Anonymous
06/10/2018 14:42
Subject: Re:Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Ross Geller?
Anonymous
06/10/2018 14:34
Subject: Re:Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Nope! Don't care for reasoning/excuses, either.
Anonymous
06/10/2018 14:32
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
No.
My XH is now twice divorced. He wails that he’ll never find love again.
My XH is now twice divorced. He wails that he’ll never find love again.
Anonymous
06/10/2018 14:27
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Anonymous wrote:I knew someone with two good explanations:
First marriage arranged and they had nothing in common,
Second marriage was to a women who was also recovering from an arranged, but abusive marriage. She had trust issues and they thought that the common histories of rebelling against arranged marriages would be enough. What he didn't realize is that she was tremendously scarred from the domestic violence.
Now he is married and in his 50s. Wife and kids, however, this wife is ill and will likely not live very long.
So he might have three reasonable excuses.
How is the first one a good excuse? If you don’t have anything in common, you don’t date and marry. Horrible excuse.
I don’t buy the second excuse either. He should have dated her long enough to know she had issues.
The guy is a loser who can’t accept responsibility for his poor choice in spouses.
Anonymous
06/10/2018 14:05
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Anonymous wrote:I think it is somewhat situation.
I know a woman who married her boyfriend at 18 to get out of an abusive home. They amicably divorced about 2 years later as the marriage had happened fast and for all the wrong reasons, they were too young and immature and it should have just been a dating relationship that ended after high school.
She got married again at 28 and had two kids. Her husband was a narcissist and emotionally and financially abusive. He left her for another woman after ten years of marriage. They got divorced (she was 39).
About ten years later once both her kids had gone to college she met a man and they dated and lived together for a few years and got married when she was in her early 50s. She found out some information that told her he had not been honest with her about some pretty serious things and that he was involved in things she didn't want anything to do with (kind of a white collared criminal scenario). So they divorced.
She is now 70. I doubt she will marry again although she is looking for a long term relationship but I don't think the 3 divorces are major red flags.
I think those are red flags for bad choices, bad judgement and bad luck, run away!
Anonymous
06/10/2018 13:21
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
No
Anonymous
06/10/2018 11:49
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Is she hot?
Anonymous
06/10/2018 10:20
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
I think it is somewhat situation.
I know a woman who married her boyfriend at 18 to get out of an abusive home. They amicably divorced about 2 years later as the marriage had happened fast and for all the wrong reasons, they were too young and immature and it should have just been a dating relationship that ended after high school.
She got married again at 28 and had two kids. Her husband was a narcissist and emotionally and financially abusive. He left her for another woman after ten years of marriage. They got divorced (she was 39).
About ten years later once both her kids had gone to college she met a man and they dated and lived together for a few years and got married when she was in her early 50s. She found out some information that told her he had not been honest with her about some pretty serious things and that he was involved in things she didn't want anything to do with (kind of a white collared criminal scenario). So they divorced.
She is now 70. I doubt she will marry again although she is looking for a long term relationship but I don't think the 3 divorces are major red flags.
I know a woman who married her boyfriend at 18 to get out of an abusive home. They amicably divorced about 2 years later as the marriage had happened fast and for all the wrong reasons, they were too young and immature and it should have just been a dating relationship that ended after high school.
She got married again at 28 and had two kids. Her husband was a narcissist and emotionally and financially abusive. He left her for another woman after ten years of marriage. They got divorced (she was 39).
About ten years later once both her kids had gone to college she met a man and they dated and lived together for a few years and got married when she was in her early 50s. She found out some information that told her he had not been honest with her about some pretty serious things and that he was involved in things she didn't want anything to do with (kind of a white collared criminal scenario). So they divorced.
She is now 70. I doubt she will marry again although she is looking for a long term relationship but I don't think the 3 divorces are major red flags.
Anonymous
06/10/2018 10:16
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
I knew someone with two good explanations:
First marriage arranged and they had nothing in common,
Second marriage was to a women who was also recovering from an arranged, but abusive marriage. She had trust issues and they thought that the common histories of rebelling against arranged marriages would be enough. What he didn't realize is that she was tremendously scarred from the domestic violence.
Now he is married and in his 50s. Wife and kids, however, this wife is ill and will likely not live very long.
So he might have three reasonable excuses.
First marriage arranged and they had nothing in common,
Second marriage was to a women who was also recovering from an arranged, but abusive marriage. She had trust issues and they thought that the common histories of rebelling against arranged marriages would be enough. What he didn't realize is that she was tremendously scarred from the domestic violence.
Now he is married and in his 50s. Wife and kids, however, this wife is ill and will likely not live very long.
So he might have three reasonable excuses.
Anonymous
06/10/2018 10:10
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Absolutely not, only ckmmon demoninator in the 3 divorces is that person. Run like hell
Anonymous
05/23/2017 15:47
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
No. and I am divorced.
Anonymous
05/23/2017 15:46
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
WHY revive a 6 year old thread to write "No"???
Anonymous
05/23/2017 15:13
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Married someone 15 years older who had been married twice. Been together 12 years and very happy
Anonymous
05/23/2017 12:53
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
Yep! Bring on the divorcees. Beggars can't be fussy
Anonymous
05/23/2017 12:50
Subject: Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???
What people say and what they actually do are sometimes two different things. I've met girls who say they will never hook up with a multiple divorcee and next minute, they in love with a bloke whose been married multiple times, heaps of kids and no job. Serious! Emotions of love can override logic. I'd date and marry someone who has been married and divorced 3 times or more. The more the merrier!