Anonymous
07/17/2022 23:30
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:To answer the poster on the other thread who asked me “why I think it will last,” I…don’t, necessarily. Nor do I much care. But I’m not so mean-spirited that I would literally (as someone else said) “count the days.” Their marriage is none of my business. Like any married couple, I wish them well, and I hope they are happy as individuals and as a couple.
How is it none of your business when they’ve gone out of their way to make it public?
I’m sure you have the same passion about the marriage of any two famous people, right? Sure.
I really don’t get the intense animus people have for Lopez, the decision that she’s a bad mother and Garner is “classy” and all the rest. It’s a crock.
Sounds like they assume all latinas are bad mothers and eat tacos all day. It’s amazing how ignorant and hateful people get. If only they grab and read more books about the different cultures and open their minds…
Anonymous
07/17/2022 23:17
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She posted a naked-in-bed pic with her wedding ring on display because of course lol.
Her poor kids.
Eh, this is nothing new for her kids. They've seen it all. I think the VF pic of Arod with his hand on her mostly-bare ass was worse. I feel for his kids though. They seem much more sheltered, but at least they have refuge with their classy mom. Will be interesting to see if the two Affleck girls can blend into the latest family iteration. This must be hard for them.
Classy? (Read: White)
DP. Classy like she doesn’t feel the need to share literally everything for a shred of media attention, even at the expense of the well-being of her children.
Public pics with your bfs hand on your ass crack or naked in bed with your new husband for all your children’s friends to see? Not classy and certainly not “family first”, regardless of race or ethnicity.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:56
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Did JLo take the other husbands’ names or is this the first time? I read that she’s now Jennifer Lynn Affleck.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:31
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
If you have to reach back nearly 20 years to find something to criticize, maybe you should let that argument go.
Who’s criticizing? I love Garner and always have.
I’m sure even she knew there’d be pain and stories when she chose BA.
It’s the posters here who are idiots, acting like she didn’t know who she was marrying.
Did you mean to respond to a different post? No one in this tangent is saying that.
No, I was responding directly to someone who said I was criticizing JG.
All the pp said was that JG probably has quite the stories from her marriage to BA. You are the one who felt the need to drag up MV, as if that has any relevance to whether JG has interesting stories from her marriage to BA.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:28
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:To answer the poster on the other thread who asked me “why I think it will last,” I…don’t, necessarily. Nor do I much care. But I’m not so mean-spirited that I would literally (as someone else said) “count the days.” Their marriage is none of my business. Like any married couple, I wish them well, and I hope they are happy as individuals and as a couple.
How is it none of your business when they’ve gone out of their way to make it public?
I’m sure you have the same passion about the marriage of any two famous people, right? Sure.
I really don’t get the intense animus people have for Lopez, the decision that she’s a bad mother and Garner is “classy” and all the rest. It’s a crock.
I should have clarified I’m a NP and not invested in the debate of Jennifer Garner vs. Lopez. It just seems like if someone is posting all about it on instagram, or TikTok, or YouTube, or whatever, it is not a private matter anymore.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:23
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:To answer the poster on the other thread who asked me “why I think it will last,” I…don’t, necessarily. Nor do I much care. But I’m not so mean-spirited that I would literally (as someone else said) “count the days.” Their marriage is none of my business. Like any married couple, I wish them well, and I hope they are happy as individuals and as a couple.
How is it none of your business when they’ve gone out of their way to make it public?
I’m sure you have the same passion about the marriage of any two famous people, right? Sure.
I really don’t get the intense animus people have for Lopez, the decision that she’s a bad mother and Garner is “classy” and all the rest. It’s a crock.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:21
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:To answer the poster on the other thread who asked me “why I think it will last,” I…don’t, necessarily. Nor do I much care. But I’m not so mean-spirited that I would literally (as someone else said) “count the days.” Their marriage is none of my business. Like any married couple, I wish them well, and I hope they are happy as individuals and as a couple.
How is it none of your business when they’ve gone out of their way to make it public?
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:20
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
If you have to reach back nearly 20 years to find something to criticize, maybe you should let that argument go.
Who’s criticizing? I love Garner and always have.
I’m sure even she knew there’d be pain and stories when she chose BA.
It’s the posters here who are idiots, acting like she didn’t know who she was marrying.
Did you mean to respond to a different post? No one in this tangent is saying that.
No, I was responding directly to someone who said I was criticizing JG.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:17
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
If you have to reach back nearly 20 years to find something to criticize, maybe you should let that argument go.
Who’s criticizing? I love Garner and always have.
I’m sure even she knew there’d be pain and stories when she chose BA.
It’s the posters here who are idiots, acting like she didn’t know who she was marrying.
Did you mean to respond to a different post? No one in this tangent is saying that.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:16
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
If you have to reach back nearly 20 years to find something to criticize, maybe you should let that argument go.
Who’s criticizing? I love Garner and always have.
I’m sure even she knew there’d be pain and stories when she chose BA.
It’s the posters here who are idiots, acting like she didn’t know who she was marrying.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:11
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
If you have to reach back nearly 20 years to find something to criticize, maybe you should let that argument go.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 22:09
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
She could’ve stayed with Michael Vartan, but cheated on him with a womanizing addict. She’s a far more sane and likeable person than JLo but it’s not like she always made the best choices either.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 21:45
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Sometimes what happens in Las Vegas doesn’t stay in Las Vegas.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 21:38
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
I'd love to have lunch with Jennifer Garner and have girl talk over some margaritas. The stories she could tell. I'm sure she's been through a ton of pain, but now I bet she gets a laugh out of the absurdity.
Anonymous
07/17/2022 21:36
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
If this was your friend Jennifer from High school you would be talking about how you didn’t even want to go to the wedding and no way are you getting them a gift.