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Anonymous wrote:Can't you get ticketed for having cans out in the alley on non-pickup days? We have a similar problem where the developer built our driveway just long enough for two cars, but no space for cans. So ours stay out all week. Luckily our neighbors on both sides don't mind our cans going in their driveway. (Of course we also aren't supposed to have city pick up, but where the private hauler cans would go is a mystery. We are just renters, but don't want to risk losing our parking so we don't say anything.)

No, not in DC. Unless there designated neighborhoods that have that have too, but for the most part all the DC neighborhood leave them in the alley 24/7. My alley specifically is wide enough for can and for a car to get through.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. We had no idea this was private property; it's a strip of grass outside his fenced-in back yard. We saw cans there the first time we put out our trash out 10+ years ago, as well as cans on other similar patches of grass up and down the alley. It's been the convention on the block that these patches of land outside of fenced-in yards are where cans get picked up on trash day. Anywhere from 1 to 3 houses' cans are on a given patch. It wasn't until this new neighbor told me that this patch outside his fence is his private property that it occurred to us: technically, these patches aren't all part of the alley's communal space (at least, not according to this neighbor).

No one is questioning that he has the right to dictate whether and how his property is used by others. He's just not generating any good will here.

This is the convention in our alley as well. The alley has a narrow part and a wider part -- any cans in the narrow part would block all cars (and the trash truck). Neighbors cluster their cans on certain unused strips that are most likely on the lots of certain houses but unused. Nobody seems to have an issue with it, for obvious reasons. Sorry that you had a newcomer ruin it! Hopefully you can move your cans to another spot.

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without obstructing the path of vehicles moving up and down the alley

Then, obstruct. See how that works for everyone

Anonymous wrote:This thread is agonizingly confusing. 13 pages in and I still don't understand what OP's yard looks like.

Leave the cans in the alley. DPW will just put them back behind the truck after they empty them. Easy.

Anonymous wrote:Can't you get ticketed for having cans out in the alley on non-pickup days? We have a similar problem where the developer built our driveway just long enough for two cars, but no space for cans. So ours stay out all week. Luckily our neighbors on both sides don't mind our cans going in their driveway. (Of course we also aren't supposed to have city pick up, but where the private hauler cans would go is a mystery. We are just renters, but don't want to risk losing our parking so we don't say anything.)

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Lots can be really weird in DC. Her house could be landlocked and have a narrow passage over other lots, instead of having her own fence facing the alley. From what she's explained, it would be possible to change the fence, but all 3 neighbors would have to do it together.

Or OP can do a cutout on just her portion of the fence.

Again, OP may not even have a fence on the alley. She may access the alley over a neighbor's lot.

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Anonymous wrote: This is a perfect example of mememe attitudes and a lot of community and it takes a village BS. This person expects this new neighbor to be neighborly and show a sense of community towards him but he had no idea that there was even a new neighbor. Op hasn’t reached out to speak to that person since. . Yet, there is some kind of expectation that this new person is supposed to be neighborly in return. While I can’t guarantee it, I bet the new neighbors would have been willing to share the grassy area had people come up to them and welcome them to the neighborhood and been cordial from the beginning.

Ps- apologies for the typos and if some sentences don’t make sense. I forgot my glasses!

Op stated upthread that they didn’t know they had a new neighbor. Learn to read.

You learn to read genius -- that was what the pp said and part of his/her point: THAT OP DID NOT EVEN KNOW THERE WAS A NEW NEIGHBOR!!!!!.

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Anonymous wrote: This is a perfect example of mememe attitudes and a lot of community and it takes a village BS. This person expects this new neighbor to be neighborly and show a sense of community towards him but he had no idea that there was even a new neighbor. Op hasn’t reached out to speak to that person since. . Yet, there is some kind of expectation that this new person is supposed to be neighborly in return. While I can’t guarantee it, I bet the new neighbors would have been willing to share the grassy area had people come up to them and welcome them to the neighborhood and been cordial from the beginning.

Ps- apologies for the typos and if some sentences don’t make sense. I forgot my glasses!

Op stated upthread that they didn’t know they had a new neighbor. Learn to read.

Anonymous wrote: This is a perfect example of mememe attitudes and a lot of community and it takes a village BS. This person expects this new neighbor to be neighborly and show a sense of community towards him but he had no idea that there was even a new neighbor. Op hasn’t reached out to speak to that person since. . Yet, there is some kind of expectation that this new person is supposed to be neighborly in return. While I can’t guarantee it, I bet the new neighbors would have been willing to share the grassy area had people come up to them and welcome them to the neighborhood and been cordial from the beginning.

Ps- apologies for the typos and if some sentences don’t make sense. I forgot my glasses!

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. This is the most entertaining thread ever, with nuggets of very helpful insights. Thanks, DCUM forum. The odd thing is we had no idea this new neighbor existed until months after he moved in, and the previous resident didn't mind us leaving them there. We didn't know there was a new occupant in that house.

We can't modify the fence because--and this is tough to explain in text--the sides and back of the fence are indeed shared with two other houses. The fence predates our arrival. If the three of us had the cash, maybe we'd collectively tear it down and start over. We all are affected by this new neighbor's position (it's not just our trash cans). He has his property deed on his side, and none of us dispute that. As for generating the good will of his new neighbors, well, that's another story...

It’s possible to cut out a gate without affecting the rest of the fence. Might not be cheap, but that’s not your neighbor’s problem.

Do you at least acknowledge now that you’re not actually “entitled” (your original word) to put your trash on his property?