Anonymous
06/24/2024 13:14
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
She has been, for many many years. I call a significant trauma history, because the chaotic relationship history in addition to her continued sexualization and obsession with her body just feels like a trauma case to me. She might never cop to it publicly but I'm suspecting she's seen a lot of and been on the receiving end of (and maybe caused a lot of) ugly stuff, I'm sure.She always reverts to intensive image control when she goes through pain and feels fragile. The persona always takes over...same pattern over and over and over. She needs intensive psychotherapy. And I'm sure her family are worried about her.
I can believe she has trauma that hasn't been processed fully.
I think they both have childhood trauma . Bens father was absent, never kept a stable job, and at one time, was homeless. That’s why Ben and little bro Casey were dragged to do commercials, modeling, and PBS shows by mom dukes . There’s probably trauma from that. He bought all his homes including the house with J Lo. cash because he fears homelessness due to addiction.
She was homeless when she left home to become a dancer at 18 tired of her mothers beatings. The older man who owned the dance studio she rehearsed at let her live on his couch in the studio. She definitely has trauma
Anonymous
06/24/2024 12:15
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Why does everyone feel she is narcissist? I feel like she is completely accepting and loving with her kids and they are always with her. This does not seem fair. I actually feel bad for her. I noticed the friends with her on her recent trip are her back up singers. They are the same ones who are in her
Delolia soritzer commercials when she said she is having friends over bbqing. I feel like she is too isolated and needs to have people
around her who are not staff. You need to have friends who do not rely on you financially. Maybe her employees are the best but she needs also voices from outside her bubble. He is clearly hard to live with and no man is worth this. Hopefully they can work this in a way that is good for both of them. I am sure Jen G wants this to work also because she doesn’t need him with a 25 year old and starting a new family when her kids need him fully present.
Delolia soritzer commercials when she said she is having friends over bbqing. I feel like she is too isolated and needs to have people
around her who are not staff. You need to have friends who do not rely on you financially. Maybe her employees are the best but she needs also voices from outside her bubble. He is clearly hard to live with and no man is worth this. Hopefully they can work this in a way that is good for both of them. I am sure Jen G wants this to work also because she doesn’t need him with a 25 year old and starting a new family when her kids need him fully present.
Anonymous
06/24/2024 10:17
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Narcissistic personality disorder is a broke that cannot be fixed through any amount of therapy or reflection. The narcissist has no self image; everything about them is based on someone they admire.
Talk about armchair diagnosis.
Just about every single human on the planet has moments of narcissism, it doesn't mean they all have NPD.
Correct: every single human on the planet has phases of narcissism, usually under the age of 10, as part of childhood development. If the child is being is raised in a household where parent or primary caregiver is a narcissist (J.Lo mom) the child never leaves the early stage of narcissism; stuck forever with emotions of a child.
And correct- this is all armchair diagnosis as the narcissist will never submit to clinical diagnosis; he/she is perfect. See: S. Jobs, J. Welch, the Donald, etc.
Educate yourself and your children to run like hell from this cancer.
Anonymous
06/24/2024 08:24
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Narcissistic personality disorder is a broke that cannot be fixed through any amount of therapy or reflection. The narcissist has no self image; everything about them is based on someone they admire.
Talk about armchair diagnosis.
Just about every single human on the planet has moments of narcissism, it doesn't mean they all have NPD.
Correct: every single human on the planet has phases of narcissism, usually under the age of 10, as part of childhood development. If the child is being is raised in a household where parent or primary caregiver is a narcissist (J.Lo mom) the child never leaves the early stage of narcissism; stuck forever with emotions of a child.
And correct- this is all armchair diagnosis as the narcissist will never submit to clinical diagnosis; he/she is perfect. See: S. Jobs, J. Welch, the Donald, etc.
Educate yourself and your children to run like hell from this cancer.
Anonymous
06/23/2024 18:47
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
She has been, for many many years. I call a significant trauma history, because the chaotic relationship history in addition to her continued sexualization and obsession with her body just feels like a trauma case to me. She might never cop to it publicly but I'm suspecting she's seen a lot of and been on the receiving end of (and maybe caused a lot of) ugly stuff, I'm sure.She always reverts to intensive image control when she goes through pain and feels fragile. The persona always takes over...same pattern over and over and over. She needs intensive psychotherapy. And I'm sure her family are worried about her.
+1 yes!
Anonymous
06/23/2024 18:43
Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
I think he’s the one with the problem(s) and JLo said ‘see ya when ya better’
Anonymous
06/23/2024 18:38
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
When are JLo and Ben finally divorcing?
