Anonymous wrote:Scary. In a short span we have been aware of 3 cases of pedophiles in schools. The preschool at Wash Heb, NCRC, and BVR. All reputable places we trust. Guess the bottom line is, be vigilant.
Anonymous wrote:I think it's "whoa" for the kind of people who read The Washington Examiner and post an editorial that essential correlates wokeness and DEI to pedophelia.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And one more “ NCRC parents didn’t just allow but paid for school officials to violate boundaries and delegitimize their role as parents. Designated as mere “grown-ups,” parents and the critical role they play as caregivers and protectors were downgraded in the eyes of their own children. The school didn’t just distance children from their parents but from religious and cultural traditions as well. This is a common tactic for those grooming children for sexual abuse. Signs of grooming for sexual abuse can be subtle and may vary, but common indicators include isolation, gradual crossing of boundaries, and trust building.”
This is an insane leap. Grownups is used because there are children in the school who may not have a mom or dad or who may be being raised by a relative. It is an easy way to ensure children don’t feel excluded. It is thoughtful and intentional.
Yep! And many kids are dropped off or picked up or both by nannies, so grown ups encompasses those people too.
I’m also pretty sure I got Mother’s Day cards from my kids from school there, FWIW. And Halloween isn’t celebrated at school because some little kids get skittish about costumes, but the Saturday family Pumpkin Party is one of the highlights of the year.
Like most DC private school parents, NCRC is certainly liberal, but this article is painting a picture that was not my experience.
— former NCRC parent
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your understanding derived from…?
The firm that is doing the investigation has a number you can call to contact them. My friend spoke to them and they told her that only the board chair would receive the final report from the firm. I hope that is not true.
Of course that’s true. The Board is the law firm’s client. Their investigation is protected by the attorney-client privilege, so their report will be addressed to the Board and delivered only to them to maintain the privilege. That’s where the firm’s control of the report ends. If you want to know what if anything the Board will release, you will need to ask the Board.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And one more “ NCRC parents didn’t just allow but paid for school officials to violate boundaries and delegitimize their role as parents. Designated as mere “grown-ups,” parents and the critical role they play as caregivers and protectors were downgraded in the eyes of their own children. The school didn’t just distance children from their parents but from religious and cultural traditions as well. This is a common tactic for those grooming children for sexual abuse. Signs of grooming for sexual abuse can be subtle and may vary, but common indicators include isolation, gradual crossing of boundaries, and trust building.”
This is an insane leap. Grownups is used because there are children in the school who may not have a mom or dad or who may be being raised by a relative. It is an easy way to ensure children don’t feel excluded. It is thoughtful and intentional.
Anonymous wrote:And one more “ NCRC parents didn’t just allow but paid for school officials to violate boundaries and delegitimize their role as parents. Designated as mere “grown-ups,” parents and the critical role they play as caregivers and protectors were downgraded in the eyes of their own children. The school didn’t just distance children from their parents but from religious and cultural traditions as well. This is a common tactic for those grooming children for sexual abuse. Signs of grooming for sexual abuse can be subtle and may vary, but common indicators include isolation, gradual crossing of boundaries, and trust building.”
Anonymous wrote:I think it's "whoa" for the kind of people who read The Washington Examiner and post an editorial that essential correlates wokeness and DEI to pedophelia.
Anonymous wrote:And one more “ NCRC parents didn’t just allow but paid for school officials to violate boundaries and delegitimize their role as parents. Designated as mere “grown-ups,” parents and the critical role they play as caregivers and protectors were downgraded in the eyes of their own children. The school didn’t just distance children from their parents but from religious and cultural traditions as well. This is a common tactic for those grooming children for sexual abuse. Signs of grooming for sexual abuse can be subtle and may vary, but common indicators include isolation, gradual crossing of boundaries, and trust building.”