Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 15:47     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Both of DH's parents have passed, He inherited about $30K. More than he ever thought he would get. This was a welcome and greatly appreciated surprise - it helped us fund our DS special ed private school education.

I stand to inherit about $1.5M, combination of investments and real estate. My two siblings I am assuming will get equal to what I am standing to inherit. And if for some reason my parents changed their will to reflect one of us getting less than the others, we have all agreed to make it even for all 3 of us in the end.

I plan to pass a lot (not all) of this inheritance on to our children.


We inherited different amounts from my parents. Guess which kids were the ones who kept in contact with my parents over the years? Those that didn’t inherit, hasn’t had contact with them for a very long time.


Sounds like you come from a very dysfunctional family. I bet the ones that cut off contact could care less if they received an inheritance...and those who got an inheritance sold themselves out to get it.


These are often the greediest and grabbiest folks.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 13:45     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Both of DH's parents have passed, He inherited about $30K. More than he ever thought he would get. This was a welcome and greatly appreciated surprise - it helped us fund our DS special ed private school education.

I stand to inherit about $1.5M, combination of investments and real estate. My two siblings I am assuming will get equal to what I am standing to inherit. And if for some reason my parents changed their will to reflect one of us getting less than the others, we have all agreed to make it even for all 3 of us in the end.

I plan to pass a lot (not all) of this inheritance on to our children.


We inherited different amounts from my parents. Guess which kids were the ones who kept in contact with my parents over the years? Those that didn’t inherit, hasn’t had contact with them for a very long time.


Sounds like you come from a very dysfunctional family. I bet the ones that cut off contact could care less if they received an inheritance...and those who got an inheritance sold themselves out to get it.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 13:45     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Both of DH's parents have passed, He inherited about $30K. More than he ever thought he would get. This was a welcome and greatly appreciated surprise - it helped us fund our DS special ed private school education.

I stand to inherit about $1.5M, combination of investments and real estate. My two siblings I am assuming will get equal to what I am standing to inherit. And if for some reason my parents changed their will to reflect one of us getting less than the others, we have all agreed to make it even for all 3 of us in the end.

I plan to pass a lot (not all) of this inheritance on to our children.


We inherited different amounts from my parents. Guess which kids were the ones who kept in contact with my parents over the years? Those that didn’t inherit, hasn’t had contact with them for a very long time.


PP here. We are a very close-knit family. My parents are immigrants who came to the US in the 60's with not a dime in their pockets - literally not a dime. Together they built a successful business and taught us the value of money, and family. Have we had periods of dysfunction over the years? yes. But in the end we always came together because blood is thicker than water and family is all that matters. My dad passed a month ago, and I do wish that my mom would spend down some of the fortune they've built but she won't. it's just not her nature. She does "give" a lot of her/their money away to various charities, which is totally okay with me.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 13:01     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:Both of DH's parents have passed, He inherited about $30K. More than he ever thought he would get. This was a welcome and greatly appreciated surprise - it helped us fund our DS special ed private school education.

I stand to inherit about $1.5M, combination of investments and real estate. My two siblings I am assuming will get equal to what I am standing to inherit. And if for some reason my parents changed their will to reflect one of us getting less than the others, we have all agreed to make it even for all 3 of us in the end.

I plan to pass a lot (not all) of this inheritance on to our children.


We inherited different amounts from my parents. Guess which kids were the ones who kept in contact with my parents over the years? Those that didn’t inherit, hasn’t had contact with them for a very long time.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 12:10     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Both of DH's parents have passed, He inherited about $30K. More than he ever thought he would get. This was a welcome and greatly appreciated surprise - it helped us fund our DS special ed private school education.

I stand to inherit about $1.5M, combination of investments and real estate. My two siblings I am assuming will get equal to what I am standing to inherit. And if for some reason my parents changed their will to reflect one of us getting less than the others, we have all agreed to make it even for all 3 of us in the end.

I plan to pass a lot (not all) of this inheritance on to our children.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2019 11:55     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

My parents were also immigrants who arrived with $20ish in their pockets and received no inheritance. There was a house but the y gave it to a relative who remained in their home country. My IL s did not share that info with dh but they prob didn't inherit much.

We expect nothing from them but again they refuse to talk to us abou t their estate. My parents will leave us enough too find ou r kids education.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 18:25     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:I'll probably be given $1 when my parents pass.

If things keep going in the same path, and DH and I die at 90, our two DDs will inherit about $90M.

Trump2020


I despise Trump. I inherited a great deal from Trump haters and my kids will get the same (inheritance from a Trump hater)

Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 18:13     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

I assume my mother did. I might, but I’m not sure. I assume I will. ????
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 17:50     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Anonymous wrote:My parents are in their early 70s and have told us recently that they have about $5 million in assets. They are in good health and I hope they live a long time and spend every penny they worked hard for, whenever they pass my sister and I will each get half. I’m planning and hoping for zero and a lot of time with my folks.


We are in the same boat as you with my parents in their late 60’s and assets I have to guess in the $20+ million range. They have two homes worth about $6 million in total with no debt and I know that the homes are not a high percent of their assets so the $20 is a guess. They never inherited anything and we are good savers plus they are already very generous with us so I’d love for them to spend it on themselves and give it away to people who really need it.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 14:41     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

I'll probably be given $1 when my parents pass.

If things keep going in the same path, and DH and I die at 90, our two DDs will inherit about $90M.

Trump2020
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 13:20     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

My parents are in their early 70s and have told us recently that they have about $5 million in assets. They are in good health and I hope they live a long time and spend every penny they worked hard for, whenever they pass my sister and I will each get half. I’m planning and hoping for zero and a lot of time with my folks.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 12:39     Subject: Re:Will you and DH get an inheritance?

My mom got a few thousand from her parents and MIL got probably 50k from hers. We aren’t counting on inheriting anything but will probably see anywhere from $500k to a few million when we’re in our 70s.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 12:36     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

Neither my parents nor DH's received one. We won't from mine (just crossing my fingers there isn't a bill), and will get some from DH's, but that number could range from a few hundred thousand to a few million.

We're not planning on receiving anything and should be able to pass along a few million to DD.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 11:40     Subject: Re:Will you and DH get an inheritance?

My parents didn't get an inheritance. Not sure, but I think we'll get a few hundred thousand from DH's parents and anywhere from zero to a few million from mine. Hoping they all live long enough to spend it all themselves.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2019 11:06     Subject: Will you and DH get an inheritance?

No, my parents didn't receive an inheritance, and I can't imagine that I'll receive anything either. I'm just crossing my fingers that I don't have to support my parents someday, as my father just declared bankruptcy a few weeks ago.