Sounds like July 2013 is the date he checked out of the marriage.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 20:20     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Which marriage is she on? I hope it lasts, for the kids sake.

4 unless one of them just happens to die in a freak accident in the next three years I doubt it lasts.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 20:05     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Finally made it down the aisle
I wonder how long this will last..they both clearly have issues.
I think they have created a narrative where the issues don't lie with them it was the wrong partner if we had just been together it would have been great.


Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 20:01     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:I still am in utter shock whenever I see a current pic of Jennifer Lopez.

No way that she can be fifty-three this month!!

No fifty-three year olds look like this in the real world - nope not even ONE.

Sure, since she is a celebrity everyone will just comment that she has $$ for cosmetic surgery, personal trainers, stylists, etc.

But so does Madonna and Mariah Carey.
And neither of them looked even a fraction of how good J Lo does.

J Lo defies aging.
Instead of looking worse as she gets older > she actually gets better looking as the years add on.
It’s not fair!!!!!
Lol.




There are a lot of 53 year olds that are as hot as her.


Where are they all hiding? Because where I live, fifty three (53) is considered over the hill. No one whistles at 53 year old women anymore.
But if Jennifer Lopez walked by a construction zone, men would be falling out of their bulldozers over her.


Meh . Not denying she looks good but if you watch the documentary you see it’s a bit of smoke and mirrors . She also chews gum constantly which really lowers her attractiveness


She probably chews gum to keep from overeating and stay thin. It’s better than smoking or doing coke.


Or she takes laxatives everyday as I do to stay thin.


Oh, this makes me SO SAD. Please get yourself some help. This is highly disordered, unhealthy & unnecessary.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 16:56     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Not even close on his separation/divorce date. What a prince.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ben-affleck-listed-his-divorce-as-same-day-of-j-lo-wedding/


That's super weird.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 16:18     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Apparently only Emme and Sera attended the wedding. The little boy is obviously too young to attend a midnight(!) wedding and Violet is not into it. No word on why JLo's son didn't attend. Obviously not a "kid first" event in any way. Two immature narcissists, good luck to them.

https://pagesix.com/2022/07/18/j-lo-rushed-to-get-married-before-ben-affleck-could-get-cold-feet-source/


A midnight wedding seems like an odd choice when you have children the ages of their children. I think I would want an event that included everyone.


Very selfish, but so what else is new.


Yes, but maybe also gave cover for the fact that at least one kid may not support the marriage.


!+ it would be very hard to have parents acting like teenagers when you, yourself, are one and want to be able to depend on your parents.


+2. Fortunately, these kids have a second parent to fall back on.


+1
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2022 16:14     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous wrote:Apparently only Emme and Sera attended the wedding. The little boy is obviously too young to attend a midnight(!) wedding and Violet is not into it. No word on why JLo's son didn't attend. Obviously not a "kid first" event in any way. Two immature narcissists, good luck to them.

https://pagesix.com/2022/07/18/j-lo-rushed-to-get-married-before-ben-affleck-could-get-cold-feet-source/


A midnight wedding seems like an odd choice when you have children the ages of their children. I think I would want an event that included everyone.


Very selfish, but so what else is new.


Yes, but maybe also gave cover for the fact that at least one kid may not support the marriage.


!+ it would be very hard to have parents acting like teenagers when you, yourself, are one and want to be able to depend on your parents.


+2. Fortunately, these kids have a second parent to fall back on.


Well his do. Unclear how involved Marc Anthony is with his kids. He’s also going on yet another marriage, to someone young enough to be his daughter.