Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Let me say this with 100% complete honesty. I am not being snarky right now, I promise. The reason people are mocking you has absolutely nothing to do with your being overwhelmed by caring for your kids. There are posts on here every day from people saying similar things and getting lots of support. It's also not your English proficiency, or your medical condition.
The reason why you are mocked is this: your very strange, entitled, defensive attitude, exemplified by the bizarre inconsistencies in your posts; the way you lash out at anyone who criticizes you; the way you seem to be in constant conflict with various people (your neighbors, friends, strangers in public, and most of DCUM) and yet never acknowledge being part of the cause; your insistence that you have made all of the right decisions despite being apparently miserable most of the time; and most of all, your constant excuses for why you can't change anything you feel is bad in your life. I guarantee that nobody would make cracks about your writing or your psoriasis or your skills as a mom if you came across as a sincere and reasonable person. A little humility goes a long way. Write me off as another typical DCUM bitch if you want, but I am telling you the truth in as non-insulting a way as I possibly can.
PP here. I meant to quote OP's prior post where she said something about how she is mocked for her skills as a mom. But it was too long of a post to quote and write more. But you get the idea.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In her lovely noble people thread, someone responds:
"I dunno. I volunteer, just not at a non-profit. I am kind of content with being a regular nice person. Holding doors for people, thanking the bus driver, visiting people when their kid is in the hospital, saying hello/thankyou to doormen, tipping well in restaurants, giving positive feedback when deserved, etc. That stuff alone is a big effort for me."
And her reply?
"And to the PP that says that holding a door and saying thank you is hard work, WOW! That's scary.. I hope you're not passing this behavior for your children."
Any of you still feel sorry for her? What a complete asshole.
So you think that tipping and holding the door is a big effort?
Anonymous wrote:Now I'm totally confused!!! If OP can't work at all because of a disability, how is she going to be able to go out and volunteer all the time? Surely if you have the energy and capability to do that, you could work part time. Now I'm convinced OP is definitely just making stuff up to get people all riled up. Good on you OP. You may be the most successful troll ever.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you being vile on purpose or you're not following the thread?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Really?
All the same person?
CL Lady
handicapped tags/w psoriasis
safety concerns in area like Tysons
watering upstairs neighbor dripping on balcony
unpaid vacation
All the same. THey all sounded the same. THat's what I've gleaned from this thread. Am I missing any?
There was something about an MRI and falling asleep during it..
OP here. I tried starting a thread about noble people doing good things while ago but obviously that one didn't fly. People around here have nothing noble or honorable to share. All they want is to humiliate others and make them feel even worse for their failures.
What failures? Your husband is a model employee that every employer wants to have but who was lured into some kind of a Kafkian company. While it is unclear whether you are as similar to Steve Jobs as your husband is, there are certainly no admitted failures on your part.
To my shame, I am actually following the thread with great interest and I have posted before. I don't remember a single post where you acknowledged any kind of 'failure' on your or your husband's part. It was all about the evil company, and later, evil posters.
Didn't you read the thread where I talk about being a failure as a mother not being able to care for my 2 children? Why do you think people are mocking me here?
Anonymous wrote:Let me say this with 100% complete honesty. I am not being snarky right now, I promise. The reason people are mocking you has absolutely nothing to do with your being overwhelmed by caring for your kids. There are posts on here every day from people saying similar things and getting lots of support. It's also not your English proficiency, or your medical condition.
The reason why you are mocked is this: your very strange, entitled, defensive attitude, exemplified by the bizarre inconsistencies in your posts; the way you lash out at anyone who criticizes you; the way you seem to be in constant conflict with various people (your neighbors, friends, strangers in public, and most of DCUM) and yet never acknowledge being part of the cause; your insistence that you have made all of the right decisions despite being apparently miserable most of the time; and most of all, your constant excuses for why you can't change anything you feel is bad in your life. I guarantee that nobody would make cracks about your writing or your psoriasis or your skills as a mom if you came across as a sincere and reasonable person. A little humility goes a long way. Write me off as another typical DCUM bitch if you want, but I am telling you the truth in as non-insulting a way as I possibly can.
Anonymous wrote:In her lovely noble people thread, someone responds:
"I dunno. I volunteer, just not at a non-profit. I am kind of content with being a regular nice person. Holding doors for people, thanking the bus driver, visiting people when their kid is in the hospital, saying hello/thankyou to doormen, tipping well in restaurants, giving positive feedback when deserved, etc. That stuff alone is a big effort for me."
And her reply?
"And to the PP that says that holding a door and saying thank you is hard work, WOW! That's scary.. I hope you're not passing this behavior for your children."
Any of you still feel sorry for her? What a complete asshole.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's right here. And it was not pretty what she did:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/253375.page
I have a serious question about that thread. If there is universal health care in the country the doctor was working in, how was he treating them for free? Wouldn't the care be free to the patients anyway?
Anonymous wrote:It's right here. And it was not pretty what she did:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/253375.page
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Really?
All the same person?
CL Lady
handicapped tags/w psoriasis
safety concerns in area like Tysons
watering upstairs neighbor dripping on balcony
unpaid vacation
All the same. THey all sounded the same. THat's what I've gleaned from this thread. Am I missing any?
There was something about an MRI and falling asleep during it..
OP here. I tried starting a thread about noble people doing good things while ago but obviously that one didn't fly. People around here have nothing noble or honorable to share. All they want is to humiliate others and make them feel even worse for their failures.
IIRC, that thread was actually all about people (starting with you) talking about the noble things THEY themselves had done. Tooting your own horn about the noble and selfless things you do pretty much takes you out of the category of being noble and selfless. Why am I not surprised that you don't get that?
I think you would get along very well with the "Why are you deleting my posts?" woman. Her blog is about as well-written as your posts, and equally clueless.
Yeah, I actually just wrote on that thread: "Who thinks this is CL?" but then I remembered CL has 2 kids and that other chick has 1. Unless, this is something CL has also "mixed up" to throw us off the chase? Hmmm....