Anonymous
09/09/2016 13:27
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Great update! Arrogance and "I know I'm so hot" attitude is a total turn off.
guy here, and speaking from experience, one woman's "arrogance" = another woman's confidence
PP here and I agree -- to a certain point.
Anonymous
09/09/2016 13:24
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Just looked up TI. So fucking nasty
Anonymous
09/09/2016 12:49
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
OP, I'm the poster who suggested you be coy about being from Connecticut way back on page 1. I hadn't ready any of the follow ups and wondered why the thread got so big. I am really glad that it was 2 parts people giving advice, 2 parts people being excited and only 1 part pearl clutching.
I had a mail delivery guy at my old office who was like this. He actually worked for the company, though, so when the crush ran its course it was awkward because I still had to see him on the reg.
I'm sorry TI Mailman has turned out to be a dud, but I think this is one of the best threads since the Bobcat girl.
I had a mail delivery guy at my old office who was like this. He actually worked for the company, though, so when the crush ran its course it was awkward because I still had to see him on the reg.
I'm sorry TI Mailman has turned out to be a dud, but I think this is one of the best threads since the Bobcat girl.
Anonymous
09/09/2016 12:36
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Great update! Arrogance and "I know I'm so hot" attitude is a total turn off.
guy here, and speaking from experience, one woman's "arrogance" = another woman's confidence
Anonymous
09/09/2016 12:36
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
I've really enjoyed this thread OP, and here's another male perspective
this was a power play on his part. what's clear is that you aren't the first (or the last) one he's hit on. he know that you that you were totally into him - he probably has a high EQ and is pretty observant. He wanted you to tell him that you were really into him - obviously for the ego boost - so that we would be in the dominate position over you (figuratively speaking..and I suppose literally too if he got his way).
what matters is what you want - if you want to bang this guy, then go after him but do so being the one completely in control. if you don't want a ONS or a fling (and there is nothing wrong with that at all), just turn your attention elsewhere and if (when) you run into hi next time, just carry a "I don't give a sh*t" attitude and see how much that drives him bonkers.
this was a power play on his part. what's clear is that you aren't the first (or the last) one he's hit on. he know that you that you were totally into him - he probably has a high EQ and is pretty observant. He wanted you to tell him that you were really into him - obviously for the ego boost - so that we would be in the dominate position over you (figuratively speaking..and I suppose literally too if he got his way).
what matters is what you want - if you want to bang this guy, then go after him but do so being the one completely in control. if you don't want a ONS or a fling (and there is nothing wrong with that at all), just turn your attention elsewhere and if (when) you run into hi next time, just carry a "I don't give a sh*t" attitude and see how much that drives him bonkers.
Anonymous
09/09/2016 12:31
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Who is ti?
to's brother.
dying...
Anonymous
09/09/2016 11:52
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Who is ti?
I bet Google knows the answer.
Anonymous
09/09/2016 11:51
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Who is ti?
to's brother.
Anonymous
09/09/2016 11:49
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
I think (hope?) he'll show up, and flirting will resume.
Regardless, this thread reminded me of the law firm (hot) garage attendant some 20 years ago with whom I flirted shamelessly but always felt shy; he invited me to a US/Ecuador soccer match after work one night, and despite my colleagues misgivings, I went and had a blast. We never consummated anything, and I relocated shortly thereafter. Now I find myself wondering whatever happened to Jorge....
Regardless, this thread reminded me of the law firm (hot) garage attendant some 20 years ago with whom I flirted shamelessly but always felt shy; he invited me to a US/Ecuador soccer match after work one night, and despite my colleagues misgivings, I went and had a blast. We never consummated anything, and I relocated shortly thereafter. Now I find myself wondering whatever happened to Jorge....
Anonymous
09/09/2016 11:41
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Who is ti?
Anonymous
09/09/2016 11:32
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, what celeb does he most closely resemble?
OP here.
TI!
Oooooh NICE!!!
Anonymous
09/09/2016 10:38
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Anonymous wrote:OP, what celeb does he most closely resemble?
OP here.
TI!
Anonymous
09/09/2016 10:34
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
I bet $5 that he will make another appearance of some sort...
Anonymous
09/09/2016 10:31
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
OP, what celeb does he most closely resemble?
Anonymous
09/09/2016 10:27
Subject: Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?
Super fun thread, OP! Let us know if he makes another appearance, or if anybody else catches your eye!