Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 12:39     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

If you’re a VDA parent or COACH, stay off this thread. It’s trolls. Probably bitter FCV parents.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 11:24     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

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Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.


Browsing other threads, this years standings don’t show a decline? I can’t remember our club ever having the best record in NOVA

Northern Virginia ECNL Girls records so far

1. VDA 9-5-4
2. Mclean 8-6-4
3. Loudoun 4-10-4
4. BRYC 3-15-0



+1000000000000000 Have one bad weekend doesn't define a bad year, we have had 6 months off of soccer, and what? three games/Four. Get a grip.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 11:23     Subject: VDA will be the destination club

VDA teams are good and playing well. Weaker ages aging out and younger feeder systems from PWSI and VSA doing their jobs. New ECNL Director benefited from what was in place but so far doesn’t look from the outside like he has done anything to hinder the progress. Time will tell how he does.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 10:57     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


+1M this is the best post I’ve ever seen. Well said!!!!


This is the VDA way.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 10:51     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


+1M this is the best post I’ve ever seen. Well said!!!!
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 10:45     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.


Browsing other threads, this years standings don’t show a decline? I can’t remember our club ever having the best record in NOVA

Northern Virginia ECNL Girls records so far

1. VDA 9-5-4
2. Mclean 8-6-4
3. Loudoun 4-10-4
4. BRYC 3-15-0



VDA has been aging out their weaker teams each year. It has nothing to do with the director. It has to do with the player pipeline. New director vs old director does not matter.


Scott got a a raw deal and now new director comes in and enjoys the benefits of the work of the previous director.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 10:45     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.


Browsing other threads, this years standings don’t show a decline? I can’t remember our club ever having the best record in NOVA

Northern Virginia ECNL Girls records so far

1. VDA 9-5-4
2. Mclean 8-6-4
3. Loudoun 4-10-4
4. BRYC 3-15-0



VDA has been aging out their weaker teams each year. It has nothing to do with the director. It has to do with the player pipeline. New director vs old director does not matter.


I noticed that the departed club is in last place
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 10:27     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.


Browsing other threads, this years standings don’t show a decline? I can’t remember our club ever having the best record in NOVA

Northern Virginia ECNL Girls records so far

1. VDA 9-5-4
2. Mclean 8-6-4
3. Loudoun 4-10-4
4. BRYC 3-15-0



VDA has been aging out their weaker teams each year. It has nothing to do with the director. It has to do with the player pipeline. New director vs old director does not matter.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:24     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Ignore it, Not a VDA parent, VDA haters trolling this thread


+1
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:14     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.


Browsing other threads, this years standings don’t show a decline? I can’t remember our club ever having the best record in NOVA

Northern Virginia ECNL Girls records so far

1. VDA 9-5-4
2. Mclean 8-6-4
3. Loudoun 4-10-4
4. BRYC 3-15-0

Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:12     Subject: VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:Who is Boy King?


Yea, who is boy king....... I think I know...but......
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:11     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Even the long term parents/players have stated this year is bad ... parents/players from other clubs have even noticed the decline.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:09     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.


Ignore it, Not a VDA parent, VDA haters trolling this thread
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 23:05     Subject: Re:VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can we stop talking about FCV's insecurity and Loudoun 07s and get back to VDA?


Why cant you talk about you club with the parents on the sideline?


Are you so insecure that you need to be validated anonymously or are you that desperate for praise because your DD is on a soccer team?


Are you seriously on an anonymous soccer board on a specific thread about VDA stating that we shouldn't be discussing VDA soccer here? You have some serious issues......


No, I am saying that the existence of the thread in the first place is narcissistic in nature. The title itself begs for praise and affirmation of a choice they made for where their kids plays soccer.

The title is an attempt to elevate their DD's status by association of playing for the club and seeking confirmation from the online community. For the poster it isn't enough that their DD is on a good soccer team because it is all meaningless unless the online community acknowledge her exceptionalism through praise of her club as also being exceptional.

In short, Mom or Dad are simply fishing for compliments and when we can't brag about our kid specifically we look for the closest thing to praise that she is affiliated with.


Are you sure? I thought the thread was started as a joke.


Started so that parents can bash VDA. It's a thing, always has been.


It's not bashing VDA if the comments are true. They have a few idiot coaches driving it to the ground.


Clearly have not been with VDA long, far better now than it has been.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2020 22:59     Subject: VDA will be the destination club

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why is BRYC so bad?


Ask the new VDA director.


HA HA !! That is so funny ... cause it's TRUE!!
Not sure when the VDA director will see his new hire was a mistake.