Anonymous
Post 12/02/2020 01:07     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Ha ha ha no. He lied to the press about it being a temporary tattoo for a film.

I mean, did you get that? He got a real tattoo, and then when the press asked about this obvious mid-life cry for help, he lied to them saying it was only temporary, as though nobody would notice the giant colorful dragon on his back for the entire rest of his life. !!!!

That said, I really enjoyed his movie The Way Back and I do wish him the best. I would try as hard as I could to dissuade anyone I liked from every dating him, but that was a lovely film.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 23:59     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Bottom line though, the man is a genius creatively. I'm sure that is interesting to be around.


I mean,


Nasty.

I remember Jennifer’s quote about that tattoo he got in Vanity Fair after the divorce.


Hahah wait what? I thought that tattoo was fake and for a movie? He is not classy or a snob with that thing on his back!
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:45     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Bottom line though, the man is a genius creatively. I'm sure that is interesting to be around.


I mean,


Nasty.

I remember Jennifer’s quote about that tattoo he got in Vanity Fair after the divorce.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:38     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Bottom line though, the man is a genius creatively. I'm sure that is interesting to be around.


I mean,
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 21:59     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Bottom line though, the man is a genius creatively. I'm sure that is interesting to be around.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 21:41     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.


Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”


I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.


Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.


Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.


And the next girl thinks she’s different and special. And so on and so on.

Gwenyth and J-Lo both ditched him because of his gambling addiction and boozing...and cheating. He screwed his kids’ nanny for godsake. Who in their right mind wants a guy like that?
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 20:50     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.


Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”


I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.


Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.


Yep.
Love bomb, devalue, discard.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 19:21     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Violet (who just turned 15) was an oopsie
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 17:17     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.


Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”


I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.


Classic Narcissist. His addictions go hand and hand with it.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 16:53     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.


Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”


I remember this statement. I thought it was the absolute most revealing thing either of them said about the other and the most truthful. It was kind of devastating too.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 16:35     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.


Here's the quote I was talking about, from the post-break-up Vanity Fair article:

"He’s the most brilliant person in any room, the most charismatic, the most generous. He’s just a complicated guy. I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 16:12     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Jen once said something like it was the best feeling in the world when you were the center of Ben's attention, you could just bask in that spotlight forever. It was exhilarating and made you feel more alive than you had ever been before. But then when you lost his attention/affection ... that was the other side of the coin and terrible feeling.

I mean, good luck to them, but I would not be saying stuff like "he never acted that way with Jenn." Ben has got some problems and I would not romanticize this dude, any relationship with him is a huge risk and do not expect stability. He is an addict and a gambler to boot, so I don't understand why women here are romanticizing him.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 15:49     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Ummmm looks to me like she's already pregnant.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 15:47     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben isn’t having a kid with anyone. He has a family with Jen: that’s his family. No more babies. He’ll have girlfriends who will come and go, and maybe once he’s old and tired he will settle down with another woman who will take care of him as he ages.


Yes he will. I would bet money on it. These two will have kids or she'll move on.


She will move on.

Despite his addiction and lack of restraint, he’s a traditional guy with traditional values. He’s also a snob. He doesn’t want multiple baby mamas.

Upper class folk (think: law firm partner) might have multiple wives or girlfriends, but they only have kids with one woman. That’s his family. He respects Jen as a mother to their kids. He won’t add step siblings to the mix.

I agree that he is traditional and a bit of a snob. But he’s a sloppy addict so I think unless Jen got him to get a vasectomy on the way out (which maybe she did) he might pop up with another “oopsie baby.”


Having unprotected sex with your 30-yo live-in girlfriend for months on end isn't an "oops". It's a deliberate pregnancy by both parties involved.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 14:01     Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben isn’t having a kid with anyone. He has a family with Jen: that’s his family. No more babies. He’ll have girlfriends who will come and go, and maybe once he’s old and tired he will settle down with another woman who will take care of him as he ages.


Yes he will. I would bet money on it. These two will have kids or she'll move on.



+1 It's clear he's madly in love with her. So if she wants kids, they'll have kids. I feel terrible for Jennifer Garner, he never acted that way with her.

https://www.laineygossip.com/ben-affleck-ana-de-armas-back-on-dog-walk-second-wave-covid-19/67575


+2. Jennifer Garner did an interview once saying Ben had wanted a 4th child, but she was done. If Ana wants kids, they'll have kids. And, agree, he never acted that way with Jen G.