Anonymous
06/23/2024 16:44
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
She has been, for many many years. I call a significant trauma history, because the chaotic relationship history in addition to her continued sexualization and obsession with her body just feels like a trauma case to me. She might never cop to it publicly but I'm suspecting she's seen a lot of and been on the receiving end of (and maybe caused a lot of) ugly stuff, I'm sure.She always reverts to intensive image control when she goes through pain and feels fragile. The persona always takes over...same pattern over and over and over. She needs intensive psychotherapy. And I'm sure her family are worried about her.
I can believe she has trauma that hasn't been processed fully.
Anonymous
06/23/2024 16:42
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
Wearing heels on a boat?
I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .
If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.
What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?
Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..
She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .
What makes you think Ben wants Jen L. beside him in that role? He has given very little indication that he wants her to help him out.
The failure of their relationship triggered depression, which puts him at risk for relapse. Agree he doesn't want her around, she doesn't help. His mom and his ex have a deeper understanding of his problems and are more generous in terms of solid support, which actually does help him.
Anonymous
06/23/2024 16:20
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
She has been, for many many years. I call a significant trauma history, because the chaotic relationship history in addition to her continued sexualization and obsession with her body just feels like a trauma case to me. She might never cop to it publicly but I'm suspecting she's seen a lot of and been on the receiving end of (and maybe caused a lot of) ugly stuff, I'm sure.She always reverts to intensive image control when she goes through pain and feels fragile. The persona always takes over...same pattern over and over and over. She needs intensive psychotherapy. And I'm sure her family are worried about her.
Anonymous
06/23/2024 11:59
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Perhaps she's meeting up with an Italian guy to try out this time around.
A guy in his late 60s / early 70s with billions would probably be perfect
Why would a sugar daddy want someone 50 plus? They want someone young without any kids.
I know she lost 20 million dollars on this movie/album fail and apparently the makeup brand is flopping and will be pulled from Sephora this year , but she’s been at rock bottom before in her career and she never stooped to gold digging .
American Idol became her save last time.
She does NOT need a sugar daddy. She has $400M dollars. She can throw $20M away and not feel a thing.
She doesn’t have 400M dollars. Her net worth is 400m.
20 million dollars is a big loss especially since WE all know about it. That means future investors, casting directors, brand companies know about it which means they may see her as entertainment poison (as they once did post-Affleck/Gigli)
That’s the bad thing about being an entertainer like J Lo. You are always at the mercy of the public for your next gig. 20 million is nothing to sneeze at especially since her tour was recently cancelled and her Sephora J Lo beauty brand is flopping, and she’s being dragged on TikTok since January for her rude behavior to staffers . Her ex is in the news for DV and sexual trafficking . Her current husband is potentially divorcing her and possibly lost his sobriety and everyone will blame her for it. She’s in a bad way right now but I am sure her Italy trip wasn’t to visit the Vatican or go yachting in Capri. Jennifer always has a plan B.
She actually didn’t lose $20 million. Amazon prime or whoever bought the rights to the movie so it’s sold. She definitely lost money but she got some back when they purchased it.
Anonymous
06/23/2024 02:54
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
Wearing heels on a boat?
I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .
If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.
What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?
Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..
She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .
What makes you think Ben wants Jen L. beside him in that role? He has given very little indication that he wants her to help him out.
He also didn’t kick her out from his kids graduation parties. She is somehow able to be there when the paparazzi are there. She can be there for him in private moments too. She’s letting Garner play the role of the nurturer/wife when it should be her . She should just remain single or date a man who doesn’t need the round the clock care Ben needs . He belongs in rehab if he can’t keep the drinks down
Anonymous
06/22/2024 23:50
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
Wearing heels on a boat?
I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .
If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.
What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?
Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..
She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .
What makes you think Ben wants Jen L. beside him in that role? He has given very little indication that he wants her to help him out.
Anonymous
06/22/2024 23:12
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
Omg. What a weirdo! Her poor kids.
Vapid
She's showing her daughter how to take butt selfies. Strong feminist behavior, right?
I wouldn't worry about her daughter, she doesn't seem to be buying into this at all. Like, AT ALL.
Yeah, Emme seems like a smart girl.
To be fair it doesn't seem like she's pushing her to be like her. I think it's good she respects the whole pronoun thing too
Anonymous
06/22/2024 20:24
Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.
https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/
Wearing heels on a boat?
I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .
If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.
What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?
Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..
She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